Family - December 2007

Whenever we're watching tv while eating, and whenever there is sort of like a useless pathetic character in a show. I am thinking that he thinks that is what I am. Or if I see a guy being submissively helpful to a father like washing his feet when he hurt his leg. I think he's wishing that would be me.

2007-12-04 14:45:28 · 11 answers · asked by 2nd Commander 1

She says "Let me worry about it"

2007-12-04 14:34:12 · 10 answers · asked by Teri H 1

He was found to be emotionally and verbally abusive towards her by CPS...however, the judge ordered him to get therapy over the summer months and resume visitation in the fall to reconcile with our daughter. He's disowned her instead. He won't let his family contact her nor will he or his family accept any type of contact by her or by me. She is feeling depressed and abandoned. She hides it well but some times she'll talk to me about missing the good side of her dad. She's asked me to have my b/f adopt her once were married. Since her father has disowned her she no longer wants his last name. I fear she may have abandenment issues later on or even now and get herself into trouble looking for a man to substitute as her dad. I also worry too much as it is...she's been in therapy but says she no longer needs it. I'm not so sure that she should quit therapy. How can I help her? I can't believe her father did this to her...I'm speechless.

2007-12-04 14:16:33 · 12 answers · asked by HeavenlyAngel 3

She has lied to me about nothing at all. Said she called but it didnt show on our phone.Ask for baby sitting help. I blew off the nephew to help her and she didnt call to cancel. Dismissed me from my own son's room after she lied about the reason she wanted to visit the room. She and her sister blocked me from going into the babies room after she bathed him. I was made to stand in the hall outside of the bathroom after his bath. Threatened to move to Albany. So I said goodbye and my prayers will reach her and the baby.(I didnt want to appear hurt)What's a mother to do?

2007-12-04 14:15:02 · 4 answers · asked by Angel G 5

I live in NJ & My son and his Girlfrien live in Nh and they are expecting December 15 and i can not be there, can some one tell me ways i can see the birth via comp or any other way? Technology is so great now there has to be a setup we can do

2007-12-04 14:07:18 · 6 answers · asked by mypips33 1

I was told when I was little that my twin sister died at birth, and I was the only one who made it. As it turns out, she was exchanged for a dead baby by a couple who wanted a child. Then, when I was in 7th grade, I met her. Now, I didn't know at that time that she was my twin. But we felt like there was a strong bond between us. Like I knew she was "half of my soul." Can you guys explain that? I mean we just felt kinda warm toward each other. Like we've known each other since our childhood? I had that feeling--the link, the connection--but I still didn't know she was my twin sister.

PS
Turns out, the couple's conscience couldn't shut up for years since then, and she was asking why she bore no resemblance to any member of the family. So, as hard as it was for them to say goodbye to her, they explained the whole thing to her, and traced us. They told us too. Till then, we had no idea.

2007-12-04 14:04:15 · 3 answers · asked by Chichiri 1

visition?? over night visits?? weekend??

2007-12-04 13:48:16 · 7 answers · asked by ♥cutemamma♥ 6

Why do men show extreme disinterest? I am a single mother of a wonderful one year old little boy. I left his father when he was 5 months. Our safety was questionable so I packed up and left. Since the day I left I had always sent emails with pictures to his father and his family. Not once has he ever responded... 45 emails sent! I never prevented visitation and feel that its so important for him to be part of his childs life despite the issues. We live 1,100 miles away and that could be it but there is no excuse no to try. Our son does not receive any kind of support from his father even after I have asked for help. Luckily I have the state on my side.
Why is he doing this? I've done the right thing by keeping him and the rest of his family in touch with our son.

2007-12-04 13:36:07 · 13 answers · asked by Christine 2

I have been deeply thinking of adopting a child. I have been pretty depressed lately, with my career of acting, men I meet not loving me for who I am, and over 6 monthes now, I have still be thinking about adopted a foster child, male from age 13-15. I have just been feeling lonely, and adopting a child and loving him, for what he deserves might be the key of happiness for both of us.

Do you reccomend it?

2007-12-04 13:30:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-04 13:10:21 · 7 answers · asked by CHeay dog 2

I'm the 23 year old daughter of very protective, somewhat overbearing parents. Last year I had planned to move out, but they talked me out of it because my Dad is like paying rent is "flushing your money down the toilet".

But I'm tired of living under their roof and being away from my boyfriend (the Army moved him to Texas). I've decided that this summer I am going to move to Texas.

When should I break the news to them? I'm so afraid they're going to talk me out of it!

2007-12-04 13:07:29 · 6 answers · asked by Original_Syn 6

2007-12-04 13:05:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-04 12:59:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a young grandmother and my grandson will be turning one next month. My daughter is going to have him a baptism/birthday party. I am undecided if I want to go because I do not like her boyfriends family there has been conflict because they are a no good family they do illegal activities. My daughter is 15yrs younger then this guy and I wish she would open her eyes on that environment for her son. I am not in good standings with my daughter because I told her she needs to be responsible and she got upset and stopped talking to me....I have a 2 year old who would enjoy a day at a party,but I don't have the guts to show up...I am confused and I wish i could report this family for all the bad they do....

2007-12-04 12:57:37 · 21 answers · asked by misssy 2

Do you feel close to your step-kids or distant? Do you ever feel like you've lost yourself in the new family?

2007-12-04 12:53:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

she's always says this whenever shes mad. Im in highschool and I had to move in with her cause my dad had a stroke (hes better now, and is living on his own). She always acts childish and gets what she wants. She sold my old house for 700,000 and bought herslef a house. She goes shopping everyday... target, ikea, bed bath and beyond... its a shopping spree everyday for her. She calls me stupid and retarded and makes lies to get her husband on her side. She says shes gonna make me live with my mom (she left me in 6th grade) or my dad, WHO I WANT TO LIVE WITH but the hous ehe lives in is not getting repaired... and is ****. And my mom isn;t getting a b bed room for a year. I need some help.

2007-12-04 11:56:00 · 2 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3

Does no one else matter when it dawns on her that she can make all the little people she wants?

2007-12-04 11:41:42 · 3 answers · asked by Jared 4

I relize this sounds bad and it tears me up inside! everything in me wants to get along with her...and she is so nice to me, she is helping me through law school, she bought me a condo, gives me almost anything I need or want (although I don't ask for much these days)....here's the problem: she had a rough childhood so she never really grew up (personality wise) she is a workaholic so I have issues with her putting her children 2nd after work my entire life. I don't live in the same state as her and everytime I see her we fight like crazy (mostly me getting frustrated, actually I am mean)I get annoyed at her b/c she talks to me like I am 10, she never gives me straight answers and everything is some stupid corny joke. She alwasy has to be the center of attention and is so loud and always trying to make people laugh...she is constantly hyper (it drives me crazy)...she can't calm down to have a normal adult conversation. I feel so guilty because I miss her so much and I love her

2007-12-04 11:38:54 · 21 answers · asked by ~♥ Sicilia D ♥~ 3

I kno its a horrible thing to say. And i feel horrible for having to say it.... but am i wrong???

Im an A+ student, honors, pretty many friends. Hes two yrs younger then me, three grade levels cuz of his bday.
things he does to me:
tells me he hates me
tells me the 40 yr old virgin movie was made after me
im never gonna have a husband
IF i do ill make that person very miserable
im going no where in life
"F**K YOU"
no one likes me
"i hate you"
i wish i dint have to live with you
i wish u were never born
i think im perfect (SOOO OFFF)
and those are just SOME of the things
if i go to talk to him and we get in an argument, i "always have to get the last word in" and heres the thing, ill say something and hel say i have to get the last word in, which IS GETTING THE LAST WORD IN
he punches, slaps, smacks, kicks me.
winds our puppy up and sends her in my room when im on the floor doin hw (dog rips hw w/ nails)

i just cant stand him anymore. wat do i do??

2007-12-04 11:26:24 · 9 answers · asked by AshleyMarie 4

My parents raised me in their church that says no dating until you're 16, and even then no steady dating...only groups. My parents KNOW i dont believe in their church. Then theres this wonderful guy ive known since i was little, and we found we care about each other a lot and started going out in october. We are so close now, and i cant imagine not having him in my life, but the problem is my parents just found out about it, and i dont turn 16 until march. Now they're trying to separate us and i dont know what to do. I've never felt such a oneness with anybody, and now i feel like i'm being ripped in 2 and my other half is being sent through a blender. Since i still live under my parents roof i have to abide by their rules, and i understand that...but how can i make them understand that their beliefs are not my beliefs and that i really do care about this guy? They're convinced its puppy love but they dont even take the time to let me explain it to them. What, if anything, can i do?

2007-12-04 11:23:58 · 3 answers · asked by 90176 1

ok well obviously i dislike my mom's boyfriend, actually..... i HATE him. at first he was ok, but now he's like an evil parasite that won't go away and is ruining my sister and mines life!!! my mom is always going over to his house, and he's hurt her (tried to leave/end it) like five times and she gets so upset. i feel really bad for her but she won't listen to what me and my sister have to say. we try telling her about how its not a healthy relationship and how its hurting me and my sister too, but she always starts bantering about how all relationships are work and none are perfect. but she JUST DOESN'T GET IT!!! he's rude to her and our family, he insults my mothers parenting abilities (which are perfectly fine by the way) and UGH! i want to be like one of those evil step children who puts frogs in their step parents coffee to try and get them to leave. I've been extremely patient with her and her boyfriend, but i've come to the end of my rope. If you have any suggestions, do tell!!

2007-12-04 11:16:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

other than tv, or computer and school, my mom is gone till saturday and i miss her, i have bad seperation anxiety.

2007-12-04 11:16:34 · 34 answers · asked by Rosa 1

My grandma and step grandfather were in a car accident with a younger woman. The younger woman has already been in 4 accidents this year. She didn't even say sorry or ask if my grandparents were okay. My step grandfather's son's son knows the younger woman and she went up to him and said in a very casual tone. "i think i hurt one of your people." I think she should get her liscense revoked or something but what's your opinion on this?

2007-12-04 11:14:45 · 5 answers · asked by Jessi [♥] 3

My mom is leaving town tomorrow and I have so many projects coming up. My mom has a rule that states I cannot "go out" when she is out of town. I have two projects worth about half of my grade coming up and they both require going to my partners' houses.

For my photography project, I have to use her camera to shoot and to develop in the dark room at her house tomorrow, which is the only day available because she has sports almost 24/7.

For my science project, I have to do a science expo board at my friend's house and develop the experiment there. The experiment involved 10 kids taking tests and they all made plans to go to her house on Saturday for our experiment. I asked my mother politely and she responded with an irritated and angry 'no'. She said "No, and that's final! Don't ask again!" Even if it is for school.

I care deeply about my education, how do I convince her?? All of my projects are due next week!

2007-12-04 11:07:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i say that i want to use it she has her own computer but it isn't the best one. i said that i was 5 minutes and she said fine then 5 seconds later she came down and said it's been 5 minutes then i said use your computer but she said it idn't working but i fixed it for her. what can i do to solve this? she is always stalking me to see what ia'm doing she said she will be a bit but she always be's like 4 hours which really ****'s me off!

2007-12-04 11:02:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really want new eye glasses soon but its like i can wait but id be happy if i got them on christmas. Is there anything i can say to convince them in a way that shows that im not being ungrateful for everything i have but still demandnig for new glasses all in a nice way?

2007-12-04 10:07:17 · 9 answers · asked by lileze93 1

I started hearing strange noises coming from his room, so I very quietly opened the door, and there he is, masturbating at porn.I threw the door opened and screamed "WHAT ARE YOU DOING!?".He threw his hands up on the keyboard, trying to shut the porn off, but it was too late.I've taken his computer away and beat him with my belt.Anything else I can do?

2007-12-04 09:47:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My step-dad is one of the greatest guys I know. I may be an adult now, but he has always treated me like his daughter. He got me a job when I needed one, and has helped me out when I couldn't afford to fix my car, and taken me and my boyfriend on trips. Now he and my mom are taking my boyfriend and I to Tahoe to celibrate his birthday, we don't even have to pay for the room. Now that I can afford it, I want to do something really special for him while we are up there. What can I do for him?

2007-12-04 09:39:40 · 6 answers · asked by RedRabbit 7

I have finals next week
I just purchased a new laptop and intended to sell my other one online....

I was in the middle of studying for exams when all of a sudden my mother called telling me i was giving her the wrong password for the computer....that I'm trying to sell

I got in a HUGE ARGUMENT with her and begged her to wait until i got home so i could fix it. I told her i was studying for finals and VERY STRESSED

she must have called me 30 times in the course of a half hour...at one point she wanted me to stop what i was doing drive 2 hours to come home tonight and fix the computer then drive back up to school....so tomorrow she could bring it to the computer store and get all the memory cleared.

I lost it I just started screaming every single curse word in the book at her so loud i think my entire dorm heard me...it was not intentional i just lost it....I must have said the F word to my mother about 30-40 times in one sentence.

I've never acted like this EVER!!!

2007-12-04 09:26:59 · 8 answers · asked by Nnay 1

I've been wanting to move out since I was 25; I'm a 26 year-old-male. I'm the youngest of 3, and I make a good living, but my parents won't let me leave.
I rented a house 5 months ago, but my parents made all of this drama, so I haven't even spent one night there.
For the past 5 months, I've been paying the cable bill and internet service for both my house, and my parent's house. I've been paying rent, phone and utilities for house I don't even live in.
I brought the subject again this week, and they started yelling and sutff, and told me if I left I could never go back, and a lot of bad stuff.
So far, I've only bene using the house for to hang and bring friends over. I' really sick of my 10:00 PM curfew.
I really want to move out, but my parents make it really clear that if it would be under bad terms.

What can I do?

2007-12-04 09:17:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous