I kno its a horrible thing to say. And i feel horrible for having to say it.... but am i wrong???
Im an A+ student, honors, pretty many friends. Hes two yrs younger then me, three grade levels cuz of his bday.
things he does to me:
tells me he hates me
tells me the 40 yr old virgin movie was made after me
im never gonna have a husband
IF i do ill make that person very miserable
im going no where in life
"F**K YOU"
no one likes me
"i hate you"
i wish i dint have to live with you
i wish u were never born
i think im perfect (SOOO OFFF)
and those are just SOME of the things
if i go to talk to him and we get in an argument, i "always have to get the last word in" and heres the thing, ill say something and hel say i have to get the last word in, which IS GETTING THE LAST WORD IN
he punches, slaps, smacks, kicks me.
winds our puppy up and sends her in my room when im on the floor doin hw (dog rips hw w/ nails)
i just cant stand him anymore. wat do i do??
2007-12-04 11:26:24 · 9 answers · asked by AshleyMarie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my parents do kno, they just "dont kno wat to do w/ him anymore"
and hes been doing these things since he was three
btw. he gets C's, D's, and F's on his report card. could that have anyting to do wit it???
2007-12-04 11:28:06 · update #1
he says he hates living wit us and he wants to leave. my parents tell him ok fine leave, cuz hes been like this for 12 yrs, and they can take it nemore. theyve tried counceling, didnt do any good.
theyve also tried the whole taking away stuff. he doesnt care. he doesnt care that he makes me cry sometimes cuz his words r so hurtful. he doesnt care that they take away his stuff. he doesnt care when my parents yell at him. he just doesnt care.
n trust me. u dont know how many times id have loved to give him the finger and kick him where it hurts. he leaves bruses!!
2007-12-04 11:39:19 · update #2
pay close attention! this will work with your brother, but it will work with boy friends as well. he who cares the least wins!! think about it. both are a game of responce .....no responce no game. if you really take the time to understand this,it will help you for the rest of your life ! it's a give and take thing, no one can take what you won't give.. it's the same with letting some one or some thing piss you off. it's your button who or what are YOU going to let push it???
2007-12-04 11:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by clyde t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe talk to your parents more like tell them you have had enough and now they'll have two bad children.
It isn't your job to control him but you should make sure your parents will. If it helps they could just yell at him for a really long time. Generally thats what my mom does and i sound a lot like you, i don't even get into trouble. If he doesn't listen take him to counseling which he'll probably hate --> maybe a good punishment
2007-12-04 20:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by why05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for all the things he does to you. you should kick him where it hurts. If you need to have your girlfriends to help hold him down then you should do that. he needs to be taught a lesson. And if he does not get up after you kick him you and the girls can carry him by the hands and ankles and put him on the bed and tie him there. hope this works.
let me know if you use this solution.
2007-12-05 18:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need to punish him for that behavior. Take away the things that he loves: Ex: Games, computer, tv, friends. For every hurtful thing and/or bad grade, he gets grounded for a week. Force him to go to councling or tell him he will get arrested for assault.
2007-12-04 19:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not at all horrible thing to say. You don't have to be so nice to him. Next time if he says anything like that, just show him a finger. And don't be bothered about his attitude because he sucks anyway.
2007-12-04 19:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by yashQAme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, my bro does that too. Tell ur parents. Dont stand 4 it! I caught my bro on camera saying those things, he is in military school now! I have NEVER benn so happy in my life! :-) i know pretty nasty but whatev.
2007-12-04 19:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing u can do about him, BUT u can prevent future generations of him, by a good swift kick in the balls. then at least he wont be able to reproduce.
2007-12-04 19:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brother need some serious professional help.
2007-12-04 19:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents to give him away. If they can't figure out what to do with him, then there's a big problem there...
2007-12-04 19:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋