I have been deeply thinking of adopting a child. I have been pretty depressed lately, with my career of acting, men I meet not loving me for who I am, and over 6 monthes now, I have still be thinking about adopted a foster child, male from age 13-15. I have just been feeling lonely, and adopting a child and loving him, for what he deserves might be the key of happiness for both of us.
Do you reccomend it?
2007-12-04 13:30:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Alot of you said sex? I never thought of anyone saying that. I would never do anything like that, never.
2007-12-04 13:52:46 · update #1
The perfect situation to bring a child into is one of stability and happiness. I do not want to judge you, only you can decide whether or not you are in a position to give a child a stable home. But what I think I hear from you is that you need to find happiness within yourself. Only then can you share it with another person, be it a child or a partner.
2007-12-04 13:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Pam K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, adopting a child will not be the answer to your problems and not fair to the child. I would suggest two things;
first set your standards for men higher. You do teach people how to treat you. Take a break from men and really focus on your acting career, put your time and energy into that. You're somewhat depressed and discouraged now, that will pass.
Remember you cannot give what you don't have. Love yourself, build your self esteem, raise the bar for yourself and those around you. Make yourself a priority. Once you've mastered that you'll be ready to share your life with a child and help them to develop those very same life skills. Right now you deserve happiness and your focus. Bringing someone else into your life will not fix anything. Fix you, find joy and then share it. Good Luck. Hope to see you on the big screen.
2007-12-04 13:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by big dawg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would try to volunteer with children of different ages. Adopting an older child can be very challenging. By spending time with children you will get closer to the right decision for you.
2007-12-04 13:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A child is never the answer. You need to work things out in your own life first. After you are happy , and worked everything out in your own life , Then think of children. If you are to down and out you may need to see a doctor for it.
2007-12-04 13:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by ldp999000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should adopt a child. It sounds like you want an older boy for sex. NO. It's completely wrong.
2007-12-04 13:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason that the world is so messed up is because people think that having children brings happiness rather than creating their own happiness. Good luck with that.
2007-12-04 13:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by some female 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the hell you want 15 year old. I think you simply want it for sex. Woman go see a head shrink you are a very sick person.
2007-12-04 13:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by Goodhead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like more then just loving him, sounds like you want a sex toy think you really need some help. NO I DON'T RECOMEND IT
2007-12-04 13:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by Toni A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeppyepp!
2007-12-04 13:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋