Family - December 2007

My parents have a terrible history of fighting and they are currnetly going through a divorce.

Well....Last night, they started fighting REALLY bad. I didn't know what could happen next and my dad was screaming so loud I couldn't take it. He was threatening my mom (which is nothing new to me) but it just really scared me this time.

Anyway, I called 911 and left the phone off the hook. The police showed up and stood outside the window recording everything he said to my mom. THey even said 2 of our neighbors called complaining.

Next thing, they come in our house and ARREST my dad!! I felt so terrible but the cop said I did the right thing. What do you guys think? Did I betray my father??

2007-12-05 01:28:41 · 14 answers · asked by **In Love** 4

i cant walk through the door without getting the evil eyes from my step mom
every one says its because i resembel my mom i look and act like her in many ways
my step mom has never liked me and i know i dont want to talk to her becuase she has always has a discust twords me and i have never done any thing besides be me!
i walk through the door and she wants nothing to do with me
what should i do about this should i just leave it i mean im moving in with my mom on friday

2007-12-05 01:18:09 · 20 answers · asked by Kaylee M 1

from his wife, while simutaeusly going after my oldest son thru social services & stealing his fathers estate. He is now testifying against my sister-in-law to get his hands on his granddaughters. They both manipulate my brother 2 call us & son/g/f start trouble with us. They are claiming to people we are going to shoot them with guns because my hubby used to gun hunt yrs ago until a person shot the camper he & our oldest was in. I told both my parents to stop ruining our family gatherings over themselves & pitting people against us. I called once again & told them to stop having my son, girfriend, and brother hurt us over them only to have my father (60s) pick up the phone and cut off the answering machine/unplug the phone and make a handful of phone calls to get people to threaten me. They have a history of using people & want my son to see me badgered by the police for telling them to knock it off. I am being told to blame ALL their behavior on our son. Any suggestions?

2007-12-05 00:53:41 · 3 answers · asked by GoodQuestion 6

Did you talk to your adult extended family relatives when you were a teenager?. I am talking about Uncles, Aunts, and other extended family.

In my extended family the kids really will not bother to talk to their relatives unless it is their parents. I do not even see much communication between the teenagers and Grandpa and Grandma. I have tried and can not even get a grunt out of my teenage relatives. How about you?

2007-12-05 00:30:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay my parents and I do not have a great relationship.
mom-we joke around and laugh but 5 min later were arguing about something and this is everyday. and i talk back and everything because i just get soo pissed all the time.


dad- no relationship what so ever. i don't even try to please him because i don't care. He's been gone away with his job every week and doesnt come home till the weekends (since i was 4)
but when ever he tells me to do something i will do it then and there, but it wouldnt have happend so quickly with my mom. (im most likely afraid he'll hit me)

I'm not sure what to do i try to be this down to earth person and I am. I treat people with so much respect, im smart in school, i don't get into trouble, and im very spritual. what more can you ask for. but yeah there is more. Respecting your parents. I try to do that I REALLY do but it just does not work out. I'm not sure what my problem is or how to fix it but i need to do it fast before I get in "trouble". HELP?

2007-12-05 00:28:39 · 8 answers · asked by lame 2

2007-12-05 00:14:50 · 8 answers · asked by RayAnn F 1

I just got back from the gym(I like going late at night), I went to go take a shower. Keep in mind I was getting ready for my hubby and I's 9 year anniversary of marriage. So after showering I put on my new lingerie, heres the link if you are wondering how it looks, one my favorite lingerie outfits from large collection
http://www.henryandjune.com/hj/stprod.asp?pf_id=6420
I put it on, do my hair, put on make-up, I went all out in sexiness at 1am, I went to my bedroom and my husband was waiting there with candles, silk sheets, rose pedals all over the bed, and bottle of don perignon. It was perfect but he forgot the glasses for the champaign, so I decided to go get them. I usually walk around in my bra and panties at night because my kids are never awake during those hours.
Guess who I see on my way to the kitchen? he just says goodnight and goes to his room quick. Now I had one more reason to get drunk, it was still a good night but we have not spoken about it... what should I do?

2007-12-05 00:07:59 · 25 answers · asked by baccio76 1

I want to get rid of my uncle who smokes like crazy s***s in our toilet evry 2 days and eats out of our fridge so much its not funny but he thinks he's funny me and my dad hate him on a couple of different occasions my dad yells "I want that piece of S*** cancerface (he's had cancer) off my damn couch!" but my mother and sister love him and one of them cry when he leaves he's been here since july and he's gotta go but when i ask my mom can he leave she says "Don't you want him here???" Me and my dad want him to leave what should me and my dad do???

2007-12-04 23:46:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lost my daughter in a house fire on 8/29/07 she was 12 yrs old. I cannot deal with all the drama of my family. I haven't spoke to my family. I have had to deal w/the loss of my daughter, my home and my family. I need help to be forgiving. Any and all suggestions is appreciated. Right now I stay clear of them all, to heal.

2007-12-04 23:36:54 · 21 answers · asked by BQ 1

Lately I have found myself too controlling at home husband kid and to a small amount at work although home is worse.I find myself telling my 7yr old if her bobbles arent straight or if my husband wants someting for dinner he should have something more healthy instead .It drives me mad so god knows how they put up with it.However if I don't say what I am thinking it eats up inside until I have to blurt it out.I never used to be like this

2007-12-04 22:58:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are 4 daughers and one son to our fatther. He is a businessman. we all are married. Now father says only 10% of the property will be given to us and rest 90% will be to his son as every property he earned. Also he made to us sign a agreement that we wont claim in future in his sons property. Now around 30% of property are registered in our mothers name and rest on my father and brother. He also making efforts to register the mothers share on sons name.
Basically our grand father had some property and with that he started business. But now father says everything to his son and he had spend a lot to us for marraige. Can we 4 daughters claim equal share in fathers property, even if he going to write a will for son, our mother also supports us but afraid of father.

2007-12-04 22:29:45 · 15 answers · asked by Radhika2007 1

I'm 26 and my mother is EXTREMELY ANGRY AT ME i ruined her "meat teeth" yesterday ( i clean her teeth daily) and yesterday before mother gave me a bath she told me to clean out her "meat teeth" (the ones she eats meat with) so i cleaned them out and accidentally dropped them in the garbage dissposel !!!!!! I didn't know what to do... So while mother was bathed me i told her " i accidentally ruined your meat teeth" she then loss it and went CRAZY!! The first thing she did was rip me out of the bath and sit me on her lap and give me spanking. She then told me i cant come out of my room and here i am now? How should i handle this? I'm 26 year old man and i do have to go to work tomorow, but mother has me on punishment? How can i get her to stop being angry with me?

2007-12-04 22:13:17 · 14 answers · asked by alex555 1

Ok I am 20 years old and I have a little sister and she is 15. My little sister has just broken my moms heart so bad by writing people on the internet saying she has a bad home and she has to stay in her room all day cause our mom is an alcoholic.Also saying my mom will go off on her for no apparent reason. None of that is true! But my little sister is wanting to go out alone with boys and friends. She has already been caught shoplifting and went to juvinille for and has a court date. And she's also asking on here how do you masterbate? Me and my mom do not know what to do with her anymore. Oh and also my dad is out of the picture. Any advice on what do??? Thankyou so very much!

2007-12-04 19:03:08 · 11 answers · asked by Hurricane 3

My mother recently (August 30th) had a stroke at the relatively young age (for stroke patients) of 63. She's paralyzed on the right side and she is aphasic and aproxic. This is an incredibly stressful / painful time for my sister and I, the two primary caregivers (mom was divorced and lived alone...).

We're at a stage where we need to think about her long-term care options, and are interested in getting perspective from others on the choice between Board and Care versus Nursing facilities. She requires max assist, meaning she needs to be transferred out of bed to be toileted, etc. She has functioning of her left side, and can feed herself and she has decent motor control.

Anyway, please share any thoughts that you might have on the topic. We are hopeful that she will recover, but we are preparing for the potential of a long-term max assist living situation.

Thank you.

2007-12-04 18:15:17 · 7 answers · asked by Brian M 2

My brother has come for a visit. He's gone to bed now and here I am, at the computer, burning CD's for him..... like 15 of them. I thought this whole take advantage of your little sister thing might get better with age. Apparantly not?? Does anyone else have an older sibling like this???

2007-12-04 18:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by ~ luv sis 6

i already tried to talk to my mother but she doest understand my brother think he the boss of the house and every 1 keep blaming thing on me.

2007-12-04 17:58:02 · 9 answers · asked by smiley 1

My husband has 2 kids from a previous marriage. He would like to gain sole custody, but still let their mom see them from time to time, but no over night stays. Reasons: #1 Her last live in boyfriend was a registered sex offender. #2 She smokes marijuana and cigarettes heavily in the house with the kids #3 Received a call from son's teacher yesterday, saying that he is going to be held back in 3rd for the 2nd time if he doesn't start turning in homework. When my husband asked mom about it she said that she's doing all that she can. #4 Mom allows kids to roam unsupervised AFTER DARK through the apartment complex,which is located in a very bad area. My husband called the other day to talk to the kids at 6:30 at night, which half an hour past dark. Long story short, mom was freaking out because when she walked out to the playground give daughter the phone she was gone.She was across the street at a park.She is 6yrs old. (My husband and I have both witnessed these things) Please help.

2007-12-04 17:28:08 · 7 answers · asked by Fire Side Water Side 1

Ok, so your parent fills out a sheet for if they get sick you can do euthanasia..my dad is the first person for his dad then his siblings..is it wrong for me to ask him not to put me on it when he fills out his? I'm going to tell my mom that too, beecause I know I will be the first on her list..

do you want to be on a loved ones list for this?

2007-12-04 17:26:53 · 2 answers · asked by kikeish 1

My uncle moved my dad & I about an hour an a half away from my hometown to be closer to our family. A huge reason that was discussed to why we moved was to help my dad's drinking problem. This took place 1 year and 4 months ago. I saved my uncles life 4 thanksgiving's ago from an overdose of heroin. Little did I know my uncle still is an addict. Not a heavy user like everyday but here an there. Any use of heroin is too much. My dad and uncle aren't only brother's but bestfriends they are both aware of one another's addictions an continue's to hide it for eachother. My uncle promised me a year an four months ago (thinking he was sober himself) that he would get my dad into treatment an everything would be ok. I have a person in my life right now who is off an on seeing my uncle who understand's an is there for me to the fullest. For her own comfort I think she tells me things will be okay but deep down i don't think she knows what to do either? Any advice or help would be great!

2007-12-04 17:20:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my mom and my sister keep arguing most of the time my sister tells my mom really mean things and my mom crys and she dosnt know what to do like right now she left to her job crying because my sister is very disrespectful so
What can i do to help my mom???

2007-12-04 17:18:43 · 4 answers · asked by =] 1

I was notified that my dad died on Thanksgiving. I have not been in his life for 6 yrs, but I have tried numerous times to contact him. I wrote him a letter in early Nov. but never mailed it, so now I have to live with that regret for the rest of my life. Dad was struggling with lung cancer when his home caught fire on Thanksgiving, he died from smoke inhalation. Now my mother is telling me to find out if he had a will or life insurance. I'm struggling with what to do now. All I really want is a few pictures of him, but my mom says I need to get what is rightfully mine. Anyone with some advice???

2007-12-04 16:44:38 · 5 answers · asked by Angie A 1

Ok, well my now fiance and I got engaged last Friday. We kept it to ourselves for the most part, for the first few days. We told just a few very close friends. Well its been 5 days and this is something extremely exciting for me, I wanted to tell the ppl I care about you know? So I kept asking my fiance, hey, when are you gonna tell your parents and my dad? And we just never had the right moment honestly. So tonight I said Brad, I really want to tell everyone. And he said ok, just do it. So I posted a bulletin on my myspace. My myspace is ONLY ppl I personally know! Well his sister saw it and called his mom, and his mom is freaking out. She was screaming crying, etc. I mean, shes upset that he didnt tell her before we got engaged. But thats our decision. Its not like we went out and got married. The wedding is well over a year away! Should we feel guilty? I mean its our choice to be engaged or not, it was going to happen anyway, talking to them or not. I feel so miserable now Should I?

2007-12-04 16:36:07 · 7 answers · asked by Mary 4

2007-12-04 16:02:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I married my husband 2 years ago, I am now 23. He is a very wealthy business owner and has provided me with endless opportunities. I became pregnant with his child last year and during about 6 months into the pregnancy I started having sex with my brother in law. We would take the jet down to our yacht in the Bahamas and pretty much have sex the entire way down, and the activity also accounted for a lot of time spent on the yacht. So, one day I left the baby with the nanny from japan named Suh-Muh. So my brother in law and I decided to end the affair but a few days after I started having sex with one of my husband's business partners. It's ok for me to do this though because my husband has a house in Toulouse that I'm not supposed to because he has sex with other MEN at it!! He's not gay though, trust me (just MSM, i looked it up) So, the thing is, my step daughter found out about my second affair and now makes me arrange for cocaine to be delivered to her every week. How do I

2007-12-04 16:00:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father looks at pornographic material on the internet. REALLY BAD stuff. I am postive that it was him looking at this stuff bacause all of these bad websites are on our computer history, and I walked in on him watching this stuff once. I am disgusted by it and it makes me feel differently about my father. What should I do?
Thanks.

2007-12-04 15:57:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. my brother is engaged to a girl. right now he is in jail. she lost her engagement ring and cant find it. if she told my brother he would get really uset. should we get her the exact same ring for christmas, (it was only $98) or dont and have my brother get upset causing the girl to get upset causing my mom to get upset which will cause ME to get upset. i dont like being upset. its not fun. please help me. im not posting this to be judged, so if ur jus gonna say somethin like "wow you rly have a screwed up family" or something, SCREW OFF.
but thanks in advance 2 ne 1 who is not rude and doesnt judge other people...

2007-12-04 15:52:50 · 7 answers · asked by Teddi 1

I'm a freshman and my relationship with my parents has declined ever since we moved three years ago. They nag and nag until eventually I just snap (yes, I believe I have anger issues). I will start calling my dad names (they aren't bad, i don't cuss) and he fires back with hideous names and cussing. For awhile I just tried to ignore them but then when he would call me a ***** and I didn't respond he would say, "See she knows it's true." Today he grabbed my shoulder and I told him to get his hands off me and he asked what I would do and I told him I would punch him. Him and my mom just started laughing and he cussed at me some more. I'm tired of this kind of relationship and even when I try to change they just keep pushing me over the edge. This is a 50/50 effort and they aren't meeting me halfway. How can I end all of the insanity and hurt feelings?

2007-12-04 15:48:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents are always telling me how much they want me to move out. My father refers to me as a "sucker," because I live in his house, he has nothing but pure hate for me. My mother is always thinking I am lying (about pointless things!). I am in high school, I am only 16...I got a job, but it has not made any improvements within the last 4 months. Both my parents are heavy alcoholics and I honestly believe it has proven detrimental to their mental health. I have two siblings (one in college, one just out--not living w/in the house), for many reasons, I can not turn to them. They experienced similar problems, but my parents have never liked me especially...they think I am going through the same as them. My parents play odd mental games to... establish control over me (?) and my leg is just now recovering from a shoe my father threw at me. I am an AP student, I enjoy schooI, I feel so hated. I try to be a good person...I am a happy person...I have to get out. What can I do?

2007-12-04 15:06:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need help. I've been thinking that I should go and stay with my Dad. I'm 16 now and my parents were divorced when I was 5. I don't know who to talk to my Mom about it though.

2007-12-04 14:54:54 · 8 answers · asked by Marcus O 1

I had this best friend, but we had some argument 1 year ago and stopped talking, basically she was a very straight forward person and said something hurted me, i was angry and told another friend about how angry i was, and she found out thru another friend, so we stopped talking. Now i am helping her moving house next week (we still kept emailing occationally), should i talk about the conflict or not when we meet?i still want to be her best friend.

2007-12-04 14:51:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous