My 11 year old kid saw me in lingerie, what do I do?

Question

I just got back from the gym(I like going late at night), I went to go take a shower. Keep in mind I was getting ready for my hubby and I's 9 year anniversary of marriage. So after showering I put on my new lingerie, heres the link if you are wondering how it looks, one my favorite lingerie outfits from large collection
http://www.henryandjune.com/hj/stprod.asp?pf_id=6420
I put it on, do my hair, put on make-up, I went all out in sexiness at 1am, I went to my bedroom and my husband was waiting there with candles, silk sheets, rose pedals all over the bed, and bottle of don perignon. It was perfect but he forgot the glasses for the champaign, so I decided to go get them. I usually walk around in my bra and panties at night because my kids are never awake during those hours.
Guess who I see on my way to the kitchen? he just says goodnight and goes to his room quick. Now I had one more reason to get drunk, it was still a good night but we have not spoken about it... what should I do?

Answer 1

Great outfit! I wouldn't worry about it, enjoy the night spent with your spouse. As long as the kid didn't walk in on you wondering, why is daddy hurting mommy, know need to give it a second thought.

Answer 2

Oops.....it happens. You can't do anything about it. I think the bigger the deal you make of it, the worse it is. You didn't do anything wrong and neither did your son.

I remember the day I was leaving the bathroom to get a towel (I had forgotten to bring one into the bathroom with me). I had just showered, thought I was alone in the house. My daughter's boyfriend had come through the back door about the time I exited the bathroom. He was about 18. I was naked. Only have two hands, couldn't get myself covered up fast enough and I'm sure he pretty much saw everything.

Neither of us had done anything wrong. It just happened. He, of course, was more mortified than I was and I was pretty mortified. I grabbed a towel, he looked the other way and we both quickly went to another room.

When I came back out, my daughter was home and I told her what happened. I apologized to him and said that I didn't expect their to be anyone there. I laughed about my silly body and told him I was sorry he had to see it. Everyone pretty much to laughed and said - OH WELL, **** happens and then you move on.

We've never really talked about it though once in a while it comes up and we all have another good laugh.

Your son is getting old enough to know that things happen between men and women. If I did anything at all I'd just say you had a special outfit on for your anniversary for his Dad. It happened, you can't take it back. Better for him to know that Mom and Dad love each other and so what if they have a little fun from time to time.

Good luck....

Answer 3

I have to admit this question sounds more than a bit odd to me. It must be cultural differences. I see naked parents all the time, not to mention underwear wearing.

I try to keep that in mind.

Has your child reached puberty? If not, then it's fairly likely he doesn't really know what just happened. However, and specially if you were terrified, he might be very confused and a bit scared. But chances are he doesn't really know what was going on.

If you feel that he has developed to the point where he is sexually aware, then it's possible he realises he just saw you in sexy underwear.

Hmm... In both cases, I think he is more scared of the fact that he saw you, rather than WHAT he saw.

Do you think you could talk to your son? Explain him that he didn't do anything wrong (he might indeed be blaiming himself for something, especially if he doesn't quite understand) and that it was your special outfit that was meant for your husband's eyes, and say that you are sorry you forgot to put something on when you went to the kitchen. Don't blame him for it, as I said he will blame himself anyways.

I'd suggest you didn't underestimate his intelligence. If you lovingly explain to him that it's normal for couples spend time together in underwear, and that you and your husband are such couple too, I think he will understand.

Answer 4

Probably a dream to be honest. I'm an atheist, but even if I wasn't, I wouldn't call it an angel, as they're supposed to be white, not sinister looking, bring divine messages, and wouldn't be kicked away.

Answer 5

I think this is not the true situation or that you are just making this up for the fun of it.
and if you are not , it's not a big deal if he's your son. children see their parent like this all the time.
the only problem is that your son might be reading this message, and that would make him think more to whatever he saw.
nothing is safe on the net you should know that.

Answer 6

Its Dom Perignon.

Answer 7

Make up your mind. 2 hours previous you said your 8 yr old daughter caught you in the act.
Some people here actually have real questions for real problems. Quit wasting people's time!

Answer 8

its not like he seen u naked, he probably thinks u just has on ya pajamas or something maybe he didnt even notice it cause it was so late. but hey if he dont bring it up y should u cause trust at that age once u do its gonna lead into a whole nother conversation : )

Answer 9

hmm...second question I've read along these lines with a link to henryandjune.com...spam much? nice angle, preying on the incestual urges of middle america!
edit:this is a spammer--they marked they're other questions as "private" after I started posting the truth about them. check out this account's profile. Here's a tip genius--no housewife describes herself as "a typical MILF"

Answer 10

1. nice lingerie
2. your kid should be pleased his parents are still hot for each other after 9 years
3. if you think he's never seen a half naked woman before you are probably delusional
4. ask him if he is OK about it & if he needs to talk then you are there for him