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My brother has come for a visit. He's gone to bed now and here I am, at the computer, burning CD's for him..... like 15 of them. I thought this whole take advantage of your little sister thing might get better with age. Apparantly not?? Does anyone else have an older sibling like this???

2007-12-04 18:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by ~ luv sis 6 in Family & Relationships Family

9 answers

Suck it up. You love your bro. Ask him to do something for you. If he refuses tell him no more favors then.

2007-12-04 18:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by blj63 3 · 1 0

It only happens because you said yes, sure, ok.... Next time he asks you to do something for him, tell him its $5.00 per cd for both your time and labor because you have other things to do and it better be worth your time in front of the pc burning cds for him. Lets see what he says about that. P.S. - all older siblings are mature enough not to take advantage of a grown "younger" sibling. How old are you by the way?

2007-12-05 02:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by Equinox 6 · 1 0

if you don't feel like burning CD's for your brother, then why on earth are you sitting up doing it? unless you don't want him touching your computer, let him do things for himself.

i'm assuming he's a capable adult.. there is no sense in doing things for others which they are perfectly able to do themselves. burning one CD isn't that bad, but 15? he's really taking advantage of you.

you are enabling the guy to use you.... "NO" is a word which you might add to your vocabulary, hon...

2007-12-05 02:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1 0

I'd love to empathize with you, but I'm the oldest in my family. I'm the oldest sibling, cousin, etc. However, I DON'T take advantage of my siblings, if that helps. (It's more the other way around, where they want me to babysit for free whenever.)

2007-12-05 02:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Rebeckah 6 · 1 0

Nah,my older sister and I never get along,and we espicially don't do favors for eachother.Its nice that you like to help your older brother out though. :)

2007-12-05 19:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by josh 4 · 1 0

tell him you need money, or a ride to the mall.
and if he says no, drop a burnt disk on the ground and stomp on it.
keep dropping and stomping until you have a new backpack, new shoes, and new jeans.

tell him love ain't cheap, bro

2007-12-05 02:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

He will continue to take as long as you give. It's up to you.

2007-12-05 02:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by munkees81 6 · 1 0

its never going to end, until you want it to, i believe every single person has to take care of there own business, and its our job to help them.

2007-12-05 02:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by david g 1 · 1 0

get some balls. say no!

2007-12-05 02:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by yup 1 · 1 0

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