Family - October 2007

Who do you think should get custody of these kids?

2007-10-05 04:13:58 · 21 answers · asked by Moises 3

this is an lesbian relationship. and the baby father doesnt contribute to shyt....

2007-10-05 03:42:07 · 21 answers · asked by Lady Di 1

My father, grand father, uncle and aunt, are all alcoholics. DO you think it's likely it will be passed onto me or my brother?

2007-10-05 03:39:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My uncle is a MAJOR alcoholic, he would bang back countless bottles of hard liquor. He spent the majority of his life in the hospital, from everything to alcohol poisoning to suicide, to many other things i don't know about. I do not know this man, and have never met him. He's homosexual, and has had a very difficult life. Even though he has pushed people away that cared about him, and was a stupid man for the most part. But for some reason, i have a sense of sorrow for him. He is now brain dead and in the hospital dying, from excessive amounts of alcohol. Is this weird? Or bad or good? Im 14 and he's about 50..

2007-10-05 03:36:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is my daughter entitled to give my grandaughter her surname?On the birth certificate there is the fathers name but he is not the biological parent.She has just got back dna test results naming the blood father but they are not together &have not been married.Is she entitled to put my grandaughter under her surname?Also does the biological father have any right to put his name on the birth certificate?Her present partner was at the birth,and has brought my grandaughter up as his own even though he knew he may not have been the father.Now after having back the dna results the other party is demanding her name to be changed to his.Please could somebody help answer this for us.Many thanks.

2007-10-05 03:10:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend is moving to North Carolina and I do have strong feelings for him, but I live with my mom and him at the moment. He has invited me to come live with him in N.C. when he moves down there. My mom does need help and to be watched over, not in a medical sense, and she constantly gives me guilt trips if I do something for myself and not her needs first. What should I do, stay with my mom once she moves out of her house or move with my friend??

2007-10-05 03:00:07 · 7 answers · asked by Desi 1

I'll be the first to admit that occassionally I like to do a little blow. I can't afford it often, but every few checks I get from Advanced Auto Parts, I go in on a few grams with one of our sound system guys. Anyway, last weekend I was at my sister's place and I had a little envelope with me. My nephew was there watching college football (actually, I was watching it. He's only four). I tried to sneak the ya-ya up my nose, but he'd turn around and look at me all funny. Just as it was hitting me hard and I was getting my drip, he turns around and asks me what I am doing...Totally killed my high. I feel bad because I yelled at him and told him to go to his room...He started crying and my sister yelled at me (family matters aren't going so well). My eyes were red, but I'm pretty sure she didn't know what was going on. I haven't heard from her since Saturday, though. Do you think he may have known what i was doing?

2007-10-05 02:58:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Two months ago, my mother and I got into a disagreement where she hung the phone up on me. Since then, she's called and ended up hanging up on me again. She has not seen my 4-month old son since then either. I feel like he's the one losing out on not seeing his Grandma. Should I be the one to swallow my pride and call her up?

2007-10-05 02:55:03 · 32 answers · asked by David 2

My brother recently got married and had a child. They were only dating a little less than a year before they had gotten pregnant. Of course my mom, being that this was her first grandchild, was SUPER EXCITED. She has done everything for them, we have all tried to help them out as much as we could wit hthe baby and their new apartment.

Before my brother met her, my mother had all of our cars under her name in the insurance. Even with my brothers bad track record of accidents, she still helped him out and insured it under her name. Now he is married and his wife doesn't have a valid NY state license. My mother has asked her on MANY occasions if she has a license, and she told my mother yes. Finally my mom asked my brother to show her the license and my brother called my mother back and basically said that she didnt have one.

My mom flipped out, if she would've gotten into an accident with out a license my mom could have lost evertyhting she owns, which isnt much to begin with.

2007-10-05 02:38:36 · 10 answers · asked by AngryFalafel 4

Hey guys i'm at breaking point school started like 30mins ago. i meant to be there today but basically my mom is an alcoholic. she's really ill and she doesn't really seem to care about me. my older brothers 19 and he moved out because mom is too violent and is always telling him to go and buy alchohol for her because he's like 6"3 and so looks over 21. please help. whenevr i say i'm going to school she just tells me that i probably won't see her when i come back. i'm really started to believe she doesn't care about me as she would stop drinking right. i don't want to give up on her but i'm really starting to dislike her. she's telling me she's going to die soon and she doesn't mind, she just keeps talking about how she's going to heaven, and that its better and that she has nothing ot lose. i don't have any family i can talk except like one aunty but she lives in new jersey and i live all the way in houston, tx, plus there life is great and all their kids are perfect.

2007-10-05 02:19:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I understand that some women need to work and some women want to work and that's fine. I don't judge anyone based on their career choices.

I DO get judged, though, for staying home with my kids. There are a lot of working moms who look down their noses at us stay at home moms because we "should be out earning more money so our children can have more."

My husband and I made sacrifices. WE gave up some things that WE enjoy so that we could afford for me to stay home with our children because it is important to us that they have a parent at home. We don't share the same family values as other families, and we get that..

But why can't others get it, too?

2007-10-05 02:14:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister and my mom always argued all the time. Ok, sometimes it is my sister's fault that she said she is going to do the dishes but she didn't so my mom yelled at her. Sometimes, my mom yelled at her for doing nothing wrong. I just got a headache from this. Help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-05 02:05:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were very close and I always bailed her out. Her dad is a drunk and she always uses her dad as an excuse and play victim, she used me for transportation, money and she dumped all her emotional problems on me and always making me feel underserving cos I'm from a better family background. I was attracted to this guy but she secretly was sleeping with him and yet in a twisted way she even encouraged me to be with him like making it into a sick soap opera, I was really hurt when I found out after she left. She lied to my face and I even paid for her abortion which she lied again with all her sob stories. Then she left to work in another city after getting a loan from me, I really feel stupid cos she promised to pay back but then got angry when I asked her for the money. I still feel like a fool whenever I was reminded of what she did. Now she is saying that she has changed and making it sound like I am the BAD one! I really hate her and I want her to pay for she did! Any suggestions??

2007-10-05 01:29:02 · 8 answers · asked by Teddy G 1

my mum has been havng phone calls and texts off this person and i don't know how to talk to her about it as it could ruin my parents realtionship, and we don't have a good mother daughter relationship as it is. its killing me inside, is it wrong if i see a counsiller?

2007-10-05 01:27:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like a girl at work and im not sure if shes interested...but yesterday i gave her a compliment...we chatted for like 5 minutes in her office and after that i walked away and called her and told her i just called her to tell her she looks real beautiful today and she started giggling and told me like noooo i look awful today and i told her no for real u look real pretty today...its that a good sign or not??

2007-10-05 00:53:16 · 6 answers · asked by kid233 1

His father left when he was 14 months old and I have no real contact infomation.

2007-10-04 23:32:04 · 5 answers · asked by dramaqueen 2

Home or somewhere what is the name of that place?

2007-10-04 21:43:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

For no reason, but then they say it's a shame how we don't get along. But they advise her to ignore me & stay away from me. I know we had a hectic childhood & stuff, & people get turned off & hate us for being twins who can't get along. & can never try to reason with her or talk things out. When I say I'm sorry, my twin sister thinks I'm starting an argument back up again, when I'm trying to cease our tension. Why & how is it childish for me to want to improve our relationship? & people say, "You're not only sisters, but you're TWINS!" & we can't even share the same friends. She bullies me, beats up on me, starts false, defaming rumors about me, & takes my money & straight ABUSES me. Lately, I've been trying to contact her & see how she & her kids are doing, & she straight ignores me, & I don't know what I did to upset her. But if I worry about the past, people call me childish. But she's obviously dwelling on the past/negative to be holding grudges against me. Right?

2007-10-04 20:17:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-04 19:49:23 · 7 answers · asked by baseball momma 2

It's my husband John's birthday on Tuesday, he will be 72. He is a big kid at heart and he is saying that owing to the postal strike he will not receive any birthday cards.
Can every body out there wish him a happy birthday and make his day.
He does not know I have posted this and if I get loads of wishes I will print them off Tueday morning and hang them around the room. We have 4 days so PLEASE lets make it a record of votes.
I would also like to thank all the staff at out 3 hospitals that have all had a part in saving his life (Cancer). that is St Richards in Chichester, St Mary's in Portsmouth and The Queen Alexandra in Cosham. Also our local Doctors.
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.
To who ever will send their wishes.

2007-10-04 19:48:48 · 16 answers · asked by doris 3

I believe he is in Utah.. His dads name was Grant as is mine... Please help me! Thanks

2007-10-04 19:18:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its a long story but my Moms sister (aunt) her husband, 3 sons(my cousins) all over 40 and their wives have not contacted me, my mom or my sister in 4 years..

4 years ago we decided to spend christmas on our own rather with them which we always had done. My cousin at the time who was 50 wrote a letter to my Mom, saying how upset he is we were going on vacation for x-mas, he said "oh Boy, wow cant believe your doing this, this is going to be the first x-mas without you since your children (meaning me and my sis) were born. He was being sarcastic throughout the letter.

Couple of months after that my Mom didnt call for his bday because he never calls us for ours and felt it was no big deal,, we get a message from him saying "gee i hope your ok, what did i do",, again i feel being sarcastic.
Then the next day his wife leaves a message saying, "How could you not call my hubby for his 51st bday, dont call us anymore, we dont want to hear from you"
None of them have contacted us

2007-10-04 19:16:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My aunt has parkinson's disease and is in the hospital. She cannot move in her bed without assistance, she cannot walk or even wheel herself in the wheel chair. She wants to go home to her boyfriend, but he dropped her and that is why she is in the hospital in the first place.

2007-10-04 19:14:05 · 7 answers · asked by adobeprincess 6

Ok so i'm in 9th grade im taking AP human Geograhpy, Honors Bio, Honors English, Geometry, French, and Softball.
we just got our report cards and I got ALL A's and one A+ and one A- my parents said that i need to work "harder" in that class! how does this make sense, i mean an A is an A. Doesn't matter if its a +/-. They say i need to bring up my grades, i just don't get it ! I'm so frustrated! In 7th grade I dropped from Algebra to Pre-Algebra because I was getting a C in that class! They were soooooooooo mad!?!?!? I was so confused I tried my hardest but i think that they never think it is good enough! It sucks so freaking much, i don't know what too do. please give me advice! please!

2007-10-04 19:09:50 · 5 answers · asked by five C girls 3

My parents have been separated for about 8 months, and my dad just recently told my mom he wanted a divorce.

Now it's fall, and thanksgiving and christmas are coming up, so I am scared that my mom will become even more depressed than she already is. Her parents both died years ago, and her only brother doesn't speak to her. Her next closest relative, her aunt, died 2 years ago. She has no family accept me, my brother, and sister, and they are older and married and will be doing other things for thanksgiving and christmas.

what can I do?

2007-10-04 18:39:38 · 7 answers · asked by blank 3

My kids ages r 12, 8 and 7, they have'nt seen him in years because he has made no effort 2 maintain a relationship. They r all very anxious and stressed out about meeting him, my eldest is the most upset as she still remembers him and feels as though he abandoned her.She has begged me not 2 make her c him, she is really upset. He will b here with his new wife and his new children,2 of them. I don't want 2 b the woman who keeps her children away from their father but at the same time I want my kids 2 know that I will support and protect them. My ex has relly just ignored them 4 years and now he wants contact, I doubt whether he will b consistant and I feel so sad 4 my kids. The youngest has no memory of him and they all call my new partner dad, we also have our own child who is 3. Any suggestions would b appreciated. I want 2 make the time he is here as peaceful as possible,( he will b here 4 a wk),love 2 hear from parents in similar circumstances. Thanx alot.

2007-10-04 18:33:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am truly not sure how to act upon this situation because of the fact that I am very close to this "individual". It was a couple of us just hanging out, and after my cousin left, about a hour or two later my girlfriend was also getting ready to head out.. Long story short, we flipped the house upside down and the phone was not in sight.. (2 weeks later). My cousin and I met up after class, and after an hour of conversation just outside in the parking lot, he decides to show me his DVD player inside his car (bla-bla), and I look in the door, where the DVD's were.. And TA-DAAA.. the phone was there. He notices it quickly, and acts as if he was holding the door open while holding his hand on the phone, as he was showing me the DVD's.. then places the movies on top of the phone. Right away he was stuttering and I believe guilty conscious kicked in him.. Left me wordless, and 3-5min later, I headed out. My question: WHATS RIGHT FOR ME TO DO? Not getting police involved/company cant track..

2007-10-04 18:09:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 23 years old. My Mom recently found out that I wasn't a virgin. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 5 years and we've only been together with each other. She know hates me and tells me that she is slowly cutting me out of her life. She is also making my family choose. If they talk to me, then she'll cut them out too. I don't think I'm a bad person. I'm a college graduate and live on my own with a good job. She's very old fashioned and doesn't believe in premarital sex. I know that I've done wrong, but I don't understand why she would cut me out of her life. I want to make it right, but I don't know what to do. Has this ever happened to anyone? Did it ever get better? They did they eventually get over it and talk to you again or did you just stay estranged?

2007-10-04 17:30:37 · 6 answers · asked by imsad123 1

kids?

2007-10-04 16:38:16 · 19 answers · asked by sissy 1

i found out that my dad is having an affair with his own niece, that s my cousin who is single and rich and they use stay under the same roof.
Maybe she can give all the thing my dad wants. she love my dad, cause my dad is in love with her? or my dad earn good money? or my dad is good looking n charming?

I really need to know why this happen to my family, my dad got a good wife and he went looking for another lady? why?

2007-10-04 16:30:47 · 7 answers · asked by mystic m 3