Family - October 2007

If so why so?
If not why not?

2007-10-09 02:00:05 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

at 3:00 am because,according to my b/f that time is very disrecpectful.The problem is ,that i told my ex, he could bring her at 3:00 am And my b/f screamed at me so hard,that i did not respect his opinion.He wanted to brake up with me.Do u think he over reacted ?

2007-10-09 01:53:41 · 18 answers · asked by dersexy 1

He tries to find fault with me, his mother my parents in useless discussions. We were away to Canada for a year and the change in his behaviour started after we had spent about 3 months there. He could not make friends there in school nor in the neighbourhood. His mother was also not happy living there. So, we decided to come back to India. How do I address this problem pl? Valuable suggestions welcome. - Vikram

2007-10-08 20:19:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mine just turned 37. I am about to turn 18. I feel special.

How about you?

2007-10-08 19:51:26 · 20 answers · asked by randomdude 3

I just feel like my life has no meaning, like I have nothing to live for. I mean I am 21 and I have no bf, and just about everyone at this college is black and very rude or unapprochable, and it doesn't help that I have mild autism and can't drive or find any guys who can understand me and not make fun of or try to take advantage of me. So I feel that the only reason I have to live is if I can make myself feel good by doing or learning things. But when I don't do that I just start to feel bad again, like I let myself down. And my mother met an extremely crazy bipolar woman named Crystal from Troy, NY online, and in May 2006 Crystal came to our house in Maryland and we had to pack whatever we could into a moving van all in 1 day while my father was out of the house because my mother wanted to move to Troy, NY and live with Crystal without telling my father.

2007-10-08 18:15:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 30, My Mom is 75 now, she had me when she was older, everyone always thought she was 10 years younger but this year I have noticed her old age show. Shes slower, less full of life, etc. She always walked faster than me but now she slows down and at times its hard for her.. Makes me feel sad...
We went to an exhibit, i was parking my car and the attendent asked her if she wanted to wait at the front because the parking space was far, She felt so bad, she was almost in tears and told me " i guess im a little old lady"
I said no, he just wants older people to be safe.

So im not sure how to cheer her up? What do i do? what do I say?

2007-10-08 18:14:49 · 7 answers · asked by Jetglam 1

my father and i were never close. he had a bad drug/alcohol addiction. he left when i was a baby i remember a visit w/ him wheni was 6 i had so much fun w/ him i (then he freaked out and started coming down from his high and scared the hell out of me) i never relaly saw him afte4r that. i always felt abandoned and unwanted. then he got sick his gf (who new about me) didnt tell the hospital of any relatives he was only 46 his kidney and liver were failing and he was on life support as soon as the hospital found out they called. (this was on sept 28th) somehow thru my name they got my aunt (his sister) she then contacted me i todl her i dint want to make any choices i iddnt feel it was my place to i didnt no him like she did. she chose to take him off life support bc he was never happy (he was the cause for an aaciddent that killed my uncle when they were teens thus making for a very difficult guilty life for my dad)he was in north carlina in a hospital i (and his family) r in pennsylva

2007-10-08 17:53:00 · 8 answers · asked by Jen 2

i need get away! away from everything! where should i go?

2007-10-08 17:51:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like im so ugly and fat i think im stupid and that ill never get the boy i like to like me back.I want to be better all around.My mom tells me im perfect the way iam but why do i think soo little of my self?Sometimes i cry at night i feel so awful i also wish my dad was a better person and not always drunk so i could at least see him(my parents are divorced)plus my friends recently started to call me a ******* and a ***** i feel so lame.what is this that im feeling and what should i do about it?

2007-10-08 17:51:16 · 8 answers · asked by Liv 3

I've never had the typical "father" you can go to - the one that gets sensitive and protective with his daughters...don't know if it's a cultural thing but he's been more of an army general than a dad - rather than giving advice he'll lecture for hours, we don't hug or kiss - no affection

He's been unemployed for more than 10 yrs and took care of me and my sibling; "mr. mom" while our mom went to work. He's introverted, possessive, controlling, bossy, drama queen, insecure, and paranoid - he can never deal with stress AT ALL and is never calm...

i'm sick of his drama and i just keep telling myself, when i'm done with school, i'll leave home...i know he's my dad and that's who he is, but i'm just sick of his crap...it sucks i never got to have a real dad...

2007-10-08 17:45:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think he also wants to get away from his father. He has grown to hate him for various reasons. My 25 year old daughter has her own apartment and moved out to get away from him. Everybody fights alot. I lost a son 19 years ago thru miscarriage I can't lose him too. If the war wasn't going on it might not be as bad. I can't live without my son. He's my whole world. What do I do?

2007-10-08 17:21:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My older brother is really annoying and I love to sing. When I sing, he always critisizing me, with bad comments. I am too afraid of him to say anything more than shut up, so what should I say??? Should I say anything??

2007-10-08 17:20:15 · 15 answers · asked by dance_luvr 2

I am newly married. My husband has a 3yr old son that we have every weekend. I have been in his life since he was 11 mo. and I have grown to love him like my own. One weekend my husband was working out of town and I still wanted to have him because it was our time and I missed him. Our sons mother allowed it but was not happy stating that I am not his mom and dont need to spend time with him alone. Now newly married my family is thrilled to welcome this little boy into the family. My mom is thrilled to be a grandmother and wants to spend more time with him. She lives a 4 hr plane ride away and has bought us 3 tickets to come and see her over xmas. We would be gone 7 days. We have never had our son for xmas and have asked his mother if we can take him. She initially said yes but is now saying how dare we try and take her baby away from her on a holiday and I should have my own baby and leave hers alone. Is it way out of line for us to be asking 4 him 2 meet the rest of his new family?

2007-10-08 16:43:57 · 15 answers · asked by nickii3049578 2

it's between me and my papi,

he wants me to read the DMV Handbook

but serioulsy pepole i feel pressured i can't handle it anymore, i stoped reading it for now.

2007-10-08 16:37:19 · 3 answers · asked by Justin Kalkimer 3

my ex-husband received custody of my child in our divorce, because i wasn't fit to raise him at that time. i heard it was illegal for a judge to give custody of a child in this aspect in any state . federal law. is this true

2007-10-08 16:10:24 · 11 answers · asked by serenity 1

2007-10-08 15:46:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-08 15:42:06 · 51 answers · asked by live for today 4

If you grew up with two siblings, one who is 7 years younger than you, and another who is 10 years younger than you, would you say it's normal to turn out as a somewhat immature adult? How could you become more mature, even though it seems hard?

I am 19 and my siblings are 9 and 12.

2007-10-08 15:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so here's the deal. My oldest brother passed away last year. He and I were very close and of course it hit me pretty hard. He had a business, but my sister-in-law didn't really have a handle on the finances so I volunteered to pay for the headstone and the flower spray. All told about $2000. I did it for my brother because I loved him and for no other reason.

So a couple of days before the funeral my sister-in-law tells me that she already has the pall bearers picked out, two of her brothers and 1 of my uncles. In addition she tells me that she has decided not to put the names of me and my brothers in the paper because my brothers are, frankly, thugs.

At the funeral I felt like a complete outsider, like a funeral crasher, no one even acknowledge that I existed. I realize that she had just lost her husband, but I thought that the whole deal was kind of shitty.

So should I feel bad about being a little hurt and angry about this?

2007-10-08 15:24:51 · 7 answers · asked by kmcpmgoodson 5

I have 2 guys friends that are brothers and are very close in age 23 and 22... And they have such hate towards eachother and it kills me to see this... It all started when they was kids . The oldest Ryan and Then Andre had somewhat a bad childhood . When they were kids there mom always treated one better than the other and till this day she does it and now they have this jealously towards eachother and i try to understand it but its kinda hard. Ryan isnt as Popular as Andre . Andre has always been the popular one and Ryan was the outsider the under dog and Andre was mean to him at school and mean to Ryans friends I know , I know very mean but that was when they was kids and now they are older and they still argue about it ... They fight over the tiniest things ... What can they do to make there relationship, Friendship better with one another ... They sometimes get along really well and have fun with eachother and then boom they start to argue ???????????

2007-10-08 15:17:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

she always makes life difficult plays games and always wants to argue with me or debate what do i have to do do stop this iam tired of jestifing and arguing and her getting on my nerves i wish this one lady was my aunt

2007-10-08 14:36:46 · 15 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

Alright, I love my dog very much and I'm very affectionate with him. I hug him a lot and he reciprocates.

However, the other day as I was leaving to go to the bar and my friends were picking me up I kissed my dog goodbye (like always do) but they saw me and told me that it was a 'weird thing to do.' Now I know none of them have dogs themselves so I don't think they're used to the idea. But on the other hand maybe they're right. geez I don't know.

I'd hate to stop doing it because now I'm used to kissing my dog everytime I go out the door. Much like a mother would kiss her children after dropping them off at daycare.

2007-10-08 14:26:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok here my story my cousin came to live with my family and he told us that he wets the bed so he wears diapers .it has been 3 weeks since he has been living with us and we tryed every thing to help him with his bed wetting we tryed every thing and now we found his diary and he wrote that he likes to be treated like a baby and getting diapered. so my mother got this bright ideal (stupid)to diaper him 24/7 know hes really acting up like a 2 year old and we know hes doing it on purpose so my mother got this great ideal (stupid)to treat him like a baby so when he acts up we sit him in the corner . my question is Do u have a good ideal to scare him out of this.hes 17 and he crys when he dosn't get his way. thank u

2007-10-08 14:11:34 · 7 answers · asked by beauty 1

I'm in college but is there anything I could do? I don't have a job myself and my mom doesn't work either. I don't know how financially stable we are and if my family would have to move or not. Should I worry?

2007-10-08 13:52:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

" when i was 17 my father was the most ignorant man i'd ever known. by the time i was 21 he was the smartest man i'd ever met. i never knew how he learned so much in just 3 years"...mark twain (maybe para phrased)

what do you think?

2007-10-08 13:51:08 · 10 answers · asked by bl 4

2007-10-08 13:44:14 · 16 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7

Ok, so I can't ever do it. I wish I could just leave my husband. I am 34 weeks pregnant and have a 3 year old. My husband is so nice to our son, but treats my like crap in front of him, for example my son will say "moms crying, moms sad". And my husband will say "Your mom is crazy, she's psycho". Which just makes me cry more. And I can't ever turn to my son and say I'm crying because of your dad. Or your dad is so mean to me. I can't he will yell at me and say why are you crying in front of your son. You are sick, demented, insane. Look what you are doing to him.
Its like the more he yells at me, the harder it is for me to leave him. I cry all the time, and he has no feelings. He can't ever say Sorry, just calls me more names. I feel like if I leave I'm the bad guy, I'm walking out on are marriage.
And the other thing is I'm a Stay at home mom, and I can't work being 34 weeks pregnant. And so if I leave him, where am I going to go. I have no famliy and no money.

2007-10-08 12:35:35 · 10 answers · asked by ml 2

He went down to Arizona to visit a friend, and came back with this funny little paper-mache-ish skeleton figurine - it's wearing a little dress and hat, so it could almost be cute, but the face is definitely a skeleton. (My birthday is on Dia de los Muertos, Day of the Dead, and apparently they're really popular for that.) I really don't like it. No actually, I pretty much hate it. Who seriously wants a skeleton figurine in their room?!?! But I love my dad so much, and I know he thought it was really cool, since my birthday is on Dia de los Muertos and all that. I can't bring myself to throw it away, but...yuck. What should I do?

2007-10-08 11:56:29 · 7 answers · asked by angelsong_04 3

I'm still in 2nd year college and have a big dream of becoming a great scientist,; but my dad is getting old and my 2 brothers are not doing enough . I feel I have responsibility to take charge of them and my little sister. Where ther' is not any kind of public assistance. it's a third world country.

2007-10-08 11:53:47 · 1 answers · asked by falling 1

If your step-dad and mom got a divorce would your step-brother/sister still be your step-brother/sister.
I'm just curious.

2007-10-08 11:43:12 · 5 answers · asked by Demetra 3