Family - August 2007

im 22 and give your kids under 18 smokes would you want to punish me or would you call the cops. never thought it was a big deal til one dad warned me hed whip my **** if i did it again.not like its alcohol i started at 14 my dad threatened me but thats it

2007-08-09 20:20:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 19:50:24 · 8 answers · asked by jim p 1

My mothers been with this guy for like a year now and i've never really noticed anything till recently i dont know if im just thinking something is happening when its probably not! he gets a bit touchy when no ones around (mainly arms and back) but not in a way thats obvious.he'll tell ajoke or somethin and then start rubbing my back slowly starting from my shoulders and then makes his way down to the middle of my back .and another thing hes really shy.EXTREMELY shy and he doesnt talk to me unless my mother has left the room. which is a little weird. he also makes little comments about how he likes his girls young. my mothers about 5 years younger than him but i just have a feeling hes trying to say something without being too obvious.he creeps me out but i dont want 2 ask him
'whats his deal' or tell my mother because my mother hasnt had a relationship in years(very long time) and shes really happy. i dont want to hurt her!

please help me what should i do,am i over thinking this?

2007-08-09 19:31:47 · 12 answers · asked by SVETLANA B. R. FROSTS PROUD MOM! 3

i have no money, transportation, or anything, but my lil bro lives there, and i havent seen him in 2 years..... help...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1



dont give mean answers!!!!!!!!

2007-08-09 19:20:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

this morning we was informed that we will no longer be the supers where we reside at. we were shocked by the news due to the fact that they told us that we have to leave by the first without further notice. I have 3 kids and I have no income coming in since the position I had was being the super here. Is there anywhere that I can go to for help?? the thought of me and the kids being on the streets is scaring me out of my mind....

2007-08-09 19:12:20 · 4 answers · asked by cantseepastthis 1

My mom and I can't have a normal mother/daughter relationship because my step dad is controlling. I have tried everything. All we can do is email each other, or she calls me when he isn't around. I barely know her. He won't let her call me, or go anywhere with me, and I have a 19 year old sister, whom I have never spent any time with, because of him. And to top it all off, I don't attend church on a regular basis, and that plays a lot into it. He is a religious hypocrit. He's a real jerk. He hits my mom sometimes too. I try to do everything I can, but when she does call, or needs help, he always yells at her to get off the phone. I am not sure what to do. Any help or advice, I would really, truely appreciate it. Oh, and also, she only lives 2 blocks from me.

2007-08-09 18:58:49 · 4 answers · asked by Justagirlfromcali 1

I just found out i was going into the Marines and i told my aunt who has six kids that i was going and she said i was not tough. Why would she say that when she barely even knows me?

2007-08-09 18:57:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anikin 1

I am a mother of three. It is basically all I've ever wanted in life, to be a mom. My sister is the corporate woman on the move. I don't regret any choices I've made and wouldn't change anything. But she just got back from a whirlwind tour through Italy, plus a 14 day cruise in the Mediterranean. I'm not jealous of her life as a whole since she's single and alone a lot. I'm just so jealous of her amazing journey through Italy and Venice and Rome and on and on. I'm trying to share in all her excitement and view her pictures, but the whole time I'm just ugly and green inside.

2007-08-09 18:18:05 · 13 answers · asked by baxter 3

Two years ago, My grandmother was recovering from breast cancer, and moving into a brand new house. I was helping her with her foster children, because she wasn't able to do much. She got a call about a new baby she was getting. We got him straight from the hospital, 3 days old. I moved in so that I could take care of him. I tended to him, while my grandparents watched the older kids. I became really close to him, singing to him at 4 in the morning while he mumbled along during feeding, taking him to parent and tot classes. I miss the feeling of when he was laying on my chest, feeling his little chest move up and down with each little breath, knowing that this person I cared so much about was so close to my heart, the overwhelming feeling of peace, the feeling that time stops and that theres no wrong in the world. Do I sound completely psychotic? Every week, they treatened that he was going to be moved with his family, that day always came and passed. Until the last time, july21 06.

2007-08-09 18:16:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is Incest wrong?

Let's say that for the purposes of this quesiton that a couple that is related to a close degree (Incest) and has absolutely no possibility of having children. The man went under the knife and the woman had her tubes tied. There is absolutely no possibility of a child being produced from this relationship.

Let us also assume for the purposes of this question that this relationship is completely consensual with both parties. AND this relationship began after both parties were over 18 years of age.

Recap:
1) No possibility of a child being born
2) Completely consensual
3) Both parties are over 18

Present a good argument for why incest is wrong without using the bible?

2007-08-09 17:57:32 · 21 answers · asked by John D 1

My husband and I are going to his parent's cabin on a lake this weekend. I would like to bring a gift. Any ideas?

2007-08-09 17:50:45 · 6 answers · asked by Mama2Emma 4

My mom is sick of me. The way i dress, the clothes i want to buy, the music i listen to like Motley Crue and KISS. But I'm being this way for a reason. I have a dream of becoming a rock star and if i go to a fostor home then my dream will be shattered. Should i tell her to let me live with a friend?

2007-08-09 17:36:52 · 7 answers · asked by Bassdave 2

I have a stone carving from back home that can be in a museum right now. I want to see it but I don't know what would be the name of the dealers who look at these things? Any idea?

2007-08-09 17:05:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

The whole point of having a shower rather than having a bath is to save time and water. So how come my son can spend at least 30 mins in the shower. (Dont say the obvious) its not that. Surely you can get clean in ten minutes in the morning.

2007-08-09 16:02:43 · 26 answers · asked by debrett 1

A friend of mine was molested ( not sure if i spelled that right...sorry every-one) this person was really close to her. she talke dto him everyday and told him every-thing. we were talking today and she said she wishes she could talk to him agian. ( he was charged..no time done just probation) she says she forgives and still loves him and is always going to love him ( he was in her family) well she got his e mail and e mailed him. now i think she is crazy do you think she is wrong to forgive him and give him another chance?

2007-08-09 16:01:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have lived in our home for 7 years. We live on a quiet, dead end street where people always take very good care of their home and maintain their yards. Last summer, a family moved in across the street who DO NOT maintain anything. They leave garbage in their yard, they leave their garbage dumpsters tipped over at the curb ALL WEEK, there has been old, rotten carpeting sitting at the curb for 5 weeks because the garbage man wont pick it up, they don't mow their grass EVER.They are complete slobs and when I look out my front window, that's what i see everyday! I wrote them an annonymous letter and mailed it asking them NICELY to keep their yard picked up take some pride in our neighborhood.It didn't work.It's still disgusting over there! I'm pretty non confrontational, and I don't want to get into an argument with them, (Mostly because they're kinda scarey and I don't want them to burn my house down) but I want my neighborhood to be tidy and picked up! What would you do?

2007-08-09 15:15:16 · 7 answers · asked by See Dee 5

are as dingy as people think they are?

P.S. I am blonde and can be very dingy but I'm trying to tell her not all are.....lol

2007-08-09 14:33:30 · 11 answers · asked by Lakin J 3

I am 16 and my daddy, against my will, is sending me to a boarding school that he hopes will "adjust my attitude". For instance, they have uniforms, ROTC and no boys!.

I will even be having a roommate. I have never even shared a room before except with my older sister when I was really little. How can a rather spoiled young lady, such as myself, acclimate to having a roommate? suppose she is not spoiled? suppose she is a thug? suppose she is a junkie? suppose she is a lesbian? How do come up with rules and stuff if we disagree about something? with my older brother and older sister I just cry and SCREAM to get my way (well some of the time), but these will be total strangers.

Thank you and good day,

2007-08-09 14:09:03 · 15 answers · asked by Lori 5

I have a 7 year old little brother. Whenever my friends come over, he always has to act up and show off. He bookmarks ADULT sites, and is constantly trying to prank us. Sometimes I hit the kid, but only when he REALLY annoys me. Then I get in trouble. He hits me, he gets "Don't hit your sister" (If I'm lucky, most of the time nothing is done b/c "he's only 7 and he doesn't know better")My parents know what he does, but they don't do ANYTHING how can I settle this myself b/c he will not listen to reason and ignoring him is impossible b/c when I do he throws a tempertantrum and I get yelled at. A prank to scare him a little would be nice, I'm not looking to hurt him, I just want some peace and quiet for a while. Also how do I deal with his antics when the parents are around? I f I yell at him I get scolded for "trying to be his mother". They ignore it. How do I tell them he's a little brat without literally saying "he's a little brat".? I'm 13 if it helps.

2007-08-09 13:42:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My grandma has a really messy unhealthy house, and has cat poop and things that have pilled up over the years. My family and i are trying to get her out of her house (there are alot of memories there) We think she doesn't have hot water, no heat and no a/c. The house is a major health factor for her and her pets. We try telling her and talking to her about getting a new place but nothing works. --What can we do? Do you have any ideas? (I don't want to hear anything or comments like burn it down) She also won' t let anyone in her house to put in decent heat or a/c. She also wants one of the baby kittens i am bottle feeding ( shes a animal lover like me) but i don't want a kitten to go there because of fear of it getting sick from everything, but shes really counting on and wanting one for a companion (she lives alone). How can i say no with out hurting her feelings? Its either the kitten or her feelings...Thanks for you help.

2007-08-09 12:51:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

well the truth is i have problems with all his family his mom and sister think i am to much of a sl ut but i have more problems with his dad it all started one day i went to his house and only his dad was there then he left me in his room and he went to the restroom then his dad came and look at me wierd then he sat down next to me and tuch my chain but then he got my b**b then edwin came and his dad said your not going to introduce us and he said yeah and then his dad came and hug me but he tuch my a** i had gone sevral times to his house and he always does things like that touch my legs my *** my b**bs but one day he was drunk and he came to the room and told edwin to bring someting to drink and to eat then his dad push me ito the bed i tried screaming but he covered my mouth and he got his hand inside my skirt and was squeezing my a** he left me some hickies and he kiss me in my lips then he heard edwin and he stand up. i love edwin but i cant handle his dad doing that.

2007-08-09 12:40:18 · 49 answers · asked by spoil brat 2

my dad will not shut up about fred thompson he really wants him to b prezident!he has a fred thompson t shirt and people point and stare wut should i do?

2007-08-09 12:24:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My aunt has 5 kids (one on the way) and she lives in the getto. She is also on welfare with no job. she sits and watchs soap opreas all day. every kid has a different father, 2 of them are in jail and 1 is dead (he was in a night fight, he killed someone and others didn't like that so they killed him.) they all said they cared about her and loved her and she claims that she was using a codanm all 6 times and they all break. i need help to help her, if that makes sense. i have this small bungallow, i am renting to different people, but right now no one is using it. i said she could live there before instead of the getto somewhere in califorina, but she said no. anything i can do or say that might change her mind and get her to live with us, or should i let her screw herself and her kids. HELP

2007-08-09 12:13:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 09:45:36 · 8 answers · asked by Cheese 2

Ok, All I want to know is how long I should be grounded after I tell you everything bad I have done. Be aware I am only 13. Alright the first bad thing I have done Is I stole my brothers camera to make videos and post them on youtube. I forgot to delete the videos from the camera and now he has about 20 videos of me swearing to youtube. The second thing I have done is when I was in 4th grade I looked at porn. I kno that is funny but I was just curios. And I also have a myspace with nothing bad on it. I have never told them that I had a myspace though or youtube. Those are the bad things I have done. Just tell me how long I should be grounded if you were the parent. Okay thats all i wanted to know. Thanks for answering.

2007-08-09 09:21:15 · 6 answers · asked by Quo 2

He said he would do this if I came between he and his buddies, men he didn't care about the before. I am not sure where the insecurity even came from. We had both had a few to many drinks and I had taken a shower and got into my PJ's. Absolutely nothing was going when he said it. He looked me right in the eye and said it very slowly. We had been out with friends and co-workers and I realized we both had probably had too many drinks and went home. He has only known these mean for a couple of months and has never felt drawn to even have a super close relationship with friends or his family. The only thing I have ever seen him care deeply for is me and getting through school. I have two little girls from a previous marriage and I worried about making a decision to leave will affect them. Occasionally, he has gotten angry and stubborn when he was drinking and followed me around, but he has never threatened me. He said he would cut my throat! How incredibly graphic!

2007-08-09 09:05:41 · 19 answers · asked by rarecountrywaterbug 1

i have played hockey since i was 5. i am now approaching my senior year in high school. i know i am not going to play hockey in college. i know i want to be an EMT. there is an EMT class that conflicts with the schedule of hockey. my parents knbow i want to take this class but i know they will be very upset if i quit hockey. how do i tell them i do not want to play hockey this year?

2007-08-09 07:20:46 · 7 answers · asked by goalieboy7789 1

ok, i know that sounds stupid lol but he keeps dumping waay to much fish food in the tank when he feeds them. i dont know how the fish arnt dead yet
(actually 2 of the frogs we had in there are dead)

the fish tank used to be in his office where he fed them & "took care of them". since they never died he thinks he did good.
the tank that was in his office was MUCH bigger & had a better filter than the one thats in my room now.
my dad is a stubborn pain in the butt & randomly comes in my room 2 feed the fish that ive most likely fed yesterday. he likes the idea that hes taking care of the fish & its because of him (& him alone) that theyre still alive.

ugh... any ideas what i could do? im all out for this one.

2007-08-09 06:46:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi, my dad is going back out with his high school sweet heart and it hasse been about 1 year now . and i try to get along with her but she's alwase putting stuff in her head like last night my brother was grounded so he had to go to bed at 10:30, so he did but he hase a really hard time to fall asleep and its not his fault caus he hase tourette syndrome and he hase bad allergies, so he asked me where his meds were and so i helped him out, gave him his meds and told him to go to sleep. so the next day when she came back from work she started sckreaming at him when i wasent there? i dont no why she never stanrs an argument when im around and im only 14 and my brother is 12. anywase she thought we (me and my brother) were in the basement hagning out!! witch it wasent true,, and she's alwase making things up about us i dont no why we really try to make her feel comfertable , but nothing's working we tryed talking to her but she just makes more stuff up ? hels i dont no what to do anymore.

2007-08-09 06:46:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 06:43:39 · 3 answers · asked by auntienanny230 3