well the truth is i have problems with all his family his mom and sister think i am to much of a sl ut but i have more problems with his dad it all started one day i went to his house and only his dad was there then he left me in his room and he went to the restroom then his dad came and look at me wierd then he sat down next to me and tuch my chain but then he got my b**b then edwin came and his dad said your not going to introduce us and he said yeah and then his dad came and hug me but he tuch my a** i had gone sevral times to his house and he always does things like that touch my legs my *** my b**bs but one day he was drunk and he came to the room and told edwin to bring someting to drink and to eat then his dad push me ito the bed i tried screaming but he covered my mouth and he got his hand inside my skirt and was squeezing my a** he left me some hickies and he kiss me in my lips then he heard edwin and he stand up. i love edwin but i cant handle his dad doing that.
2007-08-09 12:40:18 · 49 answers · asked by spoil brat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
maybe the first thing your going to say is to tell edwin but i don t know how to start him off and the police i dont want o get in more problems i mean am scared to got to a police i dont want to deal withit and my parent wow they will kick my a** a soon as i tell her i got a boyfriend
2007-08-09 13:04:09 · update #1
You should tell the COPS
2007-08-09 12:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Blonde Barbie gave you good advice as did several others.
You should sit down with your parents. If they are good people and they care about you then they are the ones that want the best for you and they are the ones for you to go to when you need help. Now is the time. You need help. You are in over your head.
You are not strange or a sl-t or anything some have suggested. You are young and inexperienced with the adult world and with sick and evil people. That is why now you need a caring and wise adult to help you deal with this situation. If you don't think your mother or father might be right for this find another, perhaps your best friends mother to start with..
You are a good and worthwile person and deserve to let others care for and protect you.
2007-08-09 13:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay as far away from this guy as you can; chances are you are not the first girl he's done this to, and he's always used the excuse that it was the alcohol that made him do it--and that's a crock of crap. If you can't tell your boyfriend, tell a counselor at school, call the local confidential hot-line, tell a minister or priest or ANYONE you can trust. This guy is a felon waiting to happen, and someday it might not just be touching that he does to someone. Meet your boyfriend on the street corner, at the library, at the mall, at your own house--anywhere but at his house. Stay safe! And if you tell your boyfriend and he doesn't back you up or stand up for you, then you need to lose him because he doesn't deserve you.
2007-08-09 12:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by thelostrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your parents would be more concerend with kicking this low life excuse of a mans *** than yours.
First -you need to tell your parents right now!!!!!
Second -they will want to go to the police. you should or he could hurt you again or someone else.
Third- you have to break it off with this guy. You don't want to be mixed up with a family like this. This boy is most likely to believe his dad over you.
The sooner you tell someone the safer you will be. It will be hard at first but you will become stronger in the end. It willsend a message that you will not put up with this kind of behavior from anyone. This is not a good thing to keep to yourself it will only weigh you down.
I am a mother and I know that if something like this EVER happened to my daughtter I would be more concerened about protecting her than being madd at her. This is NOT YOUR FAULT.
2007-08-09 13:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by annetm2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly - I wouldn't be going there - you can control this situation - stay AWAY
And yes, I'd tell Edwin - and I'd tell your parents, your friends, everyone you know don't make it a gossip thing but confide in people and seek advice from those you trust.
IMHO if a guy was doing that to me - and it was not wanted, and you have told him you don't want these advances - he should be reported.
Sexual predators are everywhere, they need to learn it is WRONG!
If you feel you HAVE to go there again - tell his father his advances are not wanted - tell him its wrong and that if he touches you again you will report him to the authorities!!! Don't let this go any further than it already has, it is a violation.
2007-08-09 12:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by Aussiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND OR THE POLICE, IF NOT BOTH, IMMEDIATLY.
I showed this post to my Dad who is a cop and he says he will track the IP address of your computer and contact the police in your area and Edwin isnt a common name so I'm sure he'll able to find that family. Don't worry, help is on the way!
2007-08-09 12:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
U have too tell someone that is not just a little thing that is creepy and against the law! But dont blame edwin for his dads actions!
2007-08-09 12:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you putting up with this? Get out NOW. Contact the police. Your boyfriend might not believe you but you are only going to be letting it happen again if you continue being around this guy. Tell your bf that you won't go to his house anymore b/c you feel uncomfortable around his dad.
2007-08-09 12:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by Autumn_Rains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i totally understand you love him but there comes a time where you need to stand up for yourself. If you keep allowing this it is just going to get worse and your going to get more scared. I no people say just leave him and his family but if you doing say something than what happens if there is another girl. I didnt want to say that but it is very true. You need to tell your parents. They might be mad but they are your parents and they should be there for you no matter what. Trust me they wont want to see this happen to you and if your boyfriend really cares he will be by your side even if it is his dad. Keep you head up and PRAY TO GOD! God will lead you in the right direction. But tell your parents. If you dont feel comfortable doing that tell a school consular. God Bless and i will keep you in my prayers
2007-08-09 13:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you should never have remained silent when he touched you inappropriately!
You should have right then said very loudly touch my a** again and I will break your arm off and hand it back to you.
Since he was never rebuffed he probably thought it was ok to do what he did.
And yes I would tell your BF what his dad has been doing. And that if doesn't stop you are going to break up with him. Or that you are never going back to his house.
2007-08-09 12:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't ever go to the house again or allow yourself to be alone with the dad anywhere else. Then, tell your boyfriend. If he doesn't take your side and believe you then it is time to get a new boyfriend and get the h-ll away from this family.
2007-08-09 12:45:03 · answer #11 · answered by TamBel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋