Family - August 2007

my Grandfather was not. Anyway I was wondering if one out there could help me figure out what perchangage of indian do I if any. I have been think ing of doing my family tree on my fathers side. I know on my mothers side she has decends that was royality.

2007-08-10 13:19:00 · 2 answers · asked by John 3

my father died and he ment the whole world to me! now that it has been years my mom has a b/f me and her get along great except when he comes over or calls her i cant move out cause im only 14 i feel very lonley ever since he died she screams at me ...makes me do chores and she never said thank you or even helped i suffer alot more then you could ever imagen i cry myself to sleep please some1 help me!!!!

2007-08-10 12:12:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents have a constent watch over me. they always know what I'm doing, when i'm doing, and how i'm doing something. they both have strong opinions about the outside world and its "Bad Influences". It's soo bad, that i'm home-schooled, am not allowed 2 have ne friends, and I can't leave the house unless there r with me. ( they work from 9 to 9, mon- fri ) so during alll that time I am stuck in my house.... I have never done ANYTHING that may have caused this behavior, b/c i've been on a tight leash since I was born.

My brother however gets 2 do nething he wants, w/o the restrictions that I recieve. he doesn't have chores.....he's just spoiled!

I however have 2 do all the house work and all the chores...while they do nothing.

so i was wondering, what would cause them 2 treat me so? do they not like me? is it a gender issue ( i'm female )?

Can someone please help me come 2 a conclusion, on the ludacris behavior!!!
Am I wrong 2 feel that there is something wrong with this?

2007-08-10 11:47:28 · 5 answers · asked by ♪♪ Serabi ♪♪ 5

My mother has been married to my father for 18 years (they had me several years before they married) and he has had numerous affairs and lied to all of us over the past 11 years and yes, they are still together.
My problem is that she interferes with my relationship with my husband. She is constantly saying things that tend to put a jealous streak in me or make me paranoid and I realize that this is her mentality because of what she has been and is going through but, that is her choice and I have made it clear to her that we would do anything to help her get out of that marriage but she refuses. So how can I politely ask her to stay out of my marriage and quit seconding guessing every word that comes out of my husband's mouth because of her insecurities?

2007-08-10 10:17:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so my parents just bought my sisters a 380,000 dollar house in west palm beach (gardens) florida and a car and they are 22 and the other is 20. i dont think this is right. they should be working at that age, shouldnt they? do you think what my parents did is wrong and they are being over-spoiled?

2007-08-10 09:30:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I am leaving out of the country and my 13 yr can not come with me because her father would not allow it, which is fine, so I decided to let her go and live with him and his wife, being that he is just now getting back into her life after being absent from it for over 6 yrs. We fought for years to get him to pay child support and final after 7-8 years child support is being taking from each check and we get his tax return. Well he wants to have another child with his wife but she does not want to speacilly with the way he has treated his child. So he cried becaused he supposelly missed her growing up and he wanted her to come life with them. So, I asked her what she wanted to do and of course she wanted to live with him. But after her being there for the past month or so I was told by his wife only by accdent that he will be tring to get child support out of me. So my feeling are that he only wanted her to stop paying child support and with the help of his wife get me to pay.

2007-08-10 08:39:47 · 9 answers · asked by cher2802 1

she talkes to her self turns up her mp3 as loud as it can go!
it so annoying cause she trys to sing over the music and music is already loud (and bad)!!!! im never able to watch tv cause she is soooooooooo loud!

2007-08-10 05:41:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father despises me because I'm fat and unattractive and I think he's a materialistic jerk...

2007-08-10 05:20:29 · 9 answers · asked by think_of_the_bubble 3

I love my 11 year old daughter so much. But I don't feel we are close. I give her what she wants within reason. I try to give her alone time with me. But she isn't close to me like my son is. My son comes up to me all the time and just hugs me or sits with me. She only hugs me when I go to work thats it. Never just because. She always complains she is bored, but when I try to do things with her she says she is not interested in what I suggest. I ask her what she wants to do and she tells me I don't know, never mind. I want my daughter to love me and know how much I love her. What can I do?

2007-08-10 05:20:07 · 4 answers · asked by Jen T 1

... and turned it into a ho house?
just curious.

2007-08-10 05:09:47 · 4 answers · asked by letterstoheather 7

my cousin deb, is what i call a *****. when i was little she acted like i was stupid and ignorant, now i am 16 years old and she still acts like i am a baby. she smacked me across the face when i was little because i didn't give a crap about what she had to say. i babysit her son sometimes, i like her son, he's different from his mom, and she talks to me like i am five and she has to put everything in stupid terms. i tried not to hate her but it's impossible, she is so rude to me and when she calls my house, i ask my mom to pick up please help me. i know hating people is bad, but i hate her.

2007-08-10 05:01:48 · 8 answers · asked by cutething 2

2007-08-10 05:00:48 · 14 answers · asked by Eva 2

Ok, I'm greek and my family has a lot of money there because of the estate that we own.
Well, I'm pretty on top of what's going to who, and what's being stolen from who.
However, my mom's side of the family doesn't exactly have that much money or a big estate that their going to inherit. So, their pretty jealous of what we have.
So, the way that they are expressing it is by saying, "omg, you could flick Greece right off of the map," or "I could buy Greece with pocket change"

I know I should be able to ignore it, but it really hurts that they are saying this stuff about something that I'm really proud of and is really important to me.

2007-08-10 04:32:08 · 4 answers · asked by Sali 3

i really want a horse but i have to show them im responsible? how do i do it? im 12. ?? please help i really want a horse

2007-08-10 04:30:23 · 4 answers · asked by QwertyHorsie 2

My mother became very emotionally and verbally abusive to me after my Dad died and my drug addicted brother moved back home. We were fine, never had an argument my entire adult life. Then my Dad died ( I was living there with my son), my brother came back home and then it started. The first thing she said was if any argument happens with my brother and I she would take his side no matter what because he can do more for her then I can. I am fully disabled from an abuive mariage that caused PTSD, anxiety along with auto-immine diseases. I just can't understand this at all. My brother doesn't do anything to help out, no rent, no food or really any help at the house. he may maybe cut the grass once a month. Nopw they pay someone to do it. So what is it that he does more for her then I can?? It so unbearably hurtful! Hope someone can help?

2007-08-10 04:27:26 · 5 answers · asked by Rebelheart45 1

His father died last year and has a beautiful John Deer tractor for doing yard work for a 5 acre yard. His mom is moving to a much smaller house in a neighborhood next month and wants to sell the tractor and divide the money between all the siblings. The problem is my husband is attached to this tractor for centamental reasons and wants to keep it in the family. His mom agreed to store it in her 3 car garage, which she will only be using one side of. But now all the sudden she has told him, no and she wants to sell it. My husband has thought about taking the money from the tractor and buying a boat for the family to share but I don't know if that will fly with the rest of the siblings.
I don't know what to tell him is the best thing to do with it. We have no room to store the thing and have a regular lot also.

2007-08-10 04:07:08 · 6 answers · asked by feathermree 3

nths behind on the mortgage.. & we want to keep the condo in the family..My moms ( his sister) name is also on the condo & if he cant pay up by next wednesday then he will be out on the street & we will have to make back payments as well as the current payments.. My mom has paid his way for years & can no longer help him out..She is 2 years widowed. He has a on & off job so he has had income...I dont know what he does wiht his money.... I would hate to see him out on the street. I have no idea where he would stay... but I would hate to see the condo be sold. My grandma wanted it for her grandchildren.. I could stay there & make the payments but I would feel bad for my uncle. Should I even approach him about it?? I feel stuckk...

2007-08-10 04:01:54 · 5 answers · asked by raisin4362001 1

He is like a 6yr old. He is disgusting. Everything he touches, he makes a mess. I cleaned and mopped the kitchen. It was spick & span. He comes in, gets a spoon, gets a scoop of chocolate ice cream out of the container, spills some on the floor and down the refrigerator, throws the spoon in the sink, and leaves. Just like that! Now there's ice cream on the floor and running down the fridge. When I bring it to his attention he says, "Oh, I didn't see that." That is his answer for everything. Or he'll say, "I wasn't thinking." I can't take it any longer. I have been married for two years now. I love my husband dearly, but this boy is terrible! He has taken my husband's car without permission and crashed it. He had a party while we were away over night and his friends went in our bedroom and stole a coin collection that my daughter and I had been collecting for ten years. I could go on, but there are not enough characters. My husband always defends him. I am ready to leave this marriage.

2007-08-10 03:39:52 · 6 answers · asked by Jonsie 1

She recently got kicked out of her girlfriends place when her friend moved, is living in a trailer that the safety inspector said she shouldn't be living in, and just crashed her car. She comes over to our house after work when she can't get a ride to the trailer but has been slowly moving in her clothes! What can I do? I dont want her living with me because she's an alcoholic and becomes mentally abusive, and just wont listen to reason. My husband doesn't want her around either because she usually says such harsh things that she puts him to tears.

2007-08-10 03:34:23 · 16 answers · asked by Lori 3

My boyfriend and I have been together scince we were 14, and I have a child with him (Alivya she is 2). And I am expecting twin girls in Nov.
Should we move in together? We live in San D. California.
I am 19, and he is 21. We hope to have two more children after our twins (they were a surprize). I work at a tanning salon, he is a construct. worker.
Sould we move in together? House or appart.?
We together make about 50,000 a year. Could we afford a home?

2007-08-10 03:27:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Died?? I hear kids (and adults) complaining about their parents...Why?? What if they weren't here anymore? My dad died (drowned) when I was 10 years old and my mom just died 3 years ago (from pancreatic cancer). I would give anything to have them back, my mom was my world. Love them, cherish them, never ever take them for granted!!

2007-08-10 02:56:24 · 7 answers · asked by 0 3

he had made my life miseriable.i need help .otherwise soon i will die

2007-08-10 02:39:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hair......?

2007-08-10 02:21:00 · 5 answers · asked by MJ 6

To make things short, I invited my cousin over for a little party at my place and when I got a bit drunk, my cousin went threw my room and stole about $100 something out of my room. The stupid that about it is that when he got the money while the party was going on, he ask one of my friend to take him out. So one of my friends took him out and what he ends up doing was using the money to buy some drugs. After the party was over and everyone left, I check my room and all the money from my wallet was missing. Anyways, I call up some friends to see if they saw anyone going inside my room or did they know anyone going that had about $100 something with them. One of my friends told me that my cousin and him went out to go buy some dop and he end up using about $100 something. Well that’s how I know but I wasn’t for sure.

A couple of weeks pass and he came over to visit and I had a bag full of quarters which should be wroth around $30 and I use that to like go dry my close when it rains. Anyways, that went missing and he was the only one in my room the most. I now know for sure that he robs me that last time I had that party.

I wanted to confront him about it but since we are as close as cousin I don’t know if I should. What should I do? In a way I want to kick his As$ and in a way I want to tell him straight out that why would he do this. What should I do??? We are both 19 years old

2007-08-09 23:55:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just spent 2 weeks with my fiancee and his family. After seeing everyone in his family, I am seriously considering backing out. I love him more than anything, but my mother married into my father's crazy family and they have made her life miserable. These people, my fiancee's family are absolutely crazy, disrespectful, rude, illmannered. They actually thought I was weird or strange because I say "Mister" and "sir" or "ma'am". I cant even talk about all the crap I went through. His mother constantly was in our business, never gave us privacy, and tried to invite herself everywhere. It's really not something I want to deal with forever and they aren't people I want to see again nor would I want my kids around. However, I love him and he treats me like a queen.

2007-08-09 22:38:41 · 8 answers · asked by brittneyafoster 1

Just after a bit of advice really... I have been seeeing a lovely man for the past 7 months. He is of good heart and is a stable, intelligent man who loves me very much. He currently lives at home with his parents, where he has been all of his life. I am afraid that he will never leave this situation, for many reasons, the main one being that his mother is at home alot by herself as his father works away for so many days straight and she "babies" him to the point where he doesn't have to lift a finger!! I feel that she doesn't want him to leave home and certainly doesn't encourage him to. Both of his parents love me and want me to be a part of their sons life. I would love things to be this way but fear that it will never be. They both know that the way they treat their son is only detrimental to him in the long run (especially since he has no idea of "living in the real world" etc), but don't change anything. How should I deal with this situation.

2007-08-09 22:07:58 · 7 answers · asked by Howdydowdy 1

such as feeling abandoned, or feeling as if they did not want you around, or being a drug user etc.

2007-08-09 21:39:58 · 26 answers · asked by rqlwlch 1

i have a dog i love very much but my mom is very abusive. and she hits him for no reason and screams at him and chokes him with his leash. my mom is very bitchy and hard headed so please do not suggest talking to her about it. i have already tried and it does not work at all. and please do not say re-home him or any of that nonsense. just because my stupid mom does not like him doesn't mean i want to give him away. thanks. i appreciate your help.

2007-08-09 21:14:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my relatives such as grandma, aunts, uncles, and cousins cannot be trusted. My mom's side has a bunch of stingy and greedy untrustworthy people who conspire against one another. My father's side has a lot of arrogant snobs who use you when they need you and ignore you when they don't need you. Not everyone is like that but most of them. Because of their stupid behavior I feel resentment for them. They always try to take advantage of my family and I can't stand it. I just wish i was successful in the future so they can't mock us again but I'm still a teen getting there or trying. Any of you guys ever experienced this or what do you think or do? Please no insults thanks all, I appreciate it.

2007-08-09 20:54:12 · 6 answers · asked by Closed 5

My dad is a complete jerk like 85% of the time. Selfish, manipulative, legalistic and just plain insensitive. My sister's family tolerates his monthly visits, and usually I find an excuse to not be around, but now I have to go have dinner with him, and I'm absolutely dreading it. Any advice on how to get through the night amicably?

2007-08-09 20:53:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous