My parents have a constent watch over me. they always know what I'm doing, when i'm doing, and how i'm doing something. they both have strong opinions about the outside world and its "Bad Influences". It's soo bad, that i'm home-schooled, am not allowed 2 have ne friends, and I can't leave the house unless there r with me. ( they work from 9 to 9, mon- fri ) so during alll that time I am stuck in my house.... I have never done ANYTHING that may have caused this behavior, b/c i've been on a tight leash since I was born.
My brother however gets 2 do nething he wants, w/o the restrictions that I recieve. he doesn't have chores.....he's just spoiled!
I however have 2 do all the house work and all the chores...while they do nothing.
so i was wondering, what would cause them 2 treat me so? do they not like me? is it a gender issue ( i'm female )?
Can someone please help me come 2 a conclusion, on the ludacris behavior!!!
Am I wrong 2 feel that there is something wrong with this?
2007-08-10 11:47:28 · 5 answers · asked by ♪♪ Serabi ♪♪ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Parents are more protective over their girls, because it is the girl who ends up pregnant, but they forget that it is BOYS who get them pregnant.
Yes, there seems to be something wrong with this situation. The BEST thing you can do is show them your question. Or ask them in person, and tell them exactly what you told us. Tell them that you would like to know why your brother gets to do what he wants, but you get to do NOTHING. Tell them how lonely you are for friends. If you go to them with this problem, they will see how mature you are by coming to them, and it will earn you some respect, and they may loosen up some.
parents only want to protect their children, but sometimes we forget to tell our kids FROM WHAT, and WHY.
2007-08-10 12:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As parents sometimes we tend to get over protective. Talk to your parents about how this whole thing is making you feel. You feel like you are micromanaged 24-7, that can be a little hard for anyone to take, even you deserve some personal time away. Talk to your parents.
2007-08-10 12:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Admeta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a biased relationship your parents have between you and your brother. Its' hard to understand right now but someday you will.
I would suggest that you get your parents involved with counseling. Perhaps they will see that they can trust you to make your own judgments while your out in the world and that you won't get into trouble.
Good luck
2007-08-10 11:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Reo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they might do this because they really care for you.
and you are their only girl?
and they don't want nothing to happen to you.
They want you to be successful, and not to be around bad people.
2007-08-10 12:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by Desi. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they are at work go out and do things
2007-08-10 11:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by hollidayfun@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋