Family - August 2007

ok i seen some questions about petticoat punishment and some how i need my mom to find out so she will use it on my brother but idk how to make her find out about and want to know how to make her find out
petticoat punishment is where u dress a boy up as a girl
dont tell me not to do this and it wont mess up my brother for life
i want to do this to my brother because he is always picking on me and never gets in trouble and i know this will embrass him but not turn him gay or hate any1 so dont say stuff like that

2007-08-15 02:07:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always had a wild streak in me but i have always been careful and mature about things. My parents always trusted me and let me do most things such as go parties, stay out until reasonable times.... but just recently i messed up BIG TIME!
i went to a party and got very drunk, my dad came and picked me up at 11 as usual and then we got home and i don't think he realised i was that drunk.
This is when i made the biggest mistake of my life.....
i got a text from one of my friends saying their goin town and i remember just thinkin "arrr yeah im comin" and from that moment i was halfway out of my upstairs bedroom window escapin from my house when my parents thought i was tucked in bed.
my parents obviously found out and i am grounded for.....i don't know how long.... i cannot believe what i have done and how badly i have wrecked the trust between my parents.
my friend has invited me to go camping in a few days, how can i ask my mum n dad?

2007-08-15 02:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by xoxchickxox 1

so heres the deal..im 21, n i still live at home w/ my mom..we've never had any major problems w/ each other, n for the most part, have always gotten along..but lately she's really been on my back n i dont understand why. last nite she gave me the longest lecture bc my boyfriend n i switched cars for today so that he could take mine to the shop while im at work. n i was thinkin to myself, what is she upset about??..she is always yelling at me about responsibility, but i dont know why - im a full time college kid, i work 2 jobs, i split household chores w/ my bro, i even help out w/ groceries, and the bills..i dont disrespect her in any way, n i know she has alot on her plate, so i try to help out as much as i can..but nothin i do satisfies her. everyday is some sort of argument, or a lecture from her, n i feel like she thinks what im doin n tryin to do w/ my life isnt good enough. do u think we've outgrown each other? is it time for me to jus move out or is this just a phase? thanks!

2007-08-15 01:28:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm studying overseas (in Australia) and my mum's turning 50 in October. I was wondering if anyone could suggest a gift that I could send back home to her and won't break in transit.
I'm definately going to call her on her birthday and I'm planning on making her a birthday card.
She likes 'Old-Fashioned' things, enjoys classic movies, loves handbags. The only problem is that she has dozens of things like that already!
I just feel that I should get her something special for her 50th!

HELP!!

2007-08-15 01:24:57 · 9 answers · asked by Ladyhawke87 2

I'm 4 years older than him. The first time I found out (a year ago), I told my parents and they talked about it with him and if he did it again he wouldn't be able to use to computer anymore.
He still did it, but my parents were so upset, I didn't want to tell them again because they would be even more stressed out. So I always kept it to myself.

looking at the history, he searches for cartoon/anime porn of his favorite animes. when i first found out, i saw one of the sites he was on and it was so disturbing...since then ive never viewed any of the sites, just the history...thats how freaked out i am by it.
today, i caught him on those sites again..at my moms workplace!! (when she wasnt there) then i caught him again when we got home!

Yeah, i know it's natural for boys to be doing this but he just finished 6th grade and i think he is too young to be doing this...plus isn't it illegal since he is underage?

what can i do without telling my parents?

2007-08-15 01:22:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

After being a smoker for 21 yrs, I have been on NRT for the past 6 weeks. Still smoking but cut down 75% and no smoking in the house either.
However, my mum came to visit yesterday, refused to stand outside, swore at my kids and has stunk my whole house out. She walked out today without even saying goodbye! I told her she was selfish for not respecting my wishes, but she left me a 'terse' note on my table saying thanks for my unhospitality!
How would you guys react to this?

2007-08-15 01:18:30 · 19 answers · asked by cazkenton2003 2

My sec. cousin loves me more than my parents...i think. and why?
Is
n't it sad that my second cousin shows me more love than my parents?

My dad is often away and when I seem down he dismiss's it. My mother was raised by her grandma because she never recieved the attention/love she got from her own mom. Her mom pretty much abadoned her and my grandma was left to take care of her. Now my mom is taking it out on me. Were not suppose to show our feelings-as in being sad or else she'll scream at me and saying im acting like a grannie.

than how come my cousin is the only one who was very nice to me and was trying to cheer me up while no else cared? not even my other cousins at the party? he is my sec. cousin. even though my other cousins are nice he was being esp, nice to me. hes 21. im 14.


BTW AT THE PARTY I WAS MOODY NOT SAD!
and he dosnt know the situation at home

2007-08-15 01:07:04 · 2 answers · asked by ♥dO yoU loVe iT♥ 1

Now we can't find anything even NEAR our price range.

2007-08-14 21:40:09 · 7 answers · asked by momofthree 3

When my parents ask us to do chores or anything for that matter i get right to them, get them done and am on the next chore. Well my brother says "ok ill do them" and well he doesnt. And because of this my parents come to me most and ask me to do the things that then need, because they know that i will do it. And i am just getting burnt out. And i tell my mother and she tells me well you try to control him. And i get so mad because thats not my responsability. SHES HIS MOTHER.!!!!!! and i just need some advice on what i can say and/or do. Please any advice would be great. Thanks

2007-08-14 21:22:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my 17 year old son is so violent how can i help him

2007-08-14 21:06:42 · 3 answers · asked by tawnya41 1

My father was killed a couple months ago, his birthday would have been today on the 15th. His and my mother's anniversary was yesterday. They are in South Carolina and im in the military stationed in Germany. What should i say or do, to maybe help mom out or just make her feel better? I dont wanna just ignore it and have her think i dont care but i dont want to make her feel worse either. They had been married almost 30 years.

2007-08-14 20:25:32 · 4 answers · asked by Flying Spagetti Monster 7

i had sex with 4 guys now what do i do im not sure who the father is of my unborn child.

2007-08-14 19:20:29 · 4 answers · asked by Terri F 1

Or would you rather live in a place that is less developed but with very little stress with just your spouse?

2007-08-14 17:27:33 · 41 answers · asked by Ferris Wheel 1

my mom wants to move to a diffrent city. i really have a good life here and she says i dont have a choice but to leave. i have been living in this state for 13 years i want to continue my life here. what should i do.

2007-08-14 17:24:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it wrong for a sixth grader to go out with a freshman in high school??? my little sister wants to go out with this guy who is gona be a freshman and, I don't know what to tell her. He's a good kid, but I'm not sure if its wrong or not. He likes her and wants to ask her out. The grade difference is 3 years, but the age is only 2 and like one month. I dont know what to tell her. HELP!

2007-08-14 17:15:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today she dug her nails into my neck. I admit that I said somethings but she always does it. It seem's like she almost enjoys it. like "for saying that I'm going to hit you" There is no talking to her. I've tried that. she just said i'm hopless, stupid (I'm in the honor roll) and that she raised a demon of a child. I just want to get away from her. She scares me. So much. I can't take this anymore. please help me. I don't know what to do.

2007-08-14 17:11:02 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 15 and I know my father does drugs for a fact. Every night he has work he goes into the garage and takes some drugs. As fare as I can tell he has been doing it for about 4 years maybe longer. What i want to know it should I tell my Mom? They fight alot sometimes and i am afraid if i tell her this there marrige will fall apart or my dad will hate me (we dont get along as much as he would like). Please Help someone.

2007-08-14 16:53:28 · 15 answers · asked by Ron K 1

I don't have any children, but my mother has favored my older brother all his life, even when he didn't deserve it, (and that was most of the time). As a result he has become self centered, spoiled and arrogant. She always defends his bad behavior and makes excuses for him, ever since we were children. Myself and my younger brother have always known that he is her favorite. I just want to know if anyone else has this experience. A lot of parents wont admit favoring one child over the other, due to guilt or denial. Honest, sincere responses only. Thanx.

2007-08-14 15:43:08 · 7 answers · asked by sustasue 7

know some of u read about my cousin losing his bladder and bowel control in a car accident .i have a problem because every morning he wakes up and starts to cry because he had accident at night . u would think he would have got use to waking up with a wet diaper but he dosen't act like it . he's usely wakes up around 7:30 or 8:00 and starts to cry and i like to sleep till 9:00 . what can i do for him to get use to waking up with and accident. hes 23 years old and he dosn't have brain damage

to have patience u need sleep i love him with all my heart but once and a while i need a little sleep

anything i can do for him to get more sleep at night . please don't say ur selfesh or ur mean . i need help would u help me find a way for to get sleep and some times he will speck like a two year old .

If u want to see his photo copy that http://www.flickr.com/photos/10693154@N02/946341617/

2007-08-14 15:17:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok not a serious problem but it still bugs me. My mom works at a grocery store wal mart to be specific she has been working there for a couple years now and so she knows a lot people who work there pretty much she knows someone from every wal mart in the state. So every time we go shopping she ends up chatting with someone for ever some times she keeps me waiting for up til an hour and a half. And these are people i don't know at all so Im pretty much waiting on a bench til she is done. Should i be really mad or should i just get used to it?

2007-08-14 15:07:36 · 4 answers · asked by nobody 5

My husband has a cousin that got in a really bad motorcross accident at the beginning of July. He's been in the hospital ever since. His mom hasn't been working since his accident and his dad took 3 weeks off from work to be with him. (My husband and I got married in January) The mom and dad weren't able to make it to our wedding and they sent us a card with a big check as well. I feel really bad for accepting the check because I know that insurance isn't paying for all of the hospital bills and I know a big hefty bill is coming their way, but at the same time I don't want to send it back because I don't want to hurt their feelings even though I know they need it more at this point in their lives. So what should my husband and I do with the check?

2007-08-14 15:00:31 · 13 answers · asked by CS 3

There is this little girl who was beat for nine months and she died her step dad kick her so hard one day she was murderd........ She was 2 years old and did not get a chance to see life in new ways her dad came home from the war 2 days after she died to see her instead he got to see her grave...how would you feel if your baby was taken from you??? people out there go through this kind of thing everyday... you can see pics on the enter net and videos but we cant see is her grow to be a strong person... the person who did this should be punished I don't know them persanaley but I know that little gir in my heart there should be no more people out there like that who would herta a chiled....
the girl that I am talking about is
Kelsey briggs
look her up on Google and you tube please try to help her you will brake out in tears................................... :( :( :( :( :( :(

2007-08-14 13:44:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i hav hierd of it in muvys and other places. what is it?

2007-08-14 13:21:59 · 13 answers · asked by littlemissme1998 1

my fiancee cant stand my mom he says she is rude, bitchy, and inconsiterate. he feels as if she does things behind peoples back and maniplulates me into doing things against what he says. she has told me before that she thinks he is better than him but he doesnt. i want them to get along but i dont know what to do, everytime we go to their house for a family gathering or something nobody talks to him so he just sits there. he has tried being friendly, talking and spending time with them but they just do not change. he hates going to see them because he knows he will not talk to anyone without them not really talking back or just not trying to talk to him. our families are very differnet and he wants mine to be like his. they are outgoing and friendly while mine are sort of awkward with people and not the most outgoing. what can i do to make things better because as of now everytime we go there i feel weird for not knowing how to handle the situation and i know he cant stand being there

2007-08-14 12:52:16 · 11 answers · asked by jaden 1

i used to be his favorite child & chinese parents tend to prefer the boy over the girl so it made me feel special that my dad liked me better than my brother. he told me when people asked him when he was just married do you want a boy or a girl. he said girl. and people were like WHY? and he said the daughter listens more. he told me that like 2 years ago when i was 12. i'm 14 now. the high school i'm going to is pretty decent, my grades are pretty good. and unlike my brother i don't cry at everything or throw fits all the time. i don't do drugs or drink or anything like that.
so why doesn't my dad not love me anymore?
and as a child my mother always hated me. do you think my mother's influence as rubbed off on him? =/

2007-08-14 11:35:12 · 11 answers · asked by xoxokissesx3 3

My mom always talks about how her brother complains to her about the troubles between him and his wife. (affairs, staying out late, not taking care of their son, etc) And my mom would cry to me how she can't figure out why it has been happening in their family and she doesn't know how to help them.
I would say, stay out of their business, however she wants to be a good sister and help them out.
I googled my uncle's email address online..and his email came up on various "swingers" sites with nude pix, etc AND his wife is on there as weel. I was disgusted, yet HERE was my answer to why he and his wife are having marriage problems. I've known this for 4 months now, haven't told anybody.... Should I tell my mom?(part of me thinks she wouldn't want to know something like this about her brother) Or just stay out of it completely?

2007-08-14 11:08:19 · 8 answers · asked by beautiful bird 3

HOW DO I CALM DOWN. I AM SOOOO ANGRY AT MY DAD RIGHT NOW! I HAVE BEEN PLANNING A PARTY FOR LIKE, EVER AND NOW MY DAD SAYS THAT I CAN'T HAVE IT BECAUSE I THREW A LITTLE BOTTLE AT HIM. WHAT DO I DO!?!?

2007-08-14 10:54:19 · 15 answers · asked by Holly 2

I just recently visited my mom for the weekend. She had a chip on her shoulder the whole time and was looking for a fight with her husband etc. We stayed and made the best of it but were definitely ready to leave when the weekend was over. I had decided to move four states away in a year due to my husband finding a great job in Denver. Mom has already started the guilt trip asking me when am I coming back to visit (I live 7 hrs away) and how she wished I lived closer. I try to visit when I can out of respect but it seems unfair because mom does not work and her husband is self employed. They have never visited me. I work full time and go to school part time. It annoys me that my mom is not thoughful of this and puts pressure on me and no effort on her part. How can I politely tell her that it is her turn to visit me? Why does she not understand? She and her husband just got home from a trip 4 1/2 hours from their home for their anniversary, why can't they visit me?

2007-08-14 10:29:41 · 7 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2

I was snooping through my lover's private things. I wanted to see if a man of color's private things were different than my horrible exhusbands privates.

Well I came across some interesting documents that indicate that my horrible ex-husband and my lover are actually brothers.

Should I tell them?

2007-08-14 10:20:56 · 14 answers · asked by H_bomb the III 2

They won't let me leave with any of my belongings, they have all my legal documentation (my birth certificate, passport, social security card, etc.) They REFUSE to let me leave, what do i do?

2007-08-14 07:58:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous