I have always had a wild streak in me but i have always been careful and mature about things. My parents always trusted me and let me do most things such as go parties, stay out until reasonable times.... but just recently i messed up BIG TIME!
i went to a party and got very drunk, my dad came and picked me up at 11 as usual and then we got home and i don't think he realised i was that drunk.
This is when i made the biggest mistake of my life.....
i got a text from one of my friends saying their goin town and i remember just thinkin "arrr yeah im comin" and from that moment i was halfway out of my upstairs bedroom window escapin from my house when my parents thought i was tucked in bed.
my parents obviously found out and i am grounded for.....i don't know how long.... i cannot believe what i have done and how badly i have wrecked the trust between my parents.
my friend has invited me to go camping in a few days, how can i ask my mum n dad?
2007-08-15 02:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by xoxchickxox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i'm only 15 aswell....
but i know how irresponsible i was that night
2007-08-15 02:04:28 · update #1
i think your priority right now would be to regain your parents' trust.
you can probably ask if you can go camping, but just accept whatever response you get.
also, let your parents know how you're feeling about what you have done... i'm sure they'd like to know.
this will pass, hon, given time. take care, ok?
2007-08-15 02:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are grounded then it doesn't matter who asked you where and when.
If you haven't already you need to apologize to your parents, you just weren't irresponsible, your behavior was disrespectful and downright dangerous. You have no business drinking at age 15 or going to parties where there drinking. Since you climbed out that window, your judgment obviously cannot be trusted.
Take advantage of your parents discipline and make a break from that sort of stuff. You are headed for trouble and it has nothing to do with a wild streak, it has to do with no self respect.
2007-08-15 09:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
skip asking about camping because it ain't going to happen. YOur parents have punished you and you need to take the punishment and let them know you are sorry. Do you think you are taking your parents trust for granted??? You were drunk at 15? How would your parents feel about that and what makes you think you deserve their trust? so you tell them that you drink? If so then there is a problem with their parenting and if not then they trust the person they think you are...not the person you really are. Trust goes both ways and you have broken it big time. You are still a child...act it.
2007-08-15 09:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by chris d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you go out camping or anything else, you need to prove to your parents that they can trust you. You're right, you made a huge mistake. But, you can't repair the damage your defiance & stupidity caused to your relationship with your parents by doing the same thing all over again.You have to be responsible, display a much more mature behaviour pattern for a long time before your parents should trust you again. You aren't too young to act responsibly. Just prove to them that you can. Good Luck & Blessings
2007-08-15 09:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by Tail Stinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to take some time. You know it and I know and your parents know it. What you might not know is that they are feeling hurt, betrayed, scared the whole gambit of emotions, it's damn stressful. And now they can't trust you.
You have to go to them and tell them how sorry you are. Ask for their forgiveness. Then talk with them about what they need to see from you to repair the damage. Honey, your parents put their heart and soul into you and this can be devastating to them. You have to work hard here to make them believe you are truly sorry and remorseful. Show it. Then do whatever they ask to correct the mistake. Learn from this one sweetie, that your parents have feelings.
2007-08-15 09:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u broke the trust ur parents had in u. you now have to pay the price and earn that trust back. its alot easier to lose trust then it is to earn it. u have a long time before they trust u again and its ur own fault. you shouldnt even ask to go to the camp out. in fact u need to sit down and tell your parents you are sorry and you see u did wrong and you know it will take along time to earn the trust back but u indeed will show them in time that they can trust u...
2007-08-15 09:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY WHY DONT YOU JUST CHILL OUT AND DONT SNEAK OUT. YOUR 15!!!!!!!!!! YOU WILL HAVE YOUR CHANCE TO BE WILD WHEN YOU TURN 18 AND CAN GO TO TO CLUBS. JUST BE 15 AND GO TO SCHOOL!!!!!!!!! I AM ON YOUR PARENTS SIDE
2007-08-15 09:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♥M♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not gonna happen. it will take months to gain their trust back. get used to it.
2007-08-15 09:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋