Would you prefer to live in a beautiful, well developed but stressful place with friends and family or?

Question

Or would you rather live in a place that is less developed but with very little stress with just your spouse?

Answer 1

Stress kills, I'd go for scaled down and my spouse.

Answer 2

Less developed place with just my spouse, but visiting family and friends as often as possible. Reason: If I'm already stressed in a "well developed place", how much more stress will that put on a marriage? A lot. Family/Friends can put a lot of stress on their own without even trying! Let us get off alone and tough it out together. Either we will make it or kill each other trying. But family is important, so I'd try to visit a couple of times a year and just suck up the stress for the short time there. Once kids/grandkids are involved, new evaluations need to be made. Is it more important for the support mechanism and them to know grandparents daily, or to have less stress? Is less stress always key to happiness? Not necessarily. It would have to be weighed again after children and discussed with my spouse.

Answer 3

A certain thing is only referred to as "beautiful" because of the idea it denotes in your brain, just like a well developed house makes you think of comfort and luxury. But there are instances where they can be tied with unfavorable thoughts just like in certain psychological experiment where a baby cries whenever he saw a stuffed toy animal. That was way before when human psychological experimentation was legal, they did a classical conditioning technique in order for that to happen where made a really loud sound whenever they show the stuffed to to the baby.
So, what I would say is a less developed place with less stress is much better since that beautiful place wouldn't be so beautiful after a few months of staying in it.

Answer 4

I don't know what you mean by stress because no matter where you live there will be stress. Stress is unavoidable but to the degree you want stress is controllable. I am not for sure what kinds of things are making your life stressful because you haven't mentioned them so that makes it hard fo me to make a decision. I feel no matter where you live if you are a family person it may be difficult for you to live there. I also feel one can make their life where ever they want and still be happy. You have to decide on what is most important to you in life. What makes you happy? Make a list of pros and cons and decide on what you should do. Why do you want to live here and why don't you want to live there? Sometimes writing these things down and looking at the list it will make it easier to decide on what makes you happy. Just also keep in mind when you have children are you going to want to live closer to family? When you have children it is always nice that they can go and be with Grandma and Grandma or cousins and family. Either way you have to live with your choice but life is always an open door for change.

Answer 5

I'd prefer to live in a place that is beautiful, less stress, and no spouse lol lol lol.. he is a jerk when it comes to our home.


I know waa waaa waaa..

Poor meeeeeeeeee


But, seriously, I'd love to live in a less desirable place as long as some family was around . There is zilch now,, never will be any family !by the looks of it..

Answer 6

i'd love the first situation way more than the second. i'm not really a romantic, but i do love beauty, and i think friends and family are way more important than any guy... hearts can be broken, but you know friends and family will always be there for you! and whats a little stress among them? whereas, married couples break up, and a lack of stress usually also means a lack of excitement in your life, and i don't know what kind of a life that would be... i think i'd die if all i had to look forward to was my guy at the end of the day, and not even in a decent house or with friends or family around me, and without ANY excitement or (sometimes fun in hindsight) chaos in my life? psh, situation one totally beats the second. :)

Answer 7

a place that is less developed but with very little stress with just your spouse.

Answer 8

Less developed with spouse

Answer 9

Less developed with just the spouse.

Answer 10

live in a beautiful, well-developed but stressful place with my friends and family because that's what makes me happy. just never mind the consequences or problems that may arise. family and friends is all that matters.

Answer 11

The financial stress would be less with friends and family.
It would depend on if there were enough privacy to do things like Yoga and Meditate. If I could do that the community living would be fine, especially if there are kids, as the planning babysitting would be easier.