I'm 14 yrs old, since I can remember My mom's been hitting me. I've had it what do i do?

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Today she dug her nails into my neck. I admit that I said somethings but she always does it. It seem's like she almost enjoys it. like "for saying that I'm going to hit you" There is no talking to her. I've tried that. she just said i'm hopless, stupid (I'm in the honor roll) and that she raised a demon of a child. I just want to get away from her. She scares me. So much. I can't take this anymore. please help me. I don't know what to do.

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S I'm 14 yrs old, since I can remember My mom's been hitting me. I've had it what do i do?
Today she dug her nails into my neck. I admit that I said somethings but she always does it. It seem's like she almost enjoys it. like "for saying that I'm going to hit you" There is no talking to her. I've tried that. she just said i'm hopless, stupid (I'm in the honor roll) and that she raised a demon of a child. I just want to get away from her. She scares me. So much. I can't take this anymore. please help me. I don't know what to do.

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I told my grandma, but it didn't seem like a big deal to her she said she would talk to my mom.

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person numba 3
S I'm 14 yrs old, since I can remember My mom's been hitting me. I've had it what do i do?
Today she dug her nails into my neck. I admit that I said somethings but she always does it. It seem's like she almost enjoys it. like "for saying that I'm going to hit you" There is no talking to her. I've tried that. she just said i'm hopless, stupid (I'm in the honor roll) and that she raised a demon of a child. I just want to get away from her. She scares me. So much. I can't take this anymore. please help me. I don't know what to do.

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I told my grandma, but it didn't seem like a big deal to her she said she would talk to my mom.

Answer 1

Honey, please call the police or go to school tomorrow and tell your guidance counsler! NO child derserves be abused in anyway! Is your father around? or any other family? call them as well, so when police are involved you have some where to go. good luck honey...

Answer 2

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Answer 3

This is child abuse no matter how you look at it. You need to contact the police and soon. If there are fresh marks from where she dug her nails into you then that is evidence enought ot press charges. You need to think about your safety right now and if that means turning your mom it then so be it. They will force her to get help and become a better mother. In the mean time try to find a friend who's family will let you stay with them or a responsible relative. I know it's scarey but your safety is what matters.

Answer 4

OMG, I'm so sorry for what you are going through. Abuse is not acceptable and you shouldn't have to endure it! It needs to be stopped immediatly. This will have such an affect on you the rest of your life. You need to talk to a trust family member or adult. If nobody in your family believes you, talk to a guidance counselor, a school teacher, nurse, or even talk to an authority figure like a police officer. Don't be afraid. You're not alone, and don't worry about your mom getting into trouble, she needs to get help. She cannot get help if nobody confronts her about what she is doing is wrong.

Answer 5

This is abuse. Both physical and emotional. Talk to a school counselor or a trusted adult and ask them to help you. If you have a best friend, their parent may be able to help. Be careful of your behavior around her. If you say or do certain things that set her off, avoid saying or doing them. But definitely find someone who can intervene. If it continues and you feel you have no one to go to, call family services or even the police. You should not have to endure that kind of treatment and your Mom needs help in learning how to relate to you.

Answer 6

Try keeping a log of every time she hurts you, or yells at you and why, and what she said or did. It can be used as evidence. If you can take any pictures of bruises, all the better. Maybe a friend could help with this. Keep them with your diary. Hide it well!!!

See if you have any family members who will take you in. Do it without telling your Mom. If they are a distance from her, that's good. Show them the diary to convince them you really need to get out of there.

Police are good in an emergency, but their hands are tied as to any long term help. Maybe a Woman's place could help.
Good luck to you,
I will keep you in my prayers,
Jann

Answer 7

You need to talk to someone. Someone that you can trust, like maybe a friend, a teacher, school counselor, your church pastor (if you go to church), etc. Or you can call one of those teen crisis hotlines. Just talk to someone and make them aware of what is going on. Also, talk to God about it. Pray and have hope. Ask people to pray for you. Prayer is the most powerful force on the planet. But you need to get help. You may need to be removed from your home and placed elsewhere or live with another relative who treats you better. Good luck:).

Answer 8

I really hope that you realize that your mom has got some problems. You are going to have to talk with the either members of your family about this and ask them what should you do, or flat out call the police next time she does this. This kind of behavior in todays society doesn't fly...hang in there.

Answer 9

You need to tell an adult you trust, or tell one of your friends to tell their parents! But in all reality you really need to call the cops!

That is abuse, which is a federal offense! I have a friend who's father is the chief of police and he would be very disheartened to hear it, you need to stand up for yourself! When she does it again don't fight back, leave the house, go to a neighbors! It might be embarrassing but if she goes too far the next time it could be your life!!!!

Good Luck, and I am truly sorry this happened to you!

Answer 10

First things first!! Go to your guidance counciler at school and tell them everything that is going on, write down everything that you remember on a piece of paper. Submit the paper to your councilor they will take the proper procedures to be sure that you are safe from your mother. And sweety do not ever think that you are not any good because you are and remember to pray. Do it right away!!! Don't wait or else things may get worse!!

Answer 11

Speak to a counselor first. If it gets really out of hand and you've really had enough just call the police and explain the issue that you've been having. If you scares and stuff then that basically is child abuse. Speak to counselor she can most likely help you really talk to your mom and get through to her. If you really get scared once again call the police.