Family - August 2007

2007-08-14 07:41:42 · 8 answers · asked by ashley o 1

im love both of them and my boyfriend is saying we are going to get married some day but i still want to be with my first baby daddy what should i do?

2007-08-14 07:40:24 · 4 answers · asked by shawty_red_atl 1

This is going to be kind of long:

My mom is a black muslim apart of the Nation of Islam (NOI) and she's trying to pressure me into being apart of it. It was never really a problem until I got to the age of 13 because they are super strict, you can't have a boyfriend (and I have one) and you can't wear tight or short clothes (and I do so and I like exposing my body). And they have some crazy beliefs like the white man is the devil and I don't believe that at all.

This has torn me and my mom apart. She's knows nothing about me and vice versa. What should I do?

2007-08-14 07:09:14 · 22 answers · asked by {*Kiterya A.k.A Ms Caramel*} 5

What color hair and eyes will our baby have?

2007-08-14 06:52:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

the computer online (a 13 year old) or a 7 year old (on the Wii) on a school day?????

2007-08-14 06:51:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom and I are extremely close. Now it's two and a half days before I leave for college, we're getting stuff ready, and she's constantly crying but trying really hard to hide it. I'm the oldest of 3 kids but the only girl, and we're each other's only true best friend. She's starting to catch the cold I'm just getting over, and I'm scared that being very depressed will only lead to her getting sicker, which is the last thing I want. Every time I mention I'd be only a phone call or e-mail away... well, that just reminds her that I won't be around and she gets sadder. If anyone can give any advice on how to make the transition to college a much less depressing one - for both of us but especially Mom - I'd really appreciate it and love you forever. =]

2007-08-14 05:50:36 · 2 answers · asked by collegeboundpixiegurl 2

well my best friend used to live next door to me and almost a year ago he had to leave because of problems with his father. but he left three sisters and one who he practically raised till she was 8 months old when he left but i see her outside running around with her sister and father and i cant help but hate them all. I dont understand how he goes through life everyday not regreating what he did, his son/my friend refuses to talk to him. i wanna scream at the father just because he took so much away from me and my friend, and my friends happier where he is now but we both hate being so far apart. and kills me having to still be near his family.

any advice on how to deal or get over hating the father?

2007-08-14 05:41:37 · 1 answers · asked by jreeses2673 4

a man buys drugs from a drug dealer and takes them home for him and his wife, his wife knows that they are drugs, they both take them, when the man comes around he notices his wife has had an over dose and she has died, whos to blame for this the drug dealer, the husband or the wife

2007-08-14 05:32:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

know some of u read about my cousin losing his bladder and bowel control in a car accident .i have a problem because every morning he wakes up and starts to cry because he had accident at night . u would think he would have got use to waking up with a wet diaper but he dosen't act like it . he's usely wakes up around 7:30 or 8:00 and starts to cry and i like to sleep till 9:00 . what can i do for him to get use to waking up with and accident. hes 23 years old and he dosn't have brain damage

to have patience u need sleep i love him with all my heart but once and a while i need a little sleep

anything i can do for him to get more sleep at night . please don't say ur selfesh or ur mean . i need help would u help me find a way for to get sleep

2007-08-14 05:20:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have sometimes intense fights with my family over my ethics. I never push my ethics on them, and in fact they bring it up and call me weird, crazy, tell me they couldn't live without meat, things like that and I just say "fine thats what you think" and they keep pushing it. They have always made fun of me because I'm pretty clumsy and they call me a nerd and things like that. They make fun of my dog, who I take everywhere with me, calling her dumb, stupid, fat, and my uncle says she's a rat and needs to be shot. I tell them to back off and leave me alone, but it starts a new fight. I try to not let it get to me, but it does after a while and ends with me screaming at them or sitting in a room alone until I can leave. I'm a teenage girl with the usual insecurities and things like that, so it makes it so much worse. I don't have the choice to not go to family functions unless I fake sick, which I have on occasion. How can I tell them to back off without starting another fight?

2007-08-14 04:29:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, my mom says that she does all of the work, and everything. My dad owns his own silo company and my mom works part time in the postal business (she might be getting a full time job). Well, anyway, yesterday my mom and I were coming home from shopping (I hate to shop, weird I know) but we didnt' actually shop cuz before we left I said "do I have to go" so she just went all crazy and stuff. She's upset that I am going school clothes shopping with my brother's fiance and not her too. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????? WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO MY MOM??????? Should I cancel the shopping with my brother's fiance and go with my mom instead????

2007-08-14 04:13:16 · 6 answers · asked by Servant of God! Live 4 God!!!! 3

Well, I am trying to save up money for a cell phone, because my mom won't get me one. So she knew that I was. I started doing chores around the house, cleaning room, cleaning my bathroom, mom bathroom, doing dishes, cooking dinner, cleaning up after dinner, cleaning the living room, bringing in the trashcans. And I asked her how much I should get paid, and she said you wanted to get paid everyday? I was like maybe, how much in a week? She said 5dollars!! I was like I am 13, and I have only done one days work, but even if I did more it would still be 5 dollars!! I was like this is such a ripe off!!! I could go over to my grandmas house and clean one room and get that much!! How do I get her to up her amount? I think she just doesn't want me to get a cell at all. Please help me!

2007-08-14 04:10:58 · 39 answers · asked by Nicole. 3

Im 19 and I moved to NYC to attend college. The plan was to go to school, live by myself for a year, and work and my mother pay for the apartment. But then my oldest brother, who lives in nyc who lived with his girl, broke up with her, and now my mother wants me to live with my brother in a one bedroom apartment. She said if i dont, then I would have to pay for everything. I didnt sign up for this, and my mother lives all the way in hong kong, and I have been taking care of myself and it has been really hard looking for apartments and dealing with financial aid, work, etc. I just graduated from high school and its been overwhleming being an adult, and i dont want to sound spoiled, but i really dont want to live with my brother and i didnt sign up for this.....Is my mother right? I mean if i woulld have known that I would have to live with him, then i would have went to an actual college somewhere else. help.

2007-08-14 03:19:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 28. Siblings are 27 & 21. Our divorced dad (54) lost his mom (80) last year, and he's acted like a weirdo ever since. I'm convinced that it's also a mid-life crisis. A few examples...taking up pot smoking, fighting with me & my sibs, blowing $$$$ on a trip to Beijing to find a "friend", erratic driving behavior, etc, etc. (He's a high school health/gym teacher!) My sibs & I no longer want to be around him. "Friendly" conversations with him feel forced, fake. He just makes us sick. I miss my "old" dad. I need to have this conversation with him before we completely cut ourselves off....But I do I begin without being confrontational?........I should also mention that I lost my mom (51) to breast cancer 5 months after his mom died, so it's not like I don't know what grief is.

2007-08-14 03:16:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I knew about my old fashioned step-grandfather not liking it, but my mom said I would've been better off in public school and I told my dad and he said my grandmother said the same thing! Mostly I'm angry, resentful, defensive,... I'm a little upset though. Shouldn't they have talked this through earlier? I mean, I've had nightmares about going back to public school! I'll be 17 in January, by the way.

Admittedly, I am anti-social, but I havn't really had a chance to be social seeing as how I have no car and no job, and everybody my age are... Unagreeable. But I don't think that's any reason to rethink my education over the past 6 years!

I'll be starting college next fall probably, so I'll be too busy to think about all this and I just want to ask some objective people before breaching the subject once more with closer observers. Sooo.... Any thoughts internet people?

2007-08-14 03:06:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have met them 2x before, but they seem to not like me.

When i speak to them they dont talk back, or barely look at me. I taken gifts everytime i seen them but nothing seems to work.

I dress normal - wear tradtional indian clothes etc nothing reaveling.

Told my hubby about this and he said they like me.

Sometimes when hubby goes alone to see them, and when he returns - he tells me they were asking about me, whether am ok etc. which i find hard to beleive.
He did say numerous time that they like me - but thats when am not there with his family

But why do i get cold vibes when am there near them?

why do they seem to care when am not there and then blank me out when i see them?

I do not get warm welcome etc, and get really strange looks from mother-in law that makes me feel really uneasy

i dont know what to do.

everytime when i say i dont feel like going to see his parents - husband thinks i dont like them etc and turns into an argument

what do i do?

2007-08-14 02:53:10 · 11 answers · asked by Rosy 4

2007-08-14 02:21:28 · 8 answers · asked by Ultrastooge™ 2

2007-08-13 23:49:33 · 13 answers · asked by Sicilian Godmother 7

I sleep late, n wake up late. But my stupid inconsiderate brother always goes into my bathroom, steals a hair pin n opens the fking lock for my bedroom -.- then he pesters me with "Jess can I please give u $9 for this rah rah on a game" -.-; even when I tell him to GTFO he never listens n keeps trying to cut a deal with me after I'm still telling him to get out n go back to sleep. I need to know some pranks to make him regret doing that every morning for the past 4 days. Make it really bad too.

2007-08-13 21:54:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-13 21:41:20 · 14 answers · asked by chicanaGirl 2

my mother in law has gone to far, NOW she has tracked all the emails from my computer to know that it isn't 'her son' emailing her.!! IF my hubby told me to email her, I email them in his name, in his account, what diff. does it make where the da*m computer is!! i am seriously upset and I told them since they track my emails, leave me, hubby and our son alone. NO other words were said. what type of 60 yr old woman would want to hurt her son, daughter in law and grandson this way? I truely believe she needs mental help, institutionalized for a bit. The worst thing is, that the rest of the family (his) says its my fault! MY fault for emailing when my husband, who is deployed couldn't do it! , he gets limited time on the pc, if ANY. we get 20 min phone calls and they are once a week!I have enough stress of running 'the show' here, and my husband deployed to deal with their games! so my question is, how do i get them out of our business. I get 'respect ur elders, but they need to respect

2007-08-13 21:31:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am making a cd for my mom and i need songs either about moms or about daughters

2007-08-13 20:52:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my mom and all but somethimes lets just put it like this i dont know why she wont let me just live...first off i dont have a cell phone second she doesnt like me wearing make up third she hates when i wear really low jeans and shirts wear i show a lil clevlage and also she doesnt like the thought of me wearing a thong OMG WILL SHE EVER LET ME GROW UP im not always gonna be her good lil gurl cuz im NOT and im tired of her acting like im 8

2007-08-13 19:22:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help!!!My is so uncool.She is always making me clean my room when it is not even dirty!I love her but she always gets on my last nerve!What should I do?

2007-08-13 19:17:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was looking through some files on my computer, and found some recently saved photos. They were collages made with a photo of my dad and some other woman. I thought "okay, I know he has friends online, she was bored and starting messing with pictures". I passed 3 photos like that, thinking nothing out of the ordinary. But I reached the 4th pic, not a collage, impossible to be computerized, a man and woman locking lips. (my father was never really all that bright, {obviously}) Now, the photo is a bit blurry, but I think I can recognize my own father's glasses, haircut, & earring. But Im trying to give him the benefit of the doubt at the moment.
I hacked into his aol account and checked out his emails and (3)friends- 2 out of the three didnt have pictures or info to ensure which one was the one of the photo.
Of course I have to tell my mom but how and when?
She is completely stressed out over bills, what not to pay to have money to move this saturday, and

2007-08-13 17:48:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-13 17:24:36 · 8 answers · asked by . 2

my aunt told me i was spoiled out of the blue. we were driving in the car, and i mentioned something about my family's trip to nice, france in the summer. then she told me my parents spoiled me and i had no idea how some people lived and neither did i care. well, she's wrong! i am not spoiled, in my opinion, and i am very aware of the situation of the less fortunate people and how they live. i am also extremely grateful for my position in life and i pray my thanks to god every day. dont you think her comment was uncalled for? i told her all of the above, but she seemed unconvinced.
thanks for your opinions.

2007-08-13 16:53:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were talking in the kitchen and I lifted my shirt to show that Ive lost weight around my gut because I started drinking water

She joking lifted her shirt up to show her gut (Shes on teams so shes fit) 'I'm still skinnier"

She didn't notice it but she lifted her shirt up to far and I accidentally saw one of her ****

IM NOT AROUSED!!! QUITE THE CONTRARY I FEEL SICK I NEED TO GET THIS OUT OF MY HEAD!!!

WHAT CAN I DO!!!!!

Shes always been so small and petit and flat chested now all of a sudden I see a tit!!! AHH I FREKING OUT ABOUT THIS HELP!!!!

2007-08-13 16:50:29 · 7 answers · asked by spikesdummy 1

You know he loves you. But it's not easy to please his parents, brother and sister... Any ideas?

2007-08-13 16:45:10 · 2 answers · asked by geisha 1

ok. my couson (who's 16) started acting very strangely around me starting about 6 months ago. He has called me 'hot' and when he walked past me he brushed his hand over my shoulder. I found this very strange. I don't like him at all (like that) and have told him several times that i have a boyfriend. I even introduced him to my bf. Do you guys think this is anything more then being friendly??
oh, in case this helps, im 13.

2007-08-13 15:40:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous