i love my mom and all but somethimes lets just put it like this i dont know why she wont let me just live...first off i dont have a cell phone second she doesnt like me wearing make up third she hates when i wear really low jeans and shirts wear i show a lil clevlage and also she doesnt like the thought of me wearing a thong OMG WILL SHE EVER LET ME GROW UP im not always gonna be her good lil gurl cuz im NOT and im tired of her acting like im 8
2007-08-13 19:22:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
IM in middle school
2007-08-13 19:38:52 · update #1
she just doesnt want you to grow up.same with my dad.or that he just doesnt want me showing 'midriff' whatever that is.lol.but for the cellphone thing.tell her that you could get one only for emerginces.
2007-08-13 19:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by hockeygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about cause she knows you are judged by what you put out there? Low jeans with thongs that show, low shirts that point out cleavage, makeup- possibly put on with a heavy hand- all says I am ready to get naked. It is a power trip to have guys look at and covet your body but at your age it will set a precedent of who you are and how you want to be treated. You want to be treated with respect or as a piece of meat?
And you will grow up, with or without the slutty clothes, and will spend a loooonnnngg time as an adult. Save it for later when you can handle the possible consequences.
2007-08-14 02:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mom is right in a way. She's trying to save you from the horrible possiblities of a older person... such as sex. Really, she just cares. You're in middle school, why would you want to wear shirts that show lots of clevage or a thong? I can maybe understand make up. Cool down, you're not as old as you think you are.
2007-08-14 02:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not thats shes trying to keep you from growing up, if you wear low cut shirts that show stuff off do you know what kind of message that sends?It tells guys that youre easy,you may not be but now adays, most girls who advertise what they have are seen as a slut,or an open invitation to preditiors
2007-08-14 03:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you dint say how old you are, she is only doing this coz she loves and cares for you,
2007-08-14 02:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ladyofdubai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋