ok. my couson (who's 16) started acting very strangely around me starting about 6 months ago. He has called me 'hot' and when he walked past me he brushed his hand over my shoulder. I found this very strange. I don't like him at all (like that) and have told him several times that i have a boyfriend. I even introduced him to my bf. Do you guys think this is anything more then being friendly??
oh, in case this helps, im 13.
2007-08-13 15:40:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Jesus Christ! I read this thinking you were older, but that's just creepy! Tell your parents or guardians, or tell him to back the f*ck off.
2007-08-13 15:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by M H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By all means, don't go anywhere with him alone or be in a room with him alone. He's older and probably stronger and he could lose control of himself and do something everyone will regret. If I were you, I would tell your parents what he has done right away. It could be that he has done this to others, not necessarily related, but weaker and younger. I've seen this type of behavior from teens before and if something isn't done about it now, he could get himself into a lot of trouble and hurt others, including you. Say something to your parents. If they don't believe you then go to someone else....a clergyman, a teacher...someone who is legally bound to report it....Good luck and stay safe.
2007-08-13 15:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by ndn_ronhoward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Don't let yourself be alone with him if that is at all possible. It sounds like he may be putting moves on you. If this strang attitude gets any worse talk to an adult that you can trust. Incest rape is more common then most people want to think.
2007-08-13 15:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 too.
when boys turn 16 they start getting some serious hormones. If he won't back off then you have to just start acting like a dick to him and if it starts to become a serious issue tell an adult.
2007-08-13 15:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously he is interested in you sexually.Lots of cousins are attracted to each other(i.e. kissing cousins). In some countries like Pakistan about half the marriages are between first cousins. It used to be more common in the US. Let him know that you are repelled by the idea. His hormones are on overdrive.
2007-08-13 15:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by rationallady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are NOT interested in him and to keep his hands off you. He is probably just practicing his moves, but it isn't appropiate for your cousin, or any male to do that if you are not willing. He can give you a chance to practice saying NO, which is a good word for any female to have ready.
2007-08-13 15:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes being more than friendly,hes hiting on you.you need to take matters in your hands before this gets worse.try not to be alone with him(just in case)and try to talk/explain to him you are not intrested.make this known to your boyfriend,then make it know to your mother/father if it gets a lot worse.
2007-08-13 15:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by rach. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is knida weird but not impossible 2 solve. just talk about ur bf and if this gets worst, why not try finding a girl who is like u and get them 2gether. maybe it'll help.
2007-08-13 15:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Se7en 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make your parents aware of this situation. I know it's awkward and uncomfortable, but no male relative should treat you this way. It's not your fault. And your parents need to know so they can protect you. Make sure you don't put yourself in a situation where you are alone with him.
2007-08-13 15:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by THE QUEEN B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell an adult. This is NOT appropriate behavior. Not only is he related to you, but he is 3 years older. Confide in your mom or dad.
2007-08-13 15:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by GiddyGiddyGoin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋