Family - July 2007

I am scared the law might tell to leave my houseand still pay because of my kids.she dont pay nothing in the house.just livin of me.

2007-07-30 12:56:54 · 3 answers · asked by paul m 1

Hey, im 13 and my dad is a loser. Hes always touching me when nobody is around. He has a camcorder in the bathroom thats is supposed to be hidden. If I say something he will just hit me. He always is using my for sexual pleasure and im tired of it. my mom is divorced....

2007-07-30 12:52:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

One is 11, the other 13, both sweet girls. We have a good relationship, I treat them with much love. I like tradition and at home I make them wear frilly pinafore aprons, even when they arent doing chores. It's the cutest thing, they look adorable in them. Her aprons are like that at http://www.inthestarlight.com/aliceapron.html They don't like that much, especially the 13 yo, but they obey. My 13 yo old gets a bit embarrassed when she wears it in front of her friends or strangers, but everybody says they look adorable. They are not exactly forced to wear them, I just ask, say I'd love. When one of them they say no, mom, I just say oh yes hun, pick he pinafore and gently put it on her.I don't force, just ask w/ love and use a bit of my authorityif they rfuse. Of course, they cant say no to their mom and I love them so much.

2007-07-30 12:40:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents been together for 19 years do you think they should consider marriage or stay boyfriend and girlfriend

2007-07-30 12:38:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-30 12:35:45 · 9 answers · asked by Ms.Price 1

But if i don't act how my family expects me to, they start accusing me of using. if i sleep too much i'm high, if i'm angry i'm high, if i punish my son, i'm high. And they seem to find it nessacery to share with the world that i'm a drug addict. i'm not proud of what i have done but i'm trying to get ahead of it and i feel like they won't let me. i tried to enroll my son in a private school and the first thing out of my moms mouth was, "oh i'm here becouse she can't pay the full tuition becouse she uses drugs"!!!! what the hell. I live in california and my income is 830 a month from which i have to pay almost half for my car and insurance and not to mention food, gas and other everyday needs. I'm i wrong for wanting them to shut up????

2007-07-30 11:43:42 · 17 answers · asked by sisifue 1

My husbands family is going through a rough time right now and he wants to invite his younger brothers to spend the weekend with us to kind of get away. I've been sick for about a week now and haven't really gotten a whole lot of sleep and thought I could catch up this weekend. So, not only is our apartment really cramped with just the two of us and I don't really know how to act around younger kids, but I'm also sick so I feel like it's going to be a very awkward time. My husband says he's irritated that I won't try to be helpful, but I don't see why we can't just pick them up for a couple of hours and take them to a movie or something. I feel awkward letting people stay at my house, even my own family. In a house so small I feel like I don't have room to play hostess. Am I being irrational? Thoughts? Comments?

2007-07-30 11:31:17 · 6 answers · asked by Jennie 3

Why is society not ready to accept a man or woman over 40 still living at home with mom or dad or both?

What is the BIG CRIME?

OR, is it jealousy?

2007-07-30 11:29:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mom was on a trip, I did wrong stuf, bad friends made up my mind. When she came back I got punished but she wasn't harsh. I was grounded but she treated me w/ love and allowed some fun. Since during the time I messed up I didn't wear a bra, mom got me some bras made of thick material that covered a lot of my breasts, give much support and clip w/ 4 hooks,just to compensate for the time I was braless. I didn't like them but didn't complain. My punishment is over, no more restriction, I'm completely forgiven,my relationship w/ mom is great, But she decided to keep me wearing those bras. Now I complained a lot, but she said they are good for me and won't back off until I leave home. She was loving but firm and said This is not a punishment but for your own good. I really want bras w/ full coverage, much support , no see through andn 4 hooks, and dont want complaints, ok? Said they are good and decent, just what a good girl like me needs. What do I do? Just obey without complaining?

2007-07-30 11:02:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anabela 1

Because if she is my sister-in-law's cousin(by blood) then she should be my cousin by marriage.
If she is my sister-in-law's cousin then she is my cousin too by marriage. Right?
Because I am her cousin's brother (in law) so my sister (in law)'s cousin is my cousin too but by marriage. Right?

2007-07-30 11:02:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

he was never there for me, my family is never there for me and i feel as though i have no support group at all. my emotions are always bottled up inside. it feels sickening in my heart and stomach. he could care less about me. it also makes me sick that other older people act like my dad is a victim and it makes me look like I was a rebellious child. There is no reason at all for pity on my father. He made millions of dollars and could have cared less about his children. Why are children of deadbeat dads looked down upon?

My dad was worthless to us and people want me to pity someone that does not want to communicate with me and society looks at is as there is something wrong with me. People, he does not care about me. I don't care what you say, he doesn't even answer the phone when I call.

I hate people that don't understand and try to make you look bad.

2007-07-30 10:47:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husbands son got a cell phone for christmas he is 13. he was told to never use the internet or text message. he went instead and charged up to 180 bucks on the phone with buying 100 of it in games. the rest went to text and accessing the internet. he purchased from the phone membership for runescape online game. we told him he was getting membership for his birthday next month. also knowing we don't have tons of money he bought 100 bucks in games. our bill was 300 and threw a red flag. now cingular did take off the charges after i called and begged. thank GOD. shouldn't he loose the phone till he is more mature and not use internet game runescape for going behind our back and charging it on our cingular bill. we did not know he still had internet still. we though cingular took it off since the last charge of 60 showed up. so what would you do?

2007-07-30 10:43:18 · 22 answers · asked by trish 3

How can i get my annoying little brother off my back and leave me alone??!!! He won't go away!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-30 10:40:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my sister dont know what to think. he hasnt actually done something but all these years he was not the touchy type, then all of the sudden he always wants to hug us, kiss us, make us sit on his lap, and do all these touchy things that he never has done before. and he always looks at us like studies r faces, and stuff. then we recently went to hawaii and when we were in r bathing suits he always tried to look at us. and when we went snorkling im pretty sure he was looking at r butts and its just so wierd how all of the sudden he "wants" us. is it just us or can this be leading to a molestation?

2007-07-30 10:37:41 · 49 answers · asked by ☼mexican chica☼ 1

my sons girl friend, mother of his 2 children, up and left, he
sees one child each two days per week.their ages are nealy 2 and 3 this coming augest. well the youngest has had two burns on his hand in under six months, she said one was caused by her hair striaghtners, which she blamed the children for turning on ,and this weeks one was by an iron that her sister left on. didn't look like an iron burn to me as they where two seperate burns on one finger.. Anyway we have the eldest lad tonight. and his eye is all sore and weepy. and he told my son that mummy burnt his eye. last week when we had him. he noticed a small cut on my sons hand and said ,"daddy sore finger, jack got sore leg", when my son had a look he had 4 marks on the calf of his leg, that were still there when i saw him 3 hours later, when asked , he said his mummy did it. the kids are living in filth with two dogs doing their business all over the house, when my son picks them up, they are never dressed, running round

2007-07-30 10:29:45 · 16 answers · asked by valda54 5

My brother is using everything of mine. Including my Computer my PSP and even my Bike. Just recently I came home from a trip to see that my tire's were completely flat most likely of a tear. I also noticed that the seat had been raised on the bike. What should I do this is ridiculous. I've done everything for him and all he does is take advantage. Even when I tell him he can't use my stuff my parents tell me that I am being unreasonable. I also lent him Battlefield 2 recently and he still uses my computer even though I spent a extra $40 for the game. He says that it won't run on his computer as well and it lags. However it works just fine and he still uses my computer to play games and go on the internet even though he has a laptop of his own.

What should I Do!?

2007-07-30 10:16:40 · 8 answers · asked by Eric J 2

why lie to your kids and then tell them not to lie to you. Seriouly why do parents lie.

2007-07-30 10:11:26 · 6 answers · asked by beautifull103087 3

When I was in kindergarten, during show-and-tell, I told everyone my mother had died. I went into detail as to having found her on the floor etc. I can remember my teacher asking me if maybe she wasn't asleep and I told her no, they took my mom away in an abulance. Well, my dad worked with a guy who had a son in my class. He heard from his son that my mother had passed on and came over the next afternoon to give dad his condolences. Think of his surprise when my mom answered the door. I guess according to mom, he had a very strange look on his face and asked to see my dad. Why would I ever make up a story like that???? What is the biggest lie you told as a child?

2007-07-30 10:04:40 · 7 answers · asked by 4532 3

still can't seem to let her into my heart. I was hurt by my first love and to this point this was 8 years ago i am still not able to let her see my softside or be all lovey dovey with her, i put up this macho front and i don't know why or how to get rid of this i so badly don't want to be like this but i have been doing it so long i have forgotten how to open up and be more of myself to share my emotions and my softer side with her. Please help me!

2007-07-30 09:52:22 · 6 answers · asked by imatrickha 1

I go to an alternative school and my dad calls it the reject school and it makes me feel like I am not worth nothing and it hurts really bad.. I used to be an A student and then things at home went down hill and my grades slipped for a year and a half and I was a d- average and after I went to the alternative school I started getting A's I am an A student now and my mom congradulated me and my dad didnt say anything supportive at all when he saw my report card... He never says anything supportive about my school and I feel like I'm not even his daughter, how do I cope with this and or change it?

2007-07-30 09:49:58 · 20 answers · asked by Stefanie 1

My siblings and I have agreed to take over our parents finances and health care before it gets to a point that they don't understand. But, I have a horrible feeling that we are doing something wrong. My parents are freely giving it over, and my siblings and I have a really wonderful relationship. I just feel so guilty... WHY? I haven't done anything wrong.

2007-07-30 09:36:26 · 4 answers · asked by lester 3

I know i shouldnt be going through his business but Gosh he always comes home late and all that other crap.. Him and Her dont even do anything.. so like.. im really curious..

2007-07-30 09:34:59 · 54 answers · asked by Sniicker D 1

well let me start from the beggining my parents are spliting up, my dads an alcoholic, and in a deep depresion. there was only one day out of my whole life (im 15) that i can remembr where he wasnt drunk. my mom says he was sober for a year, she said we did family things. it was perfect when he wasnt drinkin but he picked it back up. me and my dad always fight because of his drinking he is a violent drunk. well about a month ago me and my dad got into it real bad and he called me a ***** and told my mom to make me leave. this was around 1am. my mom decided after that she was done with him. now i think he blaims me for her leaving him, hes always pushing me away and telling me i never cared before i shouldnt now, well last night he was saying alot of things like hes going to hell, and just pretty much dropin hints he wanted to die. i got worried about him and went to his hide out in the back yard, i found him cuting, there was blood all over... im scared. i just need some advice about

2007-07-30 09:05:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

you see, we have these friends and they have 2 sons. one is 2 years older than me and the other one is a little younger than my big sis. so we're all pretty much in each others age ranges. anyhow, we've been seeing them alot for the past 2-3 weeks and we get along SUPER good. and we invited them last night to our pool and jaccuzzi, which are TINY. and now my dad keeps on asking me if we like them and why we were in such close contact and my mom the same, and we were barely getting to know each other and i was beggining to like their youngest son, when my dad forbids us to see them that often. and now i cant help but cry and now im grounded for something we didnt do and such. and now i hate my stepdad. hes not even so friendly. and so my mom is always starting to talk about their son to me and that im too little for hell knows what and such when we were merely enjoying the night! what do i do to get all this anger and sadness out of me. i cant keep living like this and im not doing any

2007-07-30 08:48:06 · 1 answers · asked by CollegeObsessed<3 3

2007-07-30 08:40:55 · 11 answers · asked by can_i_have_a_snack 3

my mom found out i was dating a girl. she doesnt like me doing that. so i got in trouble about that and she cried cuz her son hides secrets from her. my dad constantly lies to my mom and theyre divorced. i started dating the same girl again and my mom found out. she strated crying again. i feel so guilty and dumb for doing what i did. i hurt my mom the only person whos been there for me. i dont kno what to do anymore. any ideas?

2007-07-30 08:22:24 · 19 answers · asked by D 1

My friend is getting married to this creep next year. The thing is her boyfriend has made passes at her sister since last year. He has done different things to her and she hasnt know how to react. The guy is 30. HELP. How can I tell my friend or should I tell her.

2007-07-30 07:57:03 · 23 answers · asked by J S 1

The stay-at-home Mother of four sons, 11yrs, 9yrs, 5yrs, 3 yrs old, was discussing camp plans with her 11 yr old when a neighbor she didn’t know was at the door with her 3yr old in her arms.
The Mother was mystified, because the 5 and 3 yr old NEVER left the very, large yard before when the two older brothers were home.

The Mother doesn’t do drugs, has been married to the Father of the boys for 13 yrs, helps support her husband with Cub/Boy Scouts, T-Ball, Basketball and Football activities, takes the boys to church, library and various appointments.

CPS came out and told her, “If it happens again the children WILL be taken away!” This was after she had solved the problem using the “Love and Logic” parenting methods and making the yard more secure.

Their sons are ALL BOY and full of energy. She Loves them dearly and does as much or more than anyone else would do to make sure they grow into kind, responsible, and strong men.

Does CPS have the right to remove these boys?

2007-07-30 07:52:08 · 22 answers · asked by lafekken_9X9 2

My son is 15 yr old, his dad, my boyfriend at that time forced sex on me against my will and I got pregnant 15 years ago. After 2 yrs we split up but I still let my son see his dad. His dad has done other terrible things to me and was a drug user but I still would let him see his son. The dad has left me alone for years and doesn't give me a hard time. He calls my home to speak with our son and comes to pick him up and brings him back. They go fishing, holidays or work.
Now my present boyfriend doesn't want my son to be around him because of the things that happened in the past. He doen't want him near or in my home to see his son. He doesn't want me to speak to him. I feel all is in the past and it is best to get along with his dad for my son's sake. I don't want him to be mad at me later in life for not letting him see his dad. Am I doing the wrong thing?

2007-07-30 07:45:35 · 25 answers · asked by magee 1

My step son is 19 years old and does not have a job. He makes all kinds of excuses as to why he can't/won't get one. My husband still pays child support for him and all we are asking is that he at least go to college, which he hasn't done either. What should we do?

2007-07-30 07:22:20 · 17 answers · asked by liondra 1