Family - July 2007

Im not marry yet and I dont have children but if one day I have would preffer to have a career and work and then be a stay home wife. Would this hurt the children in the long run?

2007-07-27 19:54:47 · 13 answers · asked by Donna 5

my heart is not healthy... I need heart implant either the implantable artificial heart or heart from a person who have died... both very costly.. there is a long waiting list to get a real heart but I can go to Pakistan where u can get a heart much cheaper without waiting too long...

But I have hidden this problem from everyone other then my dr. no one in this world knows what I am going through... even though there is been a long family history of heart problem in our family tree... and I have clearly all the signs...

I honestly and truly have no intension of living or putting my love ones through the misery of all so I just kept my mouth shut... but my dr. has advised me to let everyone know to help me through this ****... I think I am strong enough to do it all my own and also from everyone in my life I have been told I wish you were death.. Or I won’t drop a tear if you die tomorrow... the list goes on...

the only think bothers me if I die how would my family and friends would react when they find out... my dr. said they will be told the cause of death... And I have to spend about 500$ a month to buy medicines... lately I haven’t been able to pay for it.. My family is very tight with money with me I don’t want to ask them for some other reasons... I always have felt if I die it will be the best thing for everyone and me.. I just wish someone tell me I am right? That is what I want to hear..lol

2007-07-27 19:41:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, im 19, and still only have a permit but no license. And me n my brother went n drove my car at about 12:30 am and my dad woke up and saw us gone. we came back and he told me to give him my keys so i did. then he said we'll find out what hes gonna do to us tomorrow. anyone who's had this experience? Can you suggest anything i can do to possibly make the situation better?

2007-07-27 19:40:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my mom dont fight a lot but sometimes and i cant help yell bck but then afterwards i feel bad! I mean im a teenager but is tht an excuse?

2007-07-27 19:27:33 · 4 answers · asked by Megan W 2

my daughter is 15. she has lived with my mom for 4 years. she wants to move home and now my mom says she will make my daughter go to foster care than live at home. i thought temporary custody was 6 months. i never lost my parental rights so does my daughter have to go back to my moms or can she stay with me? can my daughter not choose who she wants to live with? please help.!!!

2007-07-27 19:14:56 · 1 answers · asked by danigirl1125 1

how do I tell my mom I'm a witch? I'm not joking! I'm not evil by the way I'm just like you.

2007-07-27 19:09:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad wont let me watch what i want on tv and i am 17 and am old enough to have to keep the house clean water the garden and soon have a job but i cant watch what i want on tv or go out after dark or go to an amusement park or store or the fair by myself i mean i am 17 i know hes being protective but come on i am almost an adult and he expects me to have a job next year is a little freedom to much to ask and i am not a tiny little person i am 5 foot 8 and look like i can kick the **** out of pretty much and one i am not a twig girl so am i being unreasonable

2007-07-27 19:08:17 · 12 answers · asked by lissy_ann430 2

my mom and my 18 year old sister's birthdays are comming up. what would be some good gifts for them?

2007-07-27 18:49:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there any way i can talk teach my dog to speak on the phone? are there any special pet people who know how to do that? like Baxter from the movie Anchorman

2007-07-27 18:22:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he always neglect to do his assignments in school . always staying in our computer playing computer games. do i need to have a password how will i do it or i will take off some parts or connection to our computer?

2007-07-27 17:30:42 · 10 answers · asked by gracella_38 1

I'm a 16-year-old boy, and last week, i went to a party. My parents said i had to be home by 10pm, but i didn't get home until 2am, which is just 4 hours late, but my parents went ballistic! They siad they were worried sick about me! Now, i'd had about 2 beers at the party, ad i'd never drank before, so i was drunk, and then they realized i was drunk and they got even more furious. A few months ago i went to a party and i came home 5 hours past the curfew they set, and i'd been smoking at the party, so i got grounded for 2 months! But this time they said grounding obviously hadn't worked, so they were going to spank me! My dad got a paddle to spank me with (they used to spank me but hadn't in a few years) and made me lie face down on the couch! Then he held me down with one hand and spanked me about 25 times on the butt with the other! It hurt like hell! Then my mom said i was grounded for 2 months! I'm too old to listen to my parents& way to old to get spanked! Should i call the cops?

2007-07-27 17:26:16 · 29 answers · asked by FMEXICO 1

everytime we talk about getting married he tells me hes not marriage material and sometimes he tells me that i need to grow up is this normal for a guy to say that

2007-07-27 17:24:19 · 6 answers · asked by haydenray1234 2

i lost my best friend who was like my brother nearly a year ago to a drug overdose. i have been feeling extreme amounts of guilt because i didnt try to stop him. i understand it wasnt my fault but human nature is working against me. this issue has caused many of arguements between my husband and i (who was also friends with him). i am having a hard time finding the right words to explain to my hubby why i'm still morning my brother. is this normal or am i to blame for "caring more about a ghost than my husband"(his words).

2007-07-27 17:15:09 · 3 answers · asked by sweet young thing 3

the mom and my neice fight constently mom just went through a divorce from a man who is not neices dad but she called him dad. so court ruled dad got custody of their two kids together leaving neice with mom now neice tried to cut her wrists 2 weeks ago and now is talking about choking herself mom is at a loss and asked me to help by letting herlive with me 2 states away but is it wise to take her away from mom evan though their are problems or else how are they ever going to get along also mom has a new boyfriend and mom says that sh has to decide between boyfriend and my niece now i know she should choose my neice but han that would just cause underlying hatd between them wouldnt it.i am the only one thhat has ever been able to get through to neice evan more so than grandma and grandpa and neice cant go live with ex because the lawyers are getting their noses in it making exdad feel like niece is a burden when neice love him should we take out of her element to better one with no mom

2007-07-27 16:38:03 · 15 answers · asked by worried aunt 1

Well my prblem is this, i want to get my eyebrow pierced because i want to be indepentend from my brother and i like the way it looks... they think i'm stupid because of this. I feel my dad wants me to become more like my brother. They both have a lot in common with each other. They love cars, they watch the same shows and they can talk to each other about anything. I feel left out just because i'm different from the family. I'ts a typical hispanic family except for me. i skateboard, i listen to rock but i'm not gothic or anything like that. i'm not an outcast or do drugs. I'm just myself and my dad keeps on pushing me to do the same things my brother does and i just want to be independent. i skateboard for fun and i actually want to go to college and train to be a doctor. They just dont understand. I really want to show my dad that i'm different from my brother and i'm independent. i know when i turn 18 i'm getting like 3 small tattoos. So how do I show my whole family I'm indepentent

2007-07-27 16:26:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got a call from my dad today asking to borrow money because he is 2 months behind on his house payment. He didn't specify an amount, just saying "whatever you can do". I'm 22 years old and I live on my own, with my boyfriend. I work full time, bought my own car, pay bills, and have spent extra money entertaining family members that have been visiting and flying to see other family. Together, my boyfriend and I have a good income - but we're struggling with our issues like paying off his debts so that we can look into buying our first home and afford a wedding in the next few years. I'm hesitant to give him any money because I'm afraid some of it will go towards helping my brother who is 26 years old, lives at home, jumps from job to job, and spends all of his extra money on drugs. My dad has never been good at budgeting his money. It burns a hole in his pocket. I'm torn as to what to do. If I loan him any money - it wouldn't be much as I only have $700 to my entire name. Thoughts??

2007-07-27 16:08:13 · 9 answers · asked by VetTech1016 3

He's been in jail for making a few bad decisions after another. It landed him 3 years away from his daughter. The last time he's seen her was when she was 3 mon old. Of course she doesn't know who he is and neither did I school her on who he was. I have been with the same guy for 3 years. He's been there for me and my daughter since she was 3 month old. When she turned 1 she called my boyfriend daddy I corrected her and told her that was "John". That mistake stopped her from called me mama. She then started calling him by name and me too. Finally when she made the terrible twos, I explained to her I was mama and thats what I should be called. She then started calling my boyfriend daddy. This time I didn't correct her. So we've been happilly ever after since.

Until I get a phone call from her biological father. He wants to see the baby. I decided to meet him at a local park.

Additional Details

23 hours ago
He walked up and called her name and she answered but when he started walking toward her she said "I don't like you" "You're bad" I'm gonna beat you up if you touch me" "Leave me alone". Before you jump to conclusions I taught my daughter to recognize and scream if a stranger is bothering you. She figured he was a stranger. She ran from him and refused to let him hold her. I never once corrected any of her feelings because I knew it wasn't programmed feelings it was just the way my daughter felt. I feel bad for not correcting my daughters behavior but then I felt like if I would have I would have been confusing her. When I told her that that was her daddy she said "No he's not I have a daddy already" and then she said my boyfriend's name. The biological father left saying it seems like a happy family and I don't wanna intrude so I'm gone and he left!!!

Any thoughts or suggestions would be helpful because I am confused.

23 hours ago
The biological father has never been consistent with providing for her or even just taking care of her if I have something to do or just needs a babysitter. I don't want to take away a man who has been consistent each and everytime for a guy who hasn't the slightest clue on how to take care of a little girl. I want him there but its not mandatory that he be there full time in my eyes because they have a guy that plans on being there full time already.

From singing the bo-bo song when she hurts herself to adding her to his health insurance this guy is the one

2007-07-27 15:29:24 · 9 answers · asked by Niinnaa 3

I have been noticing lately my dad's strange behavior. I have found porn sites on the computer, he gets on aol at weird times in the day, he has a myspace and he isn't telling anyone, and my parents fight a lot. I don't know what to do, I was thinking about confronting my Dad about some of this, but I don't know what to do.

One time he was on aol at home and I asked who he was talking to and he said no one and I saw a window blinking at the bottom so he was lying...I don't know what to do, or what he is doing....PLEASE HELP!

2007-07-27 15:09:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke thier trust by dating wich to them 15yrs old isnt old enough and I have the tendecy to walk out of the house when I get P.O. which I havn't done anything bad in a while I even help around the house more but they still arn't giving me any freedoms what can I do?????

2007-07-27 14:18:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife is Italian, and like the rest of her family and every other italian i know, she thinks she is always right, and even when i prove to her that she is wrong, she never admits is, nor does she accept it, she just makes up an excuse. like tonight, she shoved all the bed sheets into the dryer and they didn't dry completely because there wasn't enough room for the sheets to tumble, and when i called her about it, she didn't say sorry, she just says "i've done that before and they dried ok!" i am so sick of it, i just want to know if this is some sort of inbred italian characteristic that they can never be wrong in their mind or what !!!

2007-07-27 14:16:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dog passed away a couple months ago and i still feel like im missing a part of me.....how do i mend this hole??

2007-07-27 14:11:39 · 7 answers · asked by ~LiiViiN iiT Up~ 2

Do you get along with your Mother In Law?

2007-07-27 13:52:20 · 6 answers · asked by Summer 3

I often get this fuzzy feeling in my head, like a fog you know? I think it happens more when I'm stressed out, or tired, but it's nothing serious, i can still function, I just wonder if there's a way to get rid of it, or if I'm lacking a vitamin or mineral or something?? I have problems concentrating sometimes too. It's like a tired feeling I guess.
And I also find it happens more around my period.. any suggestions?
thanks!
Krista

2007-07-27 13:47:12 · 4 answers · asked by Butterfly 3

at the time being, i live with my dad, but when i get to high school in one year, i want to live with my mom. i brought this up with my dad, and he was like "Why? I thought you were going to stay up here. When did you make this decision?" So, now he's making me feel all guilty. should i stay with him, or live with my mom?

2007-07-27 13:32:37 · 18 answers · asked by ashley101-zippedy doo dah! 3

and just kicked me in my box. I can't stand her, and never want to be around her at family functions. Her mom thinks its funny and barely made her even apologize. Am I wrong to think that they are completely insane?

2007-07-27 13:29:17 · 9 answers · asked by donellew2002 2

i call her every other day, i see her once a week, but she still nags me to visit her. it drives me crazy. im married and have been for a couple years. i wanna know why shes always nagging me and how to get her to stop.

2007-07-27 13:28:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your king has oredered a rule-if caught stealing you would be hung. You are a mere girl/boy of age 10. Your mother and father are very ill and you cant afford the medicine. Risk your life and steal the pills or dont? THe chances of them surviving are 50%.

2007-07-27 13:23:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-27 13:09:13 · 8 answers · asked by wife of Ali Pasha 3

i live with my mom and grandma and never c my dad. i feel like my mom doesnt trust me because ill ask her like when r u coming home from work? and she will say when i get home and y do u want to know? i try to ask what time but she wont tell me. and i know she knows what time she gets home because if my grandma wants to know she will tell her. & she also wont tell me what i can do ill ask can i go to my friends tommorow and shell say idk or maybe and leave me and my friends clueless sometimes at the last minute and its too late. i havent done anything really bad in the past so i dont understand y she wont tell me simple things like what r u doing how can i earn her trust?? p.s rite now im grounded because i lost the romote witch means im not aloud downstarirs and thats where she spends all her time soo

2007-07-27 13:00:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 14, I have a younger sister, 10, who a little ***** who gets anything she wants and is still always unsatisfied, and an older sister who had a baby about a month ago. My mom has always treated me like ****, I've even heard her say how out of all my siblings and me, I was the one she DID NOT want. She only complains when I'm around, she calls me home so she can complain when I'm out with my friends. According to her everything's my fault and she's screamed at me about how I should just move in with my dad(who'd probably throw me in a lake if I went with him) because then I'd die of secondhand smoke. Right now she's screaming her *** off at me about how I'm a little **** and all her problems are my fault. I've had seizures and I used to cut myself because of problems with her and there is no way in hell that I'm talking to her. Any way to deal with her?

2007-07-27 12:41:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous