my heart is not healthy... I need heart implant either the implantable artificial heart or heart from a person who have died... both very costly.. there is a long waiting list to get a real heart but I can go to Pakistan where u can get a heart much cheaper without waiting too long...
But I have hidden this problem from everyone other then my dr. no one in this world knows what I am going through... even though there is been a long family history of heart problem in our family tree... and I have clearly all the signs...
I honestly and truly have no intension of living or putting my love ones through the misery of all so I just kept my mouth shut... but my dr. has advised me to let everyone know to help me through this ****... I think I am strong enough to do it all my own and also from everyone in my life I have been told I wish you were death.. Or I won’t drop a tear if you die tomorrow... the list goes on...
the only think bothers me if I die how would my family and friends would react when they find out... my dr. said they will be told the cause of death... And I have to spend about 500$ a month to buy medicines... lately I haven’t been able to pay for it.. My family is very tight with money with me I don’t want to ask them for some other reasons... I always have felt if I die it will be the best thing for everyone and me.. I just wish someone tell me I am right? That is what I want to hear..lol
2007-07-27 19:41:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Take a chance and tell your family whats going on. No it is not better if you die. Youre just depressed and your wanting to take the easy way out. Take one more risk in your life and start talking to your family about whats going on. You have nothing to lose from it.
2007-07-28 06:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so wrong. I'm sorry. You have a right to life, a right to be happy. There are ways through this. You say you're a strong person but you're thinking that death is a better option, that doesnt sound very strong to me. It sounds like cowardice. I wish that I could write something here that would completely change your perspective on life, like some great words of wisdom or knowledge. All I can tell you from experience is that life is worth living. Everyone has a story and yours should go on. Open up to your family, someone, go to a support group, You cant keep all this bottled up. If you ever need someone to talk to please email me. bake34innl@hotmail.com
I really and truly hope that things get better for you, no one deserves to think things would be better if they were dead.
2007-07-28 02:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by bakey3434 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
www.FreeMedicineRevolution.com, I saw this commercial on TV, it's from the Montel Williams show web site, he's the one that does the commercial. The ad says you should find out if you qualify in minutes......Ok, now to your question. Not too sure if going to Pakistan is the best option, unless it is your only option.
But also, if you are in the US, why don't you file for disability, and get put on Medicaid, where your medicine I believe would be almost completely paid for.....You need to talk to your doctor about assistance since it is Life Saving medicine.
Sure your right for feeling down about telling people. Some people obviously haven't been too kind, and saying those things to you are just mean and hateful and quite immature. But that's people for ya'......Family tight with money....towards you. Well if its because you've borrowed and not paid back, or got into trouble etc. etc. Now is not then. You have a life threatening illness and if they are able to help you with your medication, you should approach them, bring documentation from your Doctor if need be....It's bad enough to know you have heath problems, that stress alone isn't good for you, and to go through it alone sure isn't good for you either. So tell them your not telling them to have them feel sorry for you, you just need help getting your medicine and could you please help me just a little with it....If they say no, tell them to go to hell, and mean it! Then consider your other options......Hope things get better for you!
2007-07-28 02:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking if its ok for you to die alone? No, its not ok. You have a family for a reason, so tell them. You and your doctor are not in control of your life, if you make it, you make it, if you don't, you don't. However, no one should die without hearing that they are loved. Give your family the opportunity, its the right thing to do.
2007-07-28 02:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but i am not going to tell you what you want to hear. i really think you're wrong.
you may think that you are strong enough to handle it own your own, but why should you have to? let people know what the situation is, and accept some help and comfort.
many words are spoken out of anger and then are regretted. give you and your family time to reconcile and be at peace with each other, before its too late!
2007-07-28 02:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are so wrong with all of this!!! u have to talk to your family no matter wat it is they must know...who cares about money thats wat insurance is for....ok you can wait for a heart in america or you can spend money to go to pakistan ...either way your goin to be spending more money go there then waitin her something will turn up trust me and if god wants you so bad then he will take you but dont put your family thru misery bc you didnt tell them
2007-07-28 03:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by nick s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur right, but think of the pain u'll cause them when they find out ur dead an all they did was tell u hurtful things, do u really want ur loves one to feel guilty for the rest of their lives, i mean i would kill myself if say..my brother died an the last thing i told him was i hate u...think of them.
2007-07-28 02:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by kimmy001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi you need someone to be there for you ,you cant do it on your own , please tell someone today about it , they will help you with the money for the medicines, i will not tell you your right because your not , you are very ill you need your family and friends to lean on ,xx
2007-07-28 04:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋