everytime we talk about getting married he tells me hes not marriage material and sometimes he tells me that i need to grow up is this normal for a guy to say that
2007-07-27 17:24:19 · 6 answers · asked by haydenray1234 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you talking about dateing or living together and yes sound like a lot of guys hes not ready
2007-07-27 17:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by infoman89032 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If yoou are looking for marriage you best look elsewhere if he says he isnt marriage material he is telling you that he doesnt love you like that
he is not going to marry you at least you know now
he is being as honest as he can with you and be able to stick around for a while. Cut your losses
and move on
2007-07-27 17:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by youngheart_51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if its a normal thing or not ,but maybe he is not wanting that right now or ever.he may not even want it with you. dont bother him with it cause it never helps. he also could be self conscience and doesnt believe he is worth being with you. whatever the case be glad he's telling you now insted of later when you may have more invested in the relationship.
2007-07-27 17:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend doesn't do that.... i'm 19 and have been with my boyfriend for four years... and i'm 14 weeks pregnant and he loves the thought of us being married.... i don't think thats nomal at all... maybe hes not the one for u.... or maybe u just need to talk to him and tell him how u feel about the situation. good luck!
2007-07-27 17:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being honest. You're fooling yourself.
If he doesnt want to get married then either
you accept it or you move on.
2007-07-27 17:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by Irv S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your wasteing your time on him. doesn't look like he wants to get married. if that is what you want look elsewhere.
2007-07-27 17:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by avalon123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋