Family - July 2007

my mother is a chronic liar. to everyone and anyone. ive always wondered why this is, and when i catch her lying to me she tries to turn it around on me! for instance her boyfriend threatened my life in front of my boyfriend back in december for catching them lying to me, and to this day she calls and calls and says im crazy i was imaginging it!!! what the heck?? these people make me feel crazy and i feel bad that they wont let me near my younger brother, ive called him 4 times in the past month and they dont let him call me back!!! what to do??? how do you deal with life long chronic liars???? why do they do this?????????? i mean ive realized she chose men over her children.. done got that finally after 23 years in decemeber... but now this one??? HUH????

2007-07-29 13:09:02 · 4 answers · asked by divinemadness 4

I am 13, female, and have never had a mom. She is alive and lives in my house, but she isn't there for me. She yells at me daily for stupid little things and I try so hard to please her but it is never good enough. Today she said she hated me, thought I was a b****, and wanted to send me away to boarding school. I am the middle child in my family, and her dislike of me is making my sister's lives hard. My mom is constantly talking about how she doesn't have time to do anything she wants and I really feel she is depressed. My sisters and I have tried so hard to help her but it only makes her angry.

My biggest fear is that I am going to end up like her. People say she and I are similar, and that scares me so much. It is so mean to say, but I am so afraid of becoming like her. She alone has ruined my entire life up to this point, and I don't know what to do. I want counseling, but my mom would never go for that. She is slowly killing me, and the only emotion I know is sadness. Help?

2007-07-29 13:06:25 · 11 answers · asked by Holla!! 3

Well this is very very weird. Basically, a few summers back I was with my girlfriend. We decided to have sex and when I got home, I found out that my dad had a heart attack and was in hospital but thank God he was ok. Now Im scared something might happen to him everytime I'm with a girl. Was this a coinsidense or punishment? By the way I'm a Muslim if you were wondering about why I said punishment. Thanks

2007-07-29 13:01:29 · 6 answers · asked by Dawud M 1

My mom is embarassed by me what should i do

2007-07-29 12:55:11 · 21 answers · asked by henrychad 1

I've been with my bf for almost 3 yrs. We get along GREAT & he is also great with my kids. We rarely if ever bicker & he's the sweetest, most thoughtful person & caring person. My parents & sisters already weren't too crazy about him I guess because he's not as outgoing as they'd like him 2B when he's around. *Personality flaw I guess in their eyes. But when he & I are together or with my kids, he's very outgoing, hilarious and fun. He has stood by me through alot. He made the 1 mistake of calling my kids dad a name, (someone happened to over hear) which I don't agree with. Although the name fits well and everyone else is well aware of that, I did tell him he should have kept that to himself. So now my parents don't really like him & my sisters feel the same. I feel there are worse things he could do. I have a sister who lives with a potential child molester, & everyone wants to hop down my bf's throat over this? My choice is 2 ignore them, he makes ME happy. What do u think?

2007-07-29 12:50:36 · 12 answers · asked by glittereyedg 4

When my 5 year old little brother came home he was crying. He told me that his teacher had given him time out and well they had an awards today for not having any time out cards or bad behavior. As soon as he told me that i was so upset!! I could not belive this. My son only had one time out because he told me that he was talking during story time.He also said that the teacher said he should have been good like the rest of the students. His classmates was teasing him because they also had a pizza party too. Well now she cause me for some fighting i marched up that school called the teacher out and b*itch slapped her hard across the face. I knock em glasses off when my hands went upside her head. Was this acceptable i was upset?

2007-07-29 12:42:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister has owed me $50 for a few months and promised she would pay up.... she hasnt. Now, i have two options because I AM NOT FORGETING!!
1. I tell our karate instructors to give my money ( for her test) back and strip her of her belt.
2. Cause a huge scene where the ENTIRE family has to listen.

2007-07-29 12:35:51 · 6 answers · asked by blehh 4

My daughter is 13 years old and she is a child star. She makes more money than me so she is the bread winner of the family. We expect her to do well or we'll be financially ruined. Her dad and I are her mangers and we use her money for many things. We bought a mercedes, a mansion, and etc. Her older siblings go to her when they need money, and as a good little girl she gives it to them. Her father, siblings, and I just hate working so we stopped working and let her be the one to work. Afterall children should learn to understand the value of money and this is what we're teaching her. One time she actually had the nerve to come to me crying, saying that she didn't want to be an actress anymore and wanted to be a normal little girl as well as go back to public school. I told her that the family needs her so she can't quit also her idol Lindsay Lohan never quit and look at her now she is a star!

2007-07-29 11:54:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am tired of it can someone plese help me!

2007-07-29 11:31:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

when she serves u dinner, u ask for an empty plate...because u feel she ( the mother an law) served u too much food and then u begin dumping only the amount of food u want onto the empty plate. Is this rude or not?

2007-07-29 10:54:16 · 10 answers · asked by de cassia b 1

I want to call my stepfather "Dad" but I am to embarassed to just come out and say!Because I feel that since I didn't start out calling him this it would be confusion if I did?

2007-07-29 09:46:48 · 7 answers · asked by To Be Left Unsaid! 1

he know claims that he is moving to Texas (we live in wisconsin)and wants to take her with him.She has been with him since she was 5 and she is 11 now.I definetly don't want her to go and because I have custody of her.We never went to court.He lies so much and I don't believe him.I'm so pissed about this I did'nt go to work today.What should i do???????

2007-07-29 09:14:09 · 7 answers · asked by sassy 1 3

2007-07-29 09:02:35 · 10 answers · asked by twitcher 1

Need help here. My girlfriend thinks I was talking about someone else. and claims to never have heard this saying. HELP

2007-07-29 08:55:01 · 2 answers · asked by Art in Kentucky 1

what would happen to you?

2007-07-29 07:53:27 · 9 answers · asked by Stephanie C 1

my mother and i just had a big fight and i feel horrible about it. let's just say that i was arrogant, over-critical and very judgemental. my mother was very hurt, and i woke up this morning to see she had left the house for some alone-time(she told my brother this), saying she'd be back in the evening. she has never ever done this before.

i feel like a horrible daughter..

how can i show her i am truly sorry and make things better?

2007-07-29 07:50:17 · 9 answers · asked by hiramiato 1

my sister died and wanted the whole day off with pay where do i stand on this

2007-07-29 07:46:04 · 18 answers · asked by TRACY D 1

omfg my grampa said i cant get a hamster at the ketchen table i broke down and started crying and still crying he said he dont want noo pets! so i just kept hitting my head agance the door but now i wanan get a pencle and stab my self! ..... my grandma said i can have it but grampa no ...i hate my life i feel like shi*t

~~~~~~ ill just colect my tears in a cup ~~~~~

2007-07-29 07:12:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help, I need your honest opinions: Should I, at 58 yrs. old, adopt my niece's baby? The baby is due in December 2007. My niece has Attention Deficet Hyperactivity Disorder and was abused as a baby, by her dad (who was convicted and is in jail). Anyway, I would need to quit my job, vacate my apartment, sell my belongings and drive to Florida and wait for the birth of the baby. WHAT SHOULD I DO? Is this move what I need in my life? Am I taking a big risk? WHAT SHOULD I DO? One more important thing to add, I have never been a "parent" even when I've wanted to while married. I was married twice and now I'm divorced. There is nothing keeping me where I am - I am free to travel, however, will need to find employment where ever I choose to live. I will accept all sincere opinions and suggestions. I have started packing up my apartment just in case your YAHOO! ANSWER favors highly. HELP me make the correct choice. Thank you.

2007-07-29 07:04:36 · 22 answers · asked by Ms-No-It-All 4

well today my cousin came in my room i didnt want him in there, so i told him to get out he kept saying no no no, then i hit him. i didnt even hit that hard, then hey punched me on my lips/mouth and my belly it hurts so bad how should i get revenge??

2007-07-29 06:53:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm an only child turning 20 soon. My parents are getting older, and I'm realizing that when they die I wont really have any family. I'm kinda depressed about it. I've always wanted siblings, but never had them. I'm not sure there's any benefit to being an only child, I got a lot of nice stuff, but I have no one to share it with.

2007-07-29 06:33:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 05:21:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently learned that my morning routine is quite different than that of the girls I work with. I was just wondering what some other people did in the morning.

2007-07-29 03:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4

2007-07-29 03:23:06 · 4 answers · asked by Lizard 1

about 3 yers ago... but i was in shock when i found out he had died this morning i was upset and shocked, but i also wanna support my grandama... i am drifting about and i dnt no what 2 do with myself, is this greiving?

2007-07-29 03:20:43 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

Its weird
My Grandma is like 4.8 and my grandpa was like 5.0 maybe 5.1 and my tall uncles are like 5,11 and 5,10
and then my Mom is 5.2 and My short unlce is like 5,4 5,5 atthe most can you tell me why 2 of them are tall and my grandparents are short?

2007-07-29 02:48:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Damn shame aint it?

2007-07-29 02:44:03 · 5 answers · asked by Ma'Quest 1

I see things on the news and i can hardly watch it anymore...the worst thing i know is when a mother throws her baby in the trash!

2007-07-29 02:00:37 · 4 answers · asked by sister w 1

Seems like I will fairly much be raising my young daughter on my own. This is no great problem, from day 1 my daughter has been closer to me than her mother, although only 5 now, she is very very close, does never ask for/miss her mother, who she see's occasionally, is smart, forward for her age, and admired by friends/teachers -
My query is how do those of you, likewise raised by a father, [ who was very caring, but also older than most of your friends parents] feel about your upbringing. Did it create difficulties, I guess i am thinking in particular during teenage years ?
Any thoughts much appreciated.

2007-07-28 23:15:42 · 9 answers · asked by TPE 2

I moved out when I was 18 in with my bf who my mom has always liked...I now have a 3 month old son and live with my bf still I am 20 years old and I feel like she still thinks I am 15 years old, I get some mail at her house still and she opens it up...she tries and tells me exactly how to raise my son and sometimes makes comments about certain things it just bugs me...the main thing is while I was pregnant she was like Oh I cant wait to babysit ect...well when I ask her to babysit (which isnt very much) she seems annoyed or like she doesnt want to...but yet she wants me to visit during the day w/him? I would like some free time...but when I ask...it's like she will say yes but I know she would rather not, she says she is "tired" WELL HELLO so am I!! I don't want to cause a fight or seem like I am using her but I would like to have some free time. My boyfriends parents take him anytime we ask and never complain they even ask if they can watch him. Should I see what her deal is or ignore

2007-07-28 20:00:38 · 3 answers · asked by *Proud mommy* 2