Well not really Sandy, I could tell you how understanding that your mom most likly then not is dealing with some emotional insecurities, along with a host of other insecurites, but what would you actually do about that? I could tell you the classical just hang in there tell your 18 and start your own life, but I have problems with running away from your problems.... So really Sandy this is going to come down to a simple choice on your part. Fight for her or not, if not, then just sit thru it tell you can leave and start your own life. If you want to fight its time to understand more how the human mind is set up, and whats wrong with our society that it screws with how the mind is setup. I could go on, and on, and on about the social problems but its not going to help you, unless, YOU see it. And then are able to talk to your mom about them. See the way the situation is set up, does it even matter? If you can't see that the fact remains you are her only savation from this, your not going to do anything about it. You'll pass it over to her husban, boyfriend, friend, or the fact that its all her fault. Which isn't the way relatinships work, when one fails, all parties fail. But the point of this is just to tell you that the only help you've got is ether to run from this problem, or confront your mom on it....
2007-07-31 11:52:05
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answered by Brutal Honesty 7
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