Family - March 2007

I am currently married to my bf of 4 years. I admitted that we got married becos of i'm pregnant but we both loves each other. Even before i'm pregnant, we have the plan to get married but it just not that soon. Now we have been settled for 7 mths and our baby gonna be born in another week time. The problem now is most of my relatives still cannot accept the fact that i'm pregnant before married. They said we should financially capable before we built up a family. Me n my husband are now working n we are afford to pay for all the expenses and are mentally and physically prepared for our baby. I hate being look down by my relatives. How to deal with my relatives without showing any disrespect. They always talked about this issue in front of me. I never asked for any help from them but why they have to take care of my business. We will responsible for the things we've done. I can't close my ears when they talked bout this and it makes me angry.

2007-03-28 13:57:35 · 7 answers · asked by mida 1

For instance if her daughter is going to be in the area on Thurs. the mil makes her return on Fri. because she doesn't want to go on Thurs (no reason) and her daughter has to make the 3 hr. trip again the next day. Whatever plans the family makes, she argues and often my husband and his sister give in to her. She's 85.

2007-03-28 13:54:11 · 2 answers · asked by Raven 5

2007-03-28 13:46:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

shes 14

2007-03-28 13:43:03 · 24 answers · asked by layla 1

2007-03-28 13:36:13 · 6 answers · asked by Bryan M 5

this afternoon.
I was coming home from school, and my dad breaks it to me.
I feel like i'll never be happy again..
what do I do?
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2007-03-28 13:36:12 · 20 answers · asked by xorenée 7

Sum95- found out that he slept with his "ex" in 94. She has a 3 month old baby who she said is my bfriend's. I believe that it was one night and that the baby isn't his.
95-Sum02 bfriends mother is taking care of baby and/or really involved in baby's life. Baby starts to call my boyfriend daddy. He refuses to take a paternity test because he doesn't want to break his mom's heart. We fight constantly over him handling the situation. He refuses stating that he is not ready or some other reason.
02- I call DSS and pretend to be the mother of the child and find out that she put another man's name on the b-cert. in the hosiptal. Finally he takes the test. 99.9% not his child!!
Currently we are now married and have a child. I don't want my daughter to have any part of this. The child(12) calls my child sister. I do not want that at all. This situation will never touch my daughter if I have anything to do with it. Her grandma has little to do with my baby and is bitter. feel bad?!

2007-03-28 13:35:33 · 2 answers · asked by sunneybear1 2

I just moved to washington and i want to get back into skating bacause i am already into doubles but my dad wont let me. What should i do?

2007-03-28 13:34:12 · 2 answers · asked by Ice Princess 1

My whole life hase been filled with upsets and thrown away opportunities. I'm only a teenager and I'm wishing I was dead. I felt like everything that i've ever done has been nothing and that anyone could do it. Honestly, my parents scare me to the point that I have to lie to get things that I want. Nothing like drugs or anything, but things like spending time with friends or buying certain things that I want. I feel like the bad guy most days and I don't want to see another day because I think to myself that the dead are better off than the living. They don't have to go through these problems, they can sleep eternally with no one to bother them. I'm not the type of person who's going to do something detrimental to hurt anyone, I just want to live my life without looking over my shoulder. Why can't I do that!? I want to feel like I have something to wake up for and that I have some kind of future to look forward to, but I don't. I feel like nothing.

2007-03-28 13:33:37 · 9 answers · asked by T.S. Quint 2

I am considering moving in with my boyfriend who is 8 years older than I am. We have only been together about 6 months, but we seem to have a very strong connection. I know my parents would be very against it. They want me to continue my education which mean going to law school, which means big money, which means not being able to afford to pay rent, which means working full time, which means not going to law school. See the circle! But I am sick of only really seeing my beau on the weekend. How do I handle this.

2007-03-28 13:27:26 · 18 answers · asked by toobadfaya 3

She is 15 and she'll be going into high school next year. Unfortunately she is in a "i'm fat and ugly, my but is big" stage of puberty. That had quite an effect on her personality. Before she was very livley and energetic, now she became more shy , introverted person with big doubts about herself. That has affected me too in my early teen years (I'm 19 now) and it wasn't pleasant at all. How to help her , influence her indirectly in some way that she opens up again, but I don't wanna force her.

2007-03-28 13:16:14 · 5 answers · asked by milauwio 1

What would you think, what would you say to her, would you feel guilty? I mean a very promiscuous college age daughter. Would you worry about it? Be as honest as possible.

2007-03-28 13:10:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just dropped my neice and nephew off at home and my sister wouldn't let me in her house but I could smell decaying garbage when she opened the door. There were fly's buzzing around and the smell was a mixture of feces and rotting food. I'm so scared for her and her children. The thought of them growing up that way is horrifying to me. She needs help but when I offer it myself she becomes angry and refuses to talk to me or let me see the children. I've considered calling the department of human services but I couldn't live with myself if I was the reason she lost her children. I don't know what to do to help her. This is not just a family ***** session, this is true fear for her and her children. What can I do to help her?

2007-03-28 13:02:03 · 2 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4

My parents are against me living with my girlfriend without being married. They are very strict and have a strong religous background. If I told them they would look the other way as if i let them down.

2007-03-28 13:01:10 · 22 answers · asked by Court 1

2007-03-28 12:53:42 · 4 answers · asked by redbone969 1

My mom and stepdad are going to the carribeans for 5 days in May. Friday-Tuesday. And my brother and I are teenagers. I am 15 and my brother is 14. I asked my mom if we can stay home while they are away. My mom said its illegal to let minors stay home for a certain amount of days. Is it really illegal or not?

2007-03-28 12:50:48 · 7 answers · asked by Megan 1

At what age do you think it's appropriate to bring this up?
If you have brought up the question of where and how would they like to live when they retire, what has been their response?
What advice would you give other children about caring for their parents as they become older and less able to care for themselves?

2007-03-28 12:41:26 · 3 answers · asked by Keith Sorem 1

I have always been told to be myself and to be my own person. I used to be real nerdy. I used to listen to all of my teachers and do as I was told and did whatever someone told me to do. I wasn't myself then. I was being someone I wasn't. Now that I am being myself, I am getting in trouble for it! I mean, I tell my mom I want my belly button pierced and she flips out, saying how I was always a good kid until know! She says I dress like a ****, too. I used to think I like country, but I figured out that I don't. I'm feel free now, but all of my teachers hate me because I am such a "troublemaker". My math teacher thinks I have "psycological problems"! My parents are trying to figure what is "wrong" with me, but NOTHING is! I always tell them to stay out of my life but they keep digging into it! Today my English teacher gave me an after school detention for reading in class, I had tea spilled on me by another teacher, I literally ran into my history teacher, and I accidentally got my

2007-03-28 12:40:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have only know each other two years but i thought she might ask is it ok for me to be up set?

2007-03-28 12:39:29 · 18 answers · asked by purplechic1982 1

I've been involved with my boyfriend for 3+ years now and his daughter has been w/ us the whole time. She says she thinks of me as a friend but we were joking around with her and said we were engaged. She has hated us and lashed out ever since. She told us last night that that changed everything and she can no longer have her Dad to herself and she feels she must suck up the hurt & jealousy and move on. My boyfriend is not talking and i'm sure this has just torn him apart inside. I feel like it's my fault because I was the one that came up with the "engaged" thing and I'm also the one taking her away from her "Daddy". He has said before that all his children want from him is for him to be alone and miserable and that I can't let this stuff get to me.. But this has really hurt him and I can't seem to stop thinking that he regrets being with me because of this.. I have so many mixed feelings.. Help?? What could my man be thinking/feeling??

2007-03-28 12:12:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad passed almost three years ago and every once in a while I can smell him in my house. If I acknowledge him the smell leaves. How common is this out there?

2007-03-28 11:58:55 · 12 answers · asked by Annabelle 4

2007-03-28 11:58:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am just an inquiring person and i just want to know whaat your favorite name is for a boy and a girl (one for each)!!

2007-03-28 11:44:58 · 21 answers · asked by carynluvzsportz247 2

I'm so unhappy at the moment, and really shouldn't be. I have a wonderful husband, and a great relationship with my in-laws. We are renting a place, and I'm doing well at uni in a course I love.
The problem is my family. My mother has practically disowned me, and refused to allow me to see my brothers and sisters alone. My crime? refusing to have anything to do with my abusive stepfather. My mother knew what was going on but has since denied it. My aunt recently suggested I write to my mother, which I did, but she hasn't replied, and just showed the letter to my stepfather, who proceeded to tell my brothers and sisters just how horrible their big sister was.
I'm going to be back from university soon, and would like to see my brothers and sisters, but I'm not sure how, as my mother isnt talking to me! ( I have rang her twice but she never rang back (she was out) and she hasnt answered my texts or emails) I don;t want to go to her house though, because of my stepfather. any advice?

2007-03-28 11:41:57 · 13 answers · asked by Katie C 3

LOOKING FOR PARTICULAR ARTICLE THAT INVOLVED A FAMILY HUSBAND, WIFE AND 2 YOUNG CHILDREN, WHERE THE WIFE RAN OFF WITH CHILDREN WHILE HUSBAND WAS AT WORK.

2007-03-28 11:23:10 · 1 answers · asked by mct1936@YAHOO.COM 1

My mother-in-law doesn't like the way my husband dresses. She yelled at me that this isn't how he used to dress when he was living at her house and she accused me of being the one to make him dress this way when i said i do like it.

2007-03-28 11:21:47 · 19 answers · asked by writeaway 4

Ok, all you fathers...question from the curious...why does it seem that if your daughter brings her boyfriend over to meet you, you seem to give a "death glare". And you get very protective if they step 2 feet near her, let alone touch her.
Same w/ older brothers.
I'm not saying all fathers and older brothers do this, it just seems to be common I guess.
Sorry if this sounds ignorant or anything, I'm just curious.

2007-03-28 11:19:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-28 11:11:11 · 10 answers · asked by Fall out boy rocks 1

should the parents be involved when the child goes to the doctor

2007-03-28 11:06:05 · 10 answers · asked by usnavymom3 1

my nan died 3 days ago and i was very vlose 2 her and im doing a speech at her funral how do i start

2007-03-28 10:53:49 · 14 answers · asked by kim_watson2001 1