Family - March 2007

i moved out of my moms house to get away from family and bit**ing all the time and now i live with my boyfriend. i am 16 where should i be? is it all up to me???

2007-03-28 06:11:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter hasn't seen her dad since she was 4.Her father has a finace that has child that he lives with in another state. I don't think he is a bad person I am just not sure I should let my daughter visit ebing so young and so far away from me. He doesn't call me regularly and he doesn't finically support her, but I want her to know both sides of her famil. And if I do decided to let her go how long should the visit be?

2007-03-28 06:06:28 · 20 answers · asked by MiZZ707 2

I am a single parent with 3 teenagers age 20,19 and 18 and i can not get them to get a job or continue there education ( all hs grads ) what should i do ..

2007-03-28 05:56:46 · 13 answers · asked by enedeliagrc 1

dunno what to tell her.i just respect whatever se says even if it was criticism......i am 18 and dunno how to just stop mom from giving me lectures like am 15 yr old.
She respects the youngest person in her family who is 7 yr old kid (her nephew) but not me.How to react or what to say but with respect.

2007-03-28 05:55:15 · 4 answers · asked by Natasha 1

My mom and my dad broke up a couple months ago and now they are telling me I have to choose who I will live with. I don't think either of them like me very much or understand me. I also get the feeling they both want me to choose the other parent so they can live free-er lives. My dad would let me have more freedom, but he drinks a lot and has lots of his friends over... My mom works a lot so we would always have money to eat, but I would be alone alot in the house with her creepy boyfriend. I don't really want either. Freedom? Stability? Creepy? Drunken? What should I do?

2007-03-28 05:48:56 · 8 answers · asked by deardiary24 1

My mom and my dad broke up a couple months ago and now they are telling me I have to choose who I will live with. I don't think either of them like me very much or understand me. I also get the feeling they both want me to choose the other parent so they can live free-er lives. My dad would let me have more freedom, but he drinks a lot and has lots of his friends over... My mom works a lot so we would always have money to eat, but I would be alone alot in the house with her creepy boyfriend. I don't really want either. Freedom? Stability? Creepy? Drunken? What should I do?

2007-03-28 05:48:06 · 9 answers · asked by deardiary24 1

My belief is that he doesn't need a cell phone since I always know where he is and there is always a phone that he can use where he is at.

2007-03-28 05:46:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had elected to disconnect with my parents and brother some years ago because i was always deemed the bad kid and a mistake. i never ever stoped loving these people, however had to disconnect to try and live a reasonalbe happy life. my parents are dying and do not want me to contact them, and my brother needs a liver transplant. they have assured me that the attorney will contact me when all is final. how can they be so selfish when all i want is to ensure the fact that i love all of them dearly, and deeply. i am 50 years old and a lot of time has passed with not much left. when they die it will be the end of my family. i'm dying inside and beside myself. someone help!

2007-03-28 05:45:34 · 5 answers · asked by kelly d 1

Im 21 years and im single I have a good life and a good head on my shoulders. When i was 5 i was rape and moslated by 4 men in my family on of those men was my oldest brother, this last til I was 12 years old, at the age of 10 i meet my step dad then became being mentally abused and verbally. Last nite I had a dream about being raped by my cousin again, it was a different house and after he raped me he told me to sit down on the couch and not to move and took some bleach and started cleaning up the house, then he disappeared, so i called 911 and told them what happen so the police came, and started talking to me asking what happened, the color of my skin was lighter and I was a smaller petite girl, Im not sure but I think god uses me by giving me dreams, and some of them come true, I dont know what it means, do you think god is telling me that its time for me to help young teens that have been victems of abuse. I have had a hard life and that is only half of what i been through

2007-03-28 05:43:31 · 6 answers · asked by Merie h 1

2007-03-28 05:26:25 · 35 answers · asked by findingmyself35 1

2007-03-28 05:25:10 · 3 answers · asked by biogesicman 1

I've never hurt her in any way, didn't come onto her boyfriends, never gave her a reason to hate me. Just wanted to have a sister relationship of shopping, gossiping and having a best friend. I feel that it's jealousy but our mother says it's both our faults......how could it be my fault when I'm the one that wants the "closer" relationship!!!?? This sister and our mother have the relationship of "friends" that I wished I had with the both of them. It's unfair and I can't seem to make it any better no matter what I do.

2007-03-28 05:22:24 · 10 answers · asked by MissLib-R-T76 3

Okay well i'm 15 in 2 days time and i have no idea what to do this year!

Ive decided to spend it with my family (extended family) instead of spending it with friends this year and i want to do something fun, unusual and exciting for a change! instead of just going out to dinner....

Any suggestions??

2007-03-28 05:21:26 · 20 answers · asked by Pureness =) 3

Must gives five reasons. must more than 200 words

2007-03-28 05:18:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my cousins r so mean to me...everytime i go talk to them...they just walk away...i think they f***in hate my a$$...but aniwaise...i still love them...i just don't kno what to do anymore...*crying*

2007-03-28 05:16:46 · 11 answers · asked by mimi_gurl 1

I know my MIL hates me but doesn’t say it directly. She will criticize some other lady (whom I don’t even know) but on similar issues which are between me and her. My FIL and SIL will add their harsh comments to that. I know their indication is towards me. They don’t say it directly so that if I tell my husband they will say that they were talking about someone else and I am misunderstanding them. She is very possessive about her son. She makes me feel that their bond is much stronger and that he loves her more than he loves me. Maybe this is true because my husband will never see any fault in his mom’s actions and wants to do whatever she wants irrespective of my wishes. When I tell him about their comments about me, he will not be annoyed by them.
This time when they visited us I overheard my MIL criticizing every little thing about me to my FIL on my back. Now I have no doubt left that she is spreading a bad image of me among the relatives.
On the last day of their stay I confronted them. They did not accept what they said about me and on the contrary blamed me that I was making stories. They said that they might be talking about someone else and I assumed that they were talking about me. They said that they always think of my welfare and I am so unthankful. They even blamed me that I am breaking the house. Now my worry is that they will convince my husband that whatever I heard was about someone else, they love me and I am the one who wrong. My husband has blind faith in them. They can easily create misunderstanding between both of us. I am getting sick thinking about all this.I know my husband loves me a lot. I just want him to stand up for me in front of his parents and trust me because I have never lied to him and I am not wrong. Please advice what should I do. I understand he feels too pressurized from both the sides and he is too emotional to hurt anybody’s feelings. But if I don’t tell him about all this he will not understand my point of view and they will take him to their side. Also suggest how should I handle my relationship with my MIL. My FIL always insists that I should keep talking to them on phone but I am not doing so because I am reminded of the past bitter moments whenever I talk to my MIL. Should I still call them?

2007-03-28 05:10:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-28 05:05:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think asking forgiveness is appropriate, and it won't change the fact that something bad happened in my life, and how it feels is, well, i cried a little. It won't change the fact that I worked very hard to get my license back, and I made mistakes that caused me to lose the car I got for $200.00 after not having one for two years. I lost my lisence and was in a head on collision AND LOST MY mAXIMA. It hurt so bad! I lost The Intrepid. I had everything, my license, my car, a clean record. I don't wanna go to the slammer. Isn't there some way out of this mess? Will getting baptised and asking God for forgiveness make a difference for me? Is it wrong to go to the liqour store after I get baptised?! There comes a time in every person's life that they get sat down by their elders, and they are told the truth about some phenomenon. I use this site to ask questions, cause noone will be honest with me. I guess I'm just not asking the right questions.

2007-03-28 04:53:43 · 6 answers · asked by theskyisthelimit02 3

It was 20 years ago that he did this, and he still laughs hysterically about this!

I don't get his fascination with the salt in the coffee thing - can anyone explain why he is still carrying on about this 20 years later?

2007-03-28 04:31:35 · 23 answers · asked by Reserved 6

My stepson abused my 2 yougnest daughters when he was 12 and they where 4 and 6,, it was only touching in genital areas, but I still feel violated for my daughters, since this has happenned i have been put on anxiety medication and cannot stand the kid when he is around, he is 16 now and i still cannot accept him. I love his father, but wonder if eventually this will just tear us apart. I am starting to feel like it's a losing battle and i want to give up.
My daughters are fine, they have been to councelling and councellor says that no damage was done.
but this kid has been trouble from very beginning. He has also stolen money from me and others, as well as been in trouble with the law... I was told he was a pathalogical liar by one of teh doctors i met.. im at my wits end,, what do i do? stay with dad and wait till kid goes out of town to school, or just get my sanity back and kick his dad out to have him out of my life as well?? I have been with his father 6 years,

2007-03-28 04:15:28 · 25 answers · asked by ShoAnna 1

2007-03-28 04:14:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-28 03:59:09 · 13 answers · asked by hello world 7

2007-03-28 03:56:16 · 26 answers · asked by Professional Daddy 1

Everytime I plan to get together with family and one of my step-siblings is involved, he always insists on changing the plans to suit his needs at the last minute. He is more of a partier than the rest of us, so maybe he thinks nothing of insisting that a whole bunch of his friends tag along, or insisting that we go out to a bar when someone has planned a party at home. This has happened with him several times now. He acts like he has no concern for other people's plans, and if other people do not want to go out, he calls them "boring." I like going out to bars, and have several times with him, but I don't like doing it if I'm planning a party and it's supposed to be at home. I'm having a birthday party this weekend and setting it up is costing me a lot of money. I only invited my closest friends and fam. Once again, he's asking if we can go out to a bar with his friends instead. Is this just rude or oblivious? How do I deal with this? (I yelled at him about it on New Year's)

2007-03-28 03:55:01 · 8 answers · asked by sylvia62002 1

okay a couple days ago I was driving my fourwheeler
and I saw my grandmother at a neighbors house so I went with her to see what's up.
Well she was lending a ladder to them for whatever reason
but I noticed that there were 3 girls jumping on the trampoline
I tried to be polite so I said hi
well I ended up jumping with them for like 2 hours haha
I go over there everyday after school [I am home-schooled if you were wondering] and one day one of the girls got a water bottle and started trying to get everyone wet lol
well Abby [5 yrs old] ran off the trampoline and said "I'm afraid
of water.." well I asked and she said "Sometimes my brother will hold my head underwater, but not so long that I drown, but if I do I got to the hospital and come back all new".
Also that day there was a fight inside the house all the girls just sat and listened to the cussing and hitting...
I'm a sort of worried for Abby and her sister but I don't know what I can do, any advice?

2007-03-28 03:54:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 22 and pregnant and live with my mother. She hates the father's guts and doesn't know I'm pregnant. She told me not to let him come there but I did anyway and I left him in the house and went out for an hour. When I got back he was in a hurry to leave and was dropping things and aacting weird but all I thought was he was about to go cheat on me. However $150 is missing along with my parents' wedding rings, my dad's ring , my mother's earrings and my earrings, all gold. He's not working right now and came by me last week as well with a camcorder he said he was gonna sell then said he didn't. Guess he chose to sell our things. WHat do I do? I've called the police but I am scared of what will happen when she finds out he didn't use the key that i lost and he found but he was invited here. I can't believe he took myparents things.My mother is crying and looks on the verge of a nervous breakdown.

2007-03-28 03:25:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have teenage kids but i have no grandchildren yet!is the thirties old !

2007-03-28 03:06:24 · 32 answers · asked by astra 5

What were your experiences? Do the step children accept you? Do you feel uncomfortable/jealous of the deceased 1st wife? Would you feel uncomfortable if the kids have framed photos in their room of your husband, the deceased wife together?

2007-03-28 03:04:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-28 02:58:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im18 w/ a 6month old son should i stay w/ my mom?

2007-03-28 02:56:35 · 32 answers · asked by N!cky 5