my cousins r so mean to me...everytime i go talk to them...they just walk away...i think they f***in hate my a$$...but aniwaise...i still love them...i just don't kno what to do anymore...*crying*
2007-03-28 05:16:46 · 11 answers · asked by mimi_gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
don't feel too bad. most people don't get along with their relatives. i don't know why they're ignoring you, but they're behaving like brats. try not to let them get to you... they probably get off on that kind of stuff, which is unfortunate. i'm sure that they're turning their own insecurities on you, because they don't feel good about themselves. you'll be okay.
you can choose your friends, but not your relatives...
i don't really talk to many of cousins. maybe like 1 or 2 on the holidays when they're in town, so it's not a big deal. some odf the older ones were mean to me growing up, and now they call occasionally to hang out. but i'd seriously prefer a night of ramen noodles and nancy grace than a dinner with any of them... but thats probably because i'm weird and mean.
cheer up. best of luck.
2007-03-28 05:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be a good thing. Just flash them the Big Smile as you walk away from them. Make some good friends, the stinky cousins will always be around.
2007-03-28 05:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kenny Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T cry...don't let anyone see you cry I mean.cry all you want and as loud as you want..it is healthy and clears the brain of pain! COusins..I have alot of thoes..and 2 sons who has a few cousins that THINK thay are better so ignore the boys...BUT they are not...I tell my boys to go and say hello to everyone and goodbye to everyone and talk to whoever they want to and whoever they don't want to then don't...DO NOT let anyone make you feel less of a person...you have every right to be on this earth and GOD put you in your family....so.they just will have to be their ugly selves...........they most likely are JEALOUS of you or something you have or your family or something your family has or somewhere you went?? ANYHOO it is jealousy so...let it go........walk inwith your head held high! DO not give the response you usually do for they eat them up and like it..say hi and bye and keep you r chin up and smile alot...have fun! IGNORE them...
2007-03-28 05:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl , if they won't talk to you and walk away, they don't want to associate with you. If you didn't cause this situation, ignore them . Every family has people like that in it. If in the future they make overtures and start to talk to you , you can decide if you still wish to be friends with them.Right now, it's their lose. And don't cry. I dislike tears .... LOL
2007-03-28 05:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still love them, but why waste your time trying to talk to them if they abviously don't want to spend time with you? Ignore them, I'm sure that they are not the only friends you have. Don't take it to heart either, they will grow up and realize how ignorant they are.
2007-03-28 05:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by kashallgonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so then why are you wasting your time with them..when they notice you ignoring them they will probably be wondering why an try an come tlk to you then you brush em off an go on bout ur bizness...if your cusins treat u like tha no matter if there family or not...jus dont tlk to them thats disrecpectful and you dont need that.
2007-03-28 05:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally!! Just ask them why they treat you the way they do. When they give you a response except it and move on
2007-03-28 05:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. Eventually they'll come back. Unless they don't care about you then which you shouldnt be talking to them anyways.
2007-03-28 05:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by devourment289 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about them. And don't cry! Why be with people who don't want to be around you. Pull a prank on them too if you want.
2007-03-28 05:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by Babe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do that to my cousins all the time just don't talk to them they probably do hate you. just ask them
2007-03-28 05:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋