Family - March 2007

He passed away on 10.02.07. Pls tell me? Pls help me.

2007-03-28 02:38:10 · 10 answers · asked by sumeetk_74 1

hello my names nathan.

Recently i have been able to ignore my mother and her nagging at me constantly but now im that bit older and that bit more confident and doing my own things my mothers starting to lose her temper with me.

For example. Recently i have spent a considerable amount of money (That i have saved up and was given a grant towards) on a computer. Now i like to build my own and certain issues have appeared where i need to spend that bit more on a extra few parts.

Because of this i told my mother about it.
And well it ended up with her Kicking certain objects around the house and screaming at me in such a manner that i couldn’t put up with.

This is MY money, not hers. Mine i saved it up, i worked for it.
And shes not ever listening to what i have to say, shes always the one who is right and im always wrong.

And i cant move out because im taking a college course.

Any information or tips on how to deal with her would be greatly taken.

Thanks

2007-03-28 02:35:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How did you treat the spouse? Did you tell teh spouse? Did you welcome the paramour ( can't this be used for men and women?)?

2007-03-28 02:34:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

March 14th my daughter awoke vomiting and did 3 times. But, it was minimal and didn't smell like "sick" vomit. 4 hours later she seemed perfectly fine. On the 19th she had a rash covering her belly, upper thighs and underarms. It was a solid red rash. It dissappeared within an hour. Many nights since the 14th she'll awake and feel like she's going to be sick but doesn't vomit. Occassionally during the day she feels the same. She sat with her head in a bucket for a half hour the other day. I felt so sorry for her! I called the dr's office 4 days ago and they said it's a virus. She acts perfectly fine most of the time. Thinking back I know that my daughter has had moments where out of the clear blue she'll yell out... I'm sick. She'll vomit and then she's perfectly fine. That's happened about 3 times since she's been 1. Until now where it seems very consistant. Has this happened to your child? What could be wrong? Thanks!

2007-03-28 02:34:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 48 year old mother is doing cocaine. This is the 2nd time in about 3 years I found it in her bedroom. The first was when I was pregnant, and I told her if she didn't stop she would not be allowed to see my son when he was born. She stopped (or at least i think she did) and she has a wonderful relationship with him now. (he is 2 and adores her) She moved in with my husband and I to help with our son, and to help her as she is disabled and not able to work. She went to stay with her parents for the weekend, and I snooped, and found it again. I need advise from anyone who has been anywhere close to this situation. She's my mother, I don't think I can kick her out, she has no one to take care of her, but my son is my #1 priority, and how can I let her care for him, or even be around him if she is on drugs?

2007-03-28 02:30:34 · 10 answers · asked by a girl like any other 2

I have two daughters, one is an engineer employed well, younger on is doctor doing post graduation. We parents requested and advised the first daughter to select a boy equally qualified, but she did not listen, we are worried much.how to solve this problem. She is 27,

2007-03-28 02:24:18 · 16 answers · asked by selvam john 1

As a step-mother, should I expect recognition on Mother's Day? The divorce paperwork says that Mother's Day is spent with the mother, and I understand that. But should I be upset/angry/disappointed if my step-daughter doesn't even acknowledge me? On the other hand, what about her step-father? She treats him as well if not better than her dad?

2007-03-28 02:22:36 · 9 answers · asked by Carol D 5

I'm staying with mother in law now and a problem has come up. Basically, we've reunited with estranged brother and law, wife and our Godson. Its very very tentative, as they have problems with our dog and basically create a load of problems for us associated with the dog.

We met up once in a neutral place where dog was not allowed. Mother in law gave trouble to look after the dog, but agreed as we were reuniting the two young children (our 3 yo son and our 2 yo Godson).

Now a second meeting has been arranged and mother in law had a tantrum because she won't look after the dog. Angrily, I ask her if she'd prefer me to stay a home and look after the dog (who cant be left alone). Mother in law agrees with this option, despite my explaining that I won't get to see Godson on this second visit. She sees Godson very often. My wife, my son and I haven't seen him in over a year!

We're staying with mother in law until middle April. After this bust up I really want to bail out now and (more)..

2007-03-28 01:54:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am married i have been with my hubby for 7 years and love him so much it hurts. I just want to show him how much

2007-03-28 01:50:54 · 22 answers · asked by danlyn 2

the family in all the world it is the rafie family group

2007-03-28 01:41:01 · 2 answers · asked by basma e 1

Me and my sister have decided to treat our parents to 4 nights away in a hotel to thank them for all their help over the years with our schooling (we both graduate from uni soon). The holiday is coming up and we have decided to tell them by writing it in a thank you card and handing it to them together. Me and my sis are hopeless at English but we really want to write something heartfelt to show them how much we appreciate them! Any ideas? Thanks x

2007-03-28 01:13:01 · 16 answers · asked by Me! 3

My mother left me many years ago and moved up north. She is now wanting to start a relationship with me. She is moving back down here in Atlanta GA. She really has left a lot of pain bottled up inside of me.

2007-03-28 01:07:19 · 6 answers · asked by It must be said 3

I hate a girl in my family and i dont know what to do when she talks to me!!!!???? I JUST HATE HER because my friend stop talkin wiz me becuz of her, she tells lies about me!!???

2007-03-28 01:03:01 · 14 answers · asked by $!r@h 2

Pepole (LEO) who have been in love with pisces lady and then married and settled smoothly with a kid may Please Response me with your personal experience of life Do give a practical proven answers based on real life to me

2007-03-28 00:53:10 · 6 answers · asked by raj s 1

My Dad and I got along great, I was one of his favorite, I could tell by the way he treated me, compared to my other sisters.
Of course I was kind and respectful, and adored him, some of my sisters were snotty to Dad and rude.
Where you kind to your Dad?
--->now my Mother...another story, lol<----
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*(Our children are sponges, quietly soaking up all we say and do.
Bob Welch in "A Father for All Seasons ")

2007-03-28 00:41:29 · 11 answers · asked by Mama 2

How many times a day do you think you say NO to them, is it because they like winding you up or do they pretend they cant hear you.

2007-03-28 00:40:09 · 18 answers · asked by LouLou 4

2007-03-28 00:16:02 · 20 answers · asked by darestobelieve 4

2007-03-28 00:06:26 · 13 answers · asked by mariana 1

i was at home- my mom went to work- her bf was at work- so it was me and the chiwawa- no one came into the house- i didnt open the door for anyone- the dog was playin- than i didnt see him i tought he was asleep- than moms bf came- askd for the dog- thats when we found out he was missin- than mom came from work- she was mad- cryin angry at me- acusin me- of lettin the dog go- she was tellin me WHY YOU DO IT- WHAT THE DOG DID TO YOU- IT WAS AN INOCENT ANIMAL- i told her i didnt kno the dog was missin- i didnt- i still dont kno how he got out- but he got out while i was there- is it my fault? and why is my mom blaming me- acusing me that way- tellin- what you done - doesnt have a name- youve done the worse- bla bla- can someone tell wot to do- i feel so depressed- because my own mom thinks of me as a bad person- i still cant explain how the lil dog got out--

2007-03-27 23:43:16 · 9 answers · asked by GRDO XNZE 3

Yeah - I know - I was just listening to Sister Sledge on the radio and I have too much time on my hands.

2007-03-27 23:41:52 · 7 answers · asked by hello world 7

,When we were a little older we started trusting each other, sharing views etc.Then she left to India to study there, .Then when i went on vacations to India, for 2 months we had lot of quarrels .And she kept rasing her voice at me all the time, whenevr she got angry.It was very disrespectful because she used to scream at me on the top of her voice that made the neighbours wonder us .I even told my sis not to scream , but she never listened and later i told her politely that she acts like a *****.She used to raise her hand at me whenever she got angry, i even hit her once, .Then when i left India and went back to my place, i was really pissed thinking about the way she treated me ,so i said mean stuff to her online to get even and she forwarded the entire conversation to my dad and she now keeps puttin me down indirectly or thinks low of me. She tol my dad i think girls are only for sex, but its not true.She got lots of friends and keeps tellin everybody that she loves me but i dont.

2007-03-27 23:18:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even in situations where spending time with the family member (especially parents here) causes emotional upset and stress to you?

2007-03-27 23:17:16 · 27 answers · asked by 132 5

2007-03-27 23:05:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-27 22:53:54 · 3 answers · asked by professional mum 1

Mine would take me to parties and pubs till the early mornings of the night. Emotions were a tabboo, not to be talked about. Me dancing as a 7year-old was something that was reason to have a good laugh.
It was a grandmother who left my sister on her own in a playpen with no toys to the point that she would start playing with her poo nappy and get it all over her.
That's the nicer bits, believe you me.
Real scary thing is that my parents were married, had respectable jobs, we went on yearly holidays, we lived in a nice house in a nice area, couldn't ask for any more material than i had wanted (apart from the chopper, not allowed cause i was a girl. Girls don't ride choppers!)
Refused to go home aged 12 and was put into care. Much more fun than it ever was at home. And no one mentioned dysfunctional families at the time.
So, to you. what defines a dysfunctional family?

2007-03-27 22:52:49 · 9 answers · asked by Part Time Cynic 7

ok me and my partner have been together for 2 years and he hasn't let me meet his children. shouldn't he be letting me? and when he talks to me on the phone and they ask who it is, he calls me a friend.

what should i tell him to make him understand to let me see them. he wont listen to me

2007-03-27 22:47:39 · 24 answers · asked by cleo 1

Hello everyone, I'm 25 years old and have been living in a house share for just over a year. I've loved every minute of it up until 3 months ago. This is when I got a new job that I'm not too sure about, and my landlord is my new boss. I also live with his son. If I decide to leave work then I pretty much have to leave home too because of the favour my landlord did for me by giving me the job. He is now having the loft converted into a room for him to stay in some nights during the week. I'm not sure what to do, and I don't know whether it would be a good idea moving back to mum's. This is my only other option because I can't afford a deposit on another flat. Please Help!!!

2007-03-27 21:38:11 · 25 answers · asked by Mike W 1

i just got a middle-of-the-night call on the house phone...and im worried about it...
if someone is in jail- they get one phone call right? what if they call and noone answers? do they get to try another number?

2007-03-27 21:19:29 · 16 answers · asked by *Cole* 3

hi, i ask this because i feel like i am. im 19 years old and im a male. i go with my mom to the groceries and to pay the bills. whenever she goes out with my grandma, her sister, my girl cousin, i end up being the only guy, is this okay, or not? i do go to work with my dad but whenever i go to school, i go places with her. one day when she asked me to go with her to places i normally go with her, i said no. she asked me to go to the grocery with her and i still said no, due to my problem. i asked her if it was okay if hung out with her and if i go places with her and she said it was. i then noticed that she didnt want to hurt my feelings so i am still confuse. she used to take me places without asking me when i was a kid so i got used to it. my grandparents told me that i always have to be with her, but i realized that they meant to take care of her. i asked her about me hanging with her but she made it seem like i didnt have to hangout with her if i didnt want to.

thanks

2007-03-27 21:14:26 · 18 answers · asked by blackeaglejp 2

i like to eat and sometime my brother and my father make fun of me and call me "fat" witch i know i am not. why does this get me down? becasue it is my family i tell them not to but they laugh it off i get very upset and sometime my dad calls me fat but doesn't exactly say the word FAT but i know he means it and i tell him not to and he argues that he did not call me FAT what should i do?!

2007-03-27 20:07:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous