Im18 w/ a 6month old son should i stay w/ my mom?
2007-03-28 02:56:35 · 32 answers · asked by N!cky 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
whenever you have an income source that you can support your son and yourself.
2007-03-28 03:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by mom_princess77 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it really depends on maturity, and the individual.
You should consider your son a big factor in this as well.
I'm sure you have grown up alot, becoming a Mom.
But you should consider your lifestyle living at home, rather than you living on your own.
What kind of place would you be able to afford? Do you pay rent at your Mom's? What do you think the rent would be if you moved out? Would the house be smaller/in a better or worse neighbourhood than your Mom's house?
How close would you be to your Mom? You might be lonely if it would be far away, and it also depends on whether you drive?
Are you close to shops/schools/etc, all the things you need to live? Would you be if you moved out?
Life is easier living at home, I find. You have company, your meals cooked for you, and just think, you have a babysitter right under your own roof!
My friend had a baby when she was 18, she is now 23. She lives on her own, in a rough area because that's where the council placed her, not near her Mom so she doesn't have a nearby support network or babysitter. She loves having her own space, but find it hard to pay for bills, and would really like to decorate the house but finds it hard with her budget.
2007-03-28 03:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not good age. You should move out once you've used the resources available to you, that way it will ensure you won't have to move back in. You should get a job, save money, find a good affordable daycare, find a house, and move on from there.
I'm gonna tell you from experience, parents are nice about this but they will get tired of it. My bf's brother and girlfriend moved back into the house with her 4 year old son and a big pregnant stomach. Two years later, they have added another baby and another one on the way. My bf's mom wants to kick them out but won't because of the children. They use her as their own personal daycare. They do not work.
You need to realize that your mom is done raising you and you raise your own child on your own. Grandparents love their grandchildren as long as they can go home at night. Try to move out and show your mom some responsibility.
2007-03-28 03:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a "real" age limit, but at the same time you shouldn't be 40 staying at home either. But you should live on your own when you have stability, reliability, and are a responsible person. And always be prepared for something to come out of nowhere like an extra bill or when your roomie doesn't pay their share. Now since you had a baby, you are still young. It's common for mothers, especially young mothers to still be at home. If you're gonna stay at home at least try to earn your keep by helping out around the house and financially. Because You're grown, and now you just reached adulthood with a baby, and I know your mother couldn't have been so crazy about that. So don't wear out your welcome with her and let her help you without you being difficult because there are a lot of moms out there that will kick you out the moment they find out you're pregnant. I had my baby at 24 and my dad actin like he's so shamed and I don't even live with him, and he isn't even a good grandpa!! But if your goal is to get out on your own, have all your ducks in a row because it's hard to be on your own especially with a baby, but with one baby it's manageable. Good luck.
2007-03-28 03:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! Staying with your mom would be a good way to learn how to care for your baby. Eventually your going to have to leave and start a life of your own. Being Independent will show your child what it takes and you could be a really good role model. Try staying with your mom for a few weeks then see how it goes.
2007-03-28 03:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Chelsea's Evil Twin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-28 02:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by prettyqq 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should stay with your mom until you have a steady job with a good rate of income. The main concern for you right now is to support your baby as best as possible.
2007-03-28 03:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Skater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Independence is a Character Shaping experience!
Tough if you're not Financially Stable, but great fun nevertheless!
Age 18 is a Good time to find your feet! Regardless of Circumstances!!
2007-03-28 03:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The factor is not really age. There are going to be two factors here:
Maturity and Income.
If you think that you can make it on your own with your current income then it is something you can try. It will be hard though especially when you have a child.
2007-03-28 03:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when you are ready to live on your own. Having a child is a lot of work and if you think you might need the help it might be best to stay with your mom. Best thing is can you financially afford living on your own?
2007-03-28 03:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly_2blue 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stay wit You mom And save some money to get your own place It would be best for U and your child
2007-03-28 02:59:37 · answer #11 · answered by tykim242 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋