Family - March 2007

And to give them a room i had to take my infants stuff away to another room shift the cot etc.. do yu think it was sane or no to expect a call of thanks.. or anything ??
didnt get any calls..!! just curious what do you think?

2007-03-21 08:31:52 · 3 answers · asked by barley 2

I'm having a delimma only because I'm trying not to do anything out of spite. I don't really know my father. When my mother got pregnant, he left the state and didn't come back until I was born. He signed his rights to me away when I was about 6. I didn't meet him until I was 13 and he didn't make any effort to get to know me. All of a sudden, at 22, he decides he wants a daughter. By then, I was through. I don't hate him, I just don't know him and don't have any desire to now. The problem is that I have very good relationships with everyone else on his side of the family. So, now I'm married and 14 weeks pregnant. Everyone on that side knows but him. They all think I should tell him. My mother says it's my decision, but she doesn't think I should feel pressed to inform him. I have no plans for this child to have a relationship with him. Should I tell him anyway, just so he'll know he's gonna be a grandfather? BTW, my husband doesn't think I should, but said you decide.

2007-03-21 08:30:39 · 8 answers · asked by sassy2midnite 3

This last year has been so upsetting - sooo much has happened in such a short time - firstly my cousin claimed to have been raped - then my mother and father split - thridly me, my mother and brother almost got evicted - i have been to court to give evidence about the rape case - i have lost the love of my life and stopped having a social life and hardly ever go out and on top of all this i have my GCSE's in a few months and i concentrate on revison or coursework !!
It is all so much for me to take as i am only 16 years old - but i must stress that i DO NOT consider myself as being suicidal !
Please someone help me !!!!!!!

2007-03-21 08:27:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 9 years left our house to go to a different state for a job. He was supposed to be gone for 2 weeks. This was 1 year and 7 months ago. He has not been home once. We have a four year old daughter together. She and I have been there to visit 6 times, he always sends me money to go see him. I have been staying with my mother for the last 4 months, now her house has sold and she has 6 weeks to be out. Should I move on with my life without him or should I move to another state away from my family, to be with him?

2007-03-21 08:23:28 · 11 answers · asked by angicolts 1

I am making my husban a birthday party (His Brithday is today by the way) Just me and him in a Hotel on Friday. What can I do to make his late birthday party a night he won't forget?

2007-03-21 08:16:15 · 6 answers · asked by Irma R 1

well my parents grounded me for a month because i dident come home in time
IS that stuped or was it a good punish ment

2007-03-21 08:11:18 · 22 answers · asked by jugillet chick 1

Ok, I just got selected for a low income apartment in the Bronx NY. I currently live in Brooklyn NY with my fiance and son in a 2 bedroom apartment paying 1400. I applied for a low income apartment in the Bronx and was selected for it. It's a 2 bedroom for 871 a month.
Just today I went to go see the apartment and the neighboorhood is nice and the building is beautiful. The apartment is very small though. The living room was the size of a dining room and the bedrooms were small.
The question is we want to save money for our wedding next year and also to purchase a home in 2009. Do I just pick up and move 20 miles away and find a new babysitter for my son and just say what the hell or should I stay in Brooklyn.
BTW, my fiancee didn't see the apartment yet and he's going to see it tomorrow but I think he's going to say it's too small but it's nice.
If anybody know about getting selected thru a lottery know that its a gamble and fortunate I was selected for one.What do I do?

2007-03-21 08:08:31 · 13 answers · asked by svictor24 6

daddy you're missing
where did you go
i see you in person
but that person i don't know
you use to love me
and call me your princess
i guess your parenting
went on a permanent recess
why don't you love me
what did i do
am i the one to blame
or should i blame you
i've done so much
and you've missed it all
is it too much to ask
for you to give me a call
you're my daddy
you always will be
can't you accept
that you made me
i smile through tears
and laugh through pain
i just want my daddy
to see him again
good bye daddy
you'll never be here
i see you in person
but i just see my fear
open your eyes
see who i am
be a real father
turn into a man

2007-03-21 07:50:36 · 11 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4

2007-03-21 07:50:27 · 9 answers · asked by J m 1

OK to make a long story short. I have 2 half sisters that are 10 years and 15 years older than I. We lost our father in 2000. They stopped talking to me. They never returned my phone calls. I always kept trying. One day we all got together they started inviting me to their kids B-day parties. then when my sons came up they never showed. i had a baby shower no call no show same with the baptisim. I saw my sister at a store and she told me she was moving away! Out of state! If i never would have seen her she would never of told me. Now I get a going away party invite. I keep getting hurt by them. When I go they ignore me. What should I do. Go or not. Since they never really make an effort for me. my daughter is 6 months and they have never seen her or even called??? What should I do.

2007-03-21 07:50:18 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer M 1

She was losing her house 9 years ago and of course I didnt have the heart to let her go homeless so I let her move in with us. She is STILL here! NINE years later! She is a kind person but has an obnoxious personality and just drive me NUTS!!!!!!!
I want her to go but dont have the heart to say "You know.... you it's about time for you to go." LOL

2007-03-21 07:50:16 · 14 answers · asked by Kel Kel 3

2007-03-21 07:49:28 · 25 answers · asked by wildekeeley 2

Sunday morning about 7 am I went to the store and came back home to find my fiancee and my 3 year old daughter both tied up and gagged on the floor. My fiancee was half naked. They both were shook up and when my fiancee came round she told me two men broke in and robbed us and held her down at gunpoint and raped her. They also cut my daughter on her little legs and she is till sore but thankfully they did not rape her. The police ran tests and are investigating. Thankfully the hospital says she is not pregnant and has not contacted anything but all of us are shook up. My fiancee has been so scared last night she sleeps in the bed with me (since we are not yet married we dont sleep together) and my daughterhas had to take a dose of medicine to sleep in her room. But I would appriacate any advice how to help my shaken family? Me and my fiancee are supposed to be getting married in three weeks and I am afraid she will not recover. Will my family recover from the horror?

2007-03-21 07:48:16 · 8 answers · asked by Martin A Neville 4

I am having him for the first time since nov 17 bec my x is a ***** and I was looking for any ideas?

2007-03-21 07:44:45 · 14 answers · asked by dirbe22 2

My kids father doesn't help at all and hasn't for the past six years! I'm thinking of getting child support cause I'm tired of being nice and doing this alone! It's not fair that I have to pay for EVERYTHING! Will I get any money if he isn't working and lives in another state?

2007-03-21 07:43:32 · 6 answers · asked by Crystal D 2

i have a problem with myself. i dont know what it is exactly. well, i get really depressed alot. and then i am happy. and it keeps fluctuating. i dont think im bi-polar. it's different than that. for example...this weekend i was at home and i was really depressed, the worse i have ever been, and i kept thinkin of suicide. well i got 3 bottles of pills and i was about to take them. i wasnt planning on killing myself, i was going to call the ambulance so they could save me. it was a way for ppl to realize there's something wrong and i need help. but i decided i didnt want to die, so i wrote a 3 page poem of how i feel. then cried for 3 hours and all of a sudden, like someone switching a light, i was happy. now im back to fluctuating. i keep thinking of hurtin myself. im really depressed, and i dont know what to do. how do i get help? who would i go to for this? like what kind of doctor? and does anyone have any idea of what's the matter with me? i really need help........

2007-03-21 07:41:30 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2

My friend took out a restrainingg order on her brother who has mental illness, for coming over to her house in the middle of the night and had a weapon. Was it wrong to seek protection? She feels guilty all the time about it.

2007-03-21 07:40:10 · 4 answers · asked by kiatu 1

Ok, I just got selected for a low income apartment in the Bronx NY. I currently live in Brooklyn NY with my fiance and son in a 2 bedroom apartment paying 1400. I applied for a low income apartment in the Bronx and was selected for it. It's a 2 bedroom for 871 a month.
Just today I went to go see the apartment and the neighboorhood is nice and the building is beautiful. The apartment is very small though. The living room was the size of a dining room and the bedrooms were small.
The question is we want to save money for our wedding next year and also to purchase a home in 2009. Do I just pick up and move 20 miles away and find a new babysitter for my son and just say what the hell or should I stay in Brooklyn.
BTW, my fiancee didn't see the apartment yet and he's going to see it tomorrow but I think he's going to say it's too small but it's nice.
If anybody know about getting selected thru a lottery know that its a gamble and fortunate I was selected for one.What do I do

2007-03-21 07:39:31 · 2 answers · asked by svictor24 6

i'm willing to bet that it's more than a joint here and there.i know i have to "be the parent" so does anyone have any advice as to how to go about broaching the subject of drug testing? he's 18,legal age, but still lives in my house. my house,my rules.i know he'll flip out no matter what i say so any good advice will be appreciated. anyone been here before? thanks in advance.

2007-03-21 07:37:28 · 5 answers · asked by racer 51 7

he's a typical boy. likes games, music...the weird kind...he has a girlfriend...but he's my borther so wat do I get him? he's not one for fashion...so do u have any ideas?

2007-03-21 07:31:54 · 6 answers · asked by Po_0ffie 2

i was sexually abused by my stepfather when i was younger. i didn't remember it until i was about 22. i told my mother. he denies it. and then my mother turned her back on me and told me all kinds of things like i deserved it and etc. we have always been bestfriends until it comes to her husband. she has told me that i am never to speak on this subject again and i haven't. but now i'm ready to rid myself of this horrible secret that i feel like i'm still obligated to keep. she has agreed to talk to me what should i say to her? I don't want to hurt my mother cause i know it's hard for her to hear that he hurt me in this way, but i also don't want to live in agony continuously keeping this secret. i just need her to support me and get him some help.

2007-03-21 07:26:19 · 17 answers · asked by closure 2

my ex girl wants me to stay away from my 2 year old son but i don't wanna and i need to see him when i get out and her parents think the same way. any one know how to talk someone into letting that happen?

2007-03-21 07:13:36 · 5 answers · asked by Robert Stineback 1

2007-03-21 06:48:02 · 16 answers · asked by cai cai 1

2007-03-21 06:44:19 · 14 answers · asked by annab 1

what do you do when you hate where you live, im 20 years old going to community college and have to interact with my mother everyday which annoys me, shes so damn annoying always yelling, or asking me to do something, or treating me like im 4 years old, everyday shes like do this, do that shut up and listen to me, put a jacket on, i demand it of you..then i go to a college i really dont want to be at, i have freinds, but the depression of it all makes me feel alone all the time..could this be a reason why i dont enjoy life? and yes im thankful for moms shes just annoying, and i cant transfer yet, maybe this is why im still single lol..i absolutely hate where i live, and i can only stay confident maybe 3 days in a row, then on the fourth day it all just falls apart, like damn what happend, what can i do, should i just run out and try to move on as best i can? and yes i try to make myself happy but it dosent work all the time
what am i sposed to do?

2007-03-21 06:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by themanthemanfrozen 2

My stepdaughter is 10 and lives with her Mom. My Husband and I see her every other weekend. We live about 2 hours away. This past weekend we told her her Dad has a job interview in another state. (we would have better opportunities there) I have a 5 yr old girl and we had a baby 5 months ago. We didnt want her to feel left out because we would love to have primary custody of her, but always before when my husband would ask her where she wanted to live she would hesitate to say she wanted to stay w/her Mom. So he told her how the custody situation would work, most of the summer, every other spring break, and half of Xmas vacation with us. He told her that theres always a place for her at our house. She told him, "My Mom said if I wanted to live w/you, she would support me." Another thing my Husband and I are concerned about is, her mother is a pot smoker, cant keep a job, goes through bf's like underwear...etc. We talked to her Mom about custody and she said no way.

2007-03-21 06:36:46 · 11 answers · asked by melindah83 2

Ok, here is what has happened my fiance and me has kept the 4 year old from his mother because she was never there and he didn't look healthy and was always sick when we would pick him up. My question is how does it work if she goes about getting visitation rights. There is no custody between both parents so by law in nc the father had every right to take him without getting in trouble. Now she is trying to get her rights. I am not sure how this is going to work out because she will have all right to take him back and start sueing for child support again which was suspended. The child has been living with us for 10 months now and has not seen his biological mother because of the fact of her taking him. I know we may have to hire a lawyer but I am trying to get the best advise before hiring one. Please help!!!

2007-03-21 06:32:07 · 7 answers · asked by Jaby 2

I need help- My daugher always talks back and tells me to shut up and how i am so annoying and she doesnt want to hear me talk... How do I really punish her so that she wont do it again? shes 16, almost 17... shes constantly on IM and is not talking to the best of kids i know... how do i prevent it? i need SERIOUS mother help! how do i make our relationship stronger/better/un-fightable! Thanks so much! I really appreciate it. =) I would choose a best answer ASAP! =)

2007-03-21 06:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by louierockyjim 2

My sister is home for 3 weeks from Georgia, no big deal I don't live home anymore. She claims to have had this horrible childhood, blaming it on my mom and they used to always yell and fight. My parents were the best and gave us a perfect childhood. So now their smothering her with attention, and have kind of bumped my fiancee out of the picture, unintentionally, my girl is really hurt, she never had a mom, and has finally gained one through dedication to my family. She has kind of talked it out with my mom, but now my parents are saying that I am being selfish cause I give my sister attitude for the way I talk to her at times, only cause how she treats my mom at times. I am protective of my mom, and she is saying that my sister has changed. I don't see it.

What is going on here!? Should I lay off my sister or what, and what can I say to my fiancee to reassure her?

2007-03-21 06:26:44 · 7 answers · asked by Scott F 2

I would just what to know, because I am a little of both.

2007-03-21 06:21:03 · 13 answers · asked by angle2005star 4