Family - March 2007

Hello everyone I am writing because I spanked my son 12yrs old and he called the police and had me arrested I am now facing charges I feel that everything will be okay but I am stressed because I feel that they are doing me wrongful now my kids are in a reciveing home and my alcoholic mother is trying to get them and their father just got out of prison and he wants them I am so confused right now I don't know if I coming or going I need serious legal advice please help calm my nerves and am seeking legal help in the Sacramento Area

2007-03-21 06:17:35 · 10 answers · asked by undecided nay 1

2007-03-21 06:17:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-21 06:08:50 · 16 answers · asked by 6th Finger 2

if my mom was born and she got merreed, and then i was born, then my uncle was born, who wood have more power, like who wood beable to tell the other wat to do? who wood have the birth rite?

2007-03-21 06:07:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am feeling guilty, for no reason. I'm going to my aunts house in the easter holidays, and I have to take the train there. I'm going first class (so ill be ok....etc.) and my dad has paid quite a lot for the tickets, and for some reason I feel guilty when he didnt even mind paying for them. I just feel bad that he has to spend so much. I don't know why though. any suggestions/advice?

2007-03-21 06:00:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 15 yr old daughter that lives with family. We have an estranged relationship right now . We were once really close, we would literally share everything. I was always honest with her about who I was and who I am.

4 yrs ago she told me her step-father was abusing her, so putting my life on the line I did what a parent is suppose to do. I turned him in and we got out. A very long story anyway, now she doesn't communicate with me as often as I would like, if any at all.

How do I begin to rebuild my relationship with her? She has told me she doesn't need or wants me me to be her mom but her friend. I know she has a good "mom" in my place for now , but how do I just be her friend ?

2007-03-21 05:55:59 · 9 answers · asked by Cajun_ Creater 2

so i have $300 to spend on my gf but she knows that i have had my eye on a guitar for a while now so she says buy the guitar but i can buy the guitar and get her a couple little things or i could just spend all of it on her.

2007-03-21 05:50:56 · 12 answers · asked by Nick M 1

I live in the US my mom lives in Mexico and is the owner of a beauty salon and I go to Mexico once a month for a weekend because of my braces and I slept with one of her workers which is 28 years old has a little kid and I am 19 and for some reason I feel this guilt and dont know why.

2007-03-21 05:47:44 · 27 answers · asked by Fancy Johnson 1

My new boyfriend is the sweetest guy ever. He's a senior and about 6'3" and I'm 5'5". He drinks alot and so do i. But when we're in school or anywhere for that matter he always clings on to me. He always says that he loves me and that he always wants to be with me. I've known him for about 8 or 9 years and I'm also in love with him. But the thing is that he spends way to much money on me. Like expensive restaurants, jewlery, anything. He says that he loves me and that he wants to spend alot of money on me but in a way I feel uncomfortable about it. I know he loves me but is he going over the top. And plus he's also rich.

2007-03-21 05:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known this guy for 8 years and he asked me out today. I really like him and everything but I'm scraed that it would change our friendship if we break up. He's a senior now and everything and he just broke up with his girlfriend like 1 week ago. he's also in the fire house too and thats where I'm at most of the time cuz of my dad. what should i do?

2007-03-21 05:43:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay my mom is mad at my younger sister who is 17 yrs old because she is planning to move out after her high school graduation... ya that is a mistake but you know how teenager are and how they want to move out after school... well my mom is really mad about that... and she grounded my sister till whem my mom thinks she doesnt need to be grounded anymore... she took her vell phone away but than gave it back... and she isnt talk in to her.. plus my mom said she is dead to her its really krazy and im in the middle of it and i dont know what to do... i mean my mom always puts me in it even when i tell her not to do it... now my mom has this baby monaitor... and is listening to her talk in her room... now she is sayin she can get our cell phone conversations recorded and get all the conversations we had this past year??? is that true? can u really get outr conversations from t-mobile??? someone please answer and give me advice on what to do??? PLEASE HELP I HAVE HAD ALOT OF HEADACHS

2007-03-21 05:39:59 · 12 answers · asked by Chitownshottie 1

I've always felt like my family has been ganging up on me. But it's gotten really bad lately. I feel like that mostly because I made decisions and wanted to do things that they didn't approve of. It's not like I did drugs or choose a risque career. My brother's Mock Trial team just made it to state this year and now I'm getting the constant, "that's what you should've done". I choose marching band in high school and my parents pulled me out after 2 years because they didn't like the teacher. My brother joined ROTC and is currently an Ensign in high school, I joined a rock band and competed in talent shows.
Plus I caught my brother looking at stuff he shouldn't be looking at last year and he got off with a slap on the wrist. When my parents found out I had an eating disorder in high schooI got scolded heavily.
I really just want my family to know how I feel. My brother has constantly been telling me that I fail in everything I do and that I'll fail in everything and my parents

2007-03-21 05:35:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was just testing you my boyfreinds name is justin and to tell you the truth i can spell i just spelt the words like that because thats how you spell your words if your if your popular at my scholl but i know how to spell i am making all a in reading i m in the tenth grade so yes i know how to spell sorry to tell you that and besides me and my boyfreind are ingaged already

2007-03-21 05:30:38 · 6 answers · asked by lilpimpett 1

like giving me an ugly speech about my concern about sarcasism and she tells me that i'm the one with the problem. she hasn't lived in a virtual hell with my adopted sister who knows how to yell and be sarcastic at the same time.

2007-03-21 05:13:07 · 1 answers · asked by cinderella 1

I have a very controlling daughter-in-law . Yes, we have all been to counseling. We respect the fact she is our only child's wife and the mother of our granddaughter, but we feel we really don't have a daughter-in-law. Yes, we have done nothing but try to welcome her into our family. Her main goal is to keep our son and granddaughter away from his family and friends. Yes, he loves her so we keep quiet but have talked to him about our feelings, with and without a counselor. The counselor has addressed her behavior but she refuses to change or admit it. There is so much awful talk about mother-in-laws but there are those of us to truly try to do everything right. They live about an hour away from us so we do not get to see them often. There is a "best friend" attachment with her mother (they live 2 miles apart) and she seems to always come first. Just looking for mom's in the same situation. There really are good mother-in-laws out there who really try.

2007-03-21 05:12:49 · 10 answers · asked by proud grandma 5

Timothy lived in or was originally from Liverpool. Believed passed away betwwen 1985 pos 1987 age aprox 21 years at time of death. Timothys middle name is Sean.

2007-03-21 05:10:53 · 2 answers · asked by janet c 1

My husband and I bought a new house and then my aunt basically forced my cousin to by one exactly like ours, but with more upgrades. They have not been invited over to my new house but have tried to invite themselves over 7 times in 1 week (we just moved in last week) and they have even showed up at a restauraunt nearby and called to let me know they were in the area. Luckily I was not home! It just hurts my feelings that they are not supportive like a family should be. My husband, mother and I try not to play these games, but it is becoming impossible! They always have to be one up on me and it is getting worse as we get older. Help!

2007-03-21 05:04:02 · 10 answers · asked by Jilly Bean 2

We have completely different characters.

2007-03-21 04:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by C.C. 4

2007-03-21 04:49:43 · 8 answers · asked by ∂ιαиα †Matisyahu† 7

My Mom and me have always been really close we were like best friends since i was little we were always together always joking around and tell each other our deepest secrets but it changed since i moved in with my boyfriend of 1yr&8months she dont like him and she dont like the fact that im with him but i love him to death and she dont see that she never calls me anymore and when i do call her shes always giving me crap she always starts an arguement how to i handle this i cant seem to make her understand shes in her own world

2007-03-21 04:39:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is a serious question, i have this wonderful partner and have been with him for 11 years, we did live together but his snoring got that bad, we both decided that he moved out...sounds corny but it worked and we are still together....thing is when he comes to stay he snores so loud that it keeps me awake all night, i try to wake him but it just gets louder and louder... sometimes i get only 2 hours sleep at night and i think it's staring to affect my health because i am so tired all the time, i have tried to get him to get it treated but he insists that he does not snore....all joking aside though, does anyone else here have a partner who snores and how is it affecting your life/health, has it broken up your relationship? has it caused fights? i only have one bedroom in my home so most of the time i sleep on the couch...bless his heart, i love him staying over but i just cannot deal with it any more... it's getting me down, and i am so tired all the time, we even fight over it

2007-03-21 04:33:42 · 23 answers · asked by Dazzlebox 7

The ex wife tells my stepson i can't watch him, and talks about my husband and i in a negative way. i make a point NOT to talk bad about her infront of my stepson so i won't be "talking bad about mommy" but it is causing tension with my husband and i. i feel he should say something to her, but he doesnt want to cause conflict or risk not seeing his son. anything i can do?

2007-03-21 04:22:26 · 13 answers · asked by knnygrl 2

My brother and I are ten years apart in age (i'm 20, he's 10). I was a huge Daddy's girl when I was little because while my mother worked days in an office, my father would take care of me because he worked nights playing piano at clubs. He got me into all kids of sports and activities and practiced all of them with me. When I turned 10 and my brother came along, I was very excited because I knew I could teach him the same things Daddy taught me. However, my brother never got the loving touch Daddy gave me. It was like my brother's birth turned my father into a nightmare. My mother and I raised my brother because my father stayed locked in his room at all hours. When he became old enough to play and understand baseball (about 6 or 7), I asked my father if he would help me teach him. He went out with us maybe once or twice. I want my brother to have the same kind of fun memories and experiences I had. How do I get them to have a meaningful father-son connection?

2007-03-21 04:14:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 30 years old and still get scolded, lectured, etc. I would like to have an adult mother/daughter relationship with her but she won't let go of this need to talk to/at me as if I'm a child. She tells me what I need to do with my money, my career, etc. I'm a succesful professional and live in a nice home that I own. A few months ago she explained to me what a yeast infection was. When I let her know that I was already aware of them and had been for some time she patronizingly said "well i guess you're all grown up now". I fight the urge to scream at her because I don't want to act like an angry teenager (I'm sure she would love that.) We spend time together a few times a week, and each time we are together she complains that we never do anything together. I just don't know what to do anymore. (I know I'm not the only one with this problem; and there is probably no solution, but I wouldn't mind some words of advice).

2007-03-21 04:06:52 · 24 answers · asked by wondering 3

EVERY ONE IS JUST ALWAYS TALKING MESS AND ALWAYS GETTING MAD AT ME FOR EVERY THING!

2007-03-21 03:58:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-21 03:48:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello. I was wondering, does anyone have a family where they don`t talk to you or they`re not close with one another? My family never calls or writes to me. My mom only emails me when I email her first. Why are families so cruel sometimes? I`m sick of being isolate and alone.

2007-03-21 03:45:28 · 5 answers · asked by lost2day 6

At first i was sad about the whole thing, but now every time i'm near her, think about it, or they talk about it; i want to loose it. my parents have always been controling. but now ifind myself doing whatever i want and thinking the worst thoughts. They try to give me medication but i used to take ridalyn as a kid and ever since i was old enough to stop i never take any kind of that medication. what do i do?

2007-03-21 03:42:12 · 7 answers · asked by Patrick D 1

My son is 19. He had a 12 pack of beer in his vehicle that someone bought for him at a gas station. After leaving the gas station, he was pulled over and given a ticket for minor in possession. I would like to know what the charges are and do I need to get a lawyer? Can he loose his license? Does this go against his license?

2007-03-21 03:36:59 · 3 answers · asked by blondy63389 1

& please don't give me this lame things like flowers or chocklet i mean a real gift something will make her say you are the best son any one can have ??

2007-03-21 03:35:02 · 11 answers · asked by Reasonable 3