Family - March 2007

Your parents gave birth to you and your brother.
They raised you and your brother right. There was no favoritism at all. You went to the same school. Met the same people. Have the same classes.

But down the road, your brother ends up in the "Most Wanted Fugitives List". You on the other hand lead a normal, honest life. Your parents raised you both right, but why did the other pick the dark side?

Answer me on this? Your brother never hung with the bad crowd, but he is a loner and did this to himself.

2007-03-20 20:09:41 · 7 answers · asked by Agent319.007 6

I started off my research career in a reputed Institute after my Post graduation. I struggled but no success. I was terminated from the Institute. I joined as an Officer in a Government Organization. My career was somewhat progressing with snail pace without due acknowledgement. I developed my working environment and my subordinate very well. But I got delayed promotion. Now I underwent a debacle on the financial status. Though I am working as a respectable Officer my financial status is pathetic. I run into lot of debts and I don't know How to set right. I resorted some spiritual healing spending lot of money. but no returns. I am still deep and deep into crisis. I heard people in my situation committ suicide. But I can't dare do that also. Any advice please.

2007-03-20 20:01:19 · 9 answers · asked by chandra 1

i hate him, i really do, he's the meanest person i've ever met and the worst part is, all of his anger is completely unprovoked. being an offspring i worry that i might grow up to be just like him and have my kids secretly hate me. what do i do? i try to avoid him but that only gets me so far, and he's the not the kind of person you can talk to or reason with.

2007-03-20 19:45:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love her since i was of 8 yrs. now i am of 16yrs , and she not loves me though i not tell her but i knew this fact , and i still lov her and i am trying hard to get select in IIT-jee so may be one day i hav her . WHAT I SHOULD DO ?

2007-03-20 19:36:33 · 14 answers · asked by akashofneha 1

I love her since i was of 8 yrs. now i am of 16yrs , and she not loves me though i not tell her but i knew this fact , and i still lov her and i am trying hard to get select in IIT-jee so may be one day i hav her . WHAT I SHOULD DO ?

2007-03-20 19:34:57 · 4 answers · asked by akashofneha 1

Did you ever look in your parent's photo albums and see young pictures of your parents at your age?

Ever wondered why you look exactly like your Mom or Dad?

Please explain.

2007-03-20 19:34:38 · 8 answers · asked by Agent319.007 6

my baby
my girl
why do you want to go?
i will miss you
i do not want you to leave
i know you are ready
to stand on your feet
but i have always been there
watching you
ready to pick you up when you fall
ready to scoop you up in my arms.
my eyes well with tears
so much that the keyboard is unclear
as i type the unwritten words i want to speak
but the volume
you only understand
as me being loud
so
i will be loud
i don't want you to go
i will miss you
i am not ready
though you say you are
i am not.
i sat back and watched you
through loving eyes and and a guiding heart.
i cried with your pain
and laughed with your joys
the stretch marks never ceased as you continued to help me grow
i tried to give you the space that you needed, knowing that everyone needs to find their identity.
I was more scared than you while/as you were/are discovering who you are, but I tried not to suffocate you.
Believing that learning from experience can teach us more than what people tell us. I wanted you to learn, I want you to love, i want you to live and baby I want you to continue to learn...for the rest of your life. We never know it all. And only the wise will accept wanting to learn more everyday.
May you always know this,
I will love you like no other, you were my first true love. My unconditional forever.
I LOVE YOU BABY GIRL!!!!
LOVE Mom(my)

2007-03-20 19:26:54 · 4 answers · asked by sandibum 5

Today my little sisters dog got ran over by a car and my friend came over and saw the dog and me and my family ran outside and started crying....it was really sad....but it had the biggets impact on my younger sister whose 11 so im wondering how do i help her cope??

2007-03-20 19:07:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family just moved to a new town. My husband works 12+ hour days, and he's NEVER here. I'm with my son (he's 2) alone every day. We are lonely, bored, and getting stir crazy. How can I make this better for us? I'm starting to get mad at my husband for not being here, eventhough I know that he just paying the bills. It's not his fault, but I'm loosing my sanity. Any advice welcome!

2007-03-20 18:41:03 · 13 answers · asked by joupedamom 1

It's her grandson or daughther is she expected to get paid for takeing care of them ??? or not

2007-03-20 18:25:19 · 28 answers · asked by What Happen 1

2007-03-20 18:21:23 · 7 answers · asked by Chad 7

My family is constantly expecting me to end up being a successful doctor/dentist/someone who makes a lotttt of money. I tell them that I want to be a doctor, but I really want to look into fashion & designing...I know that if I tell them this, they will be disappointed, especially since my older sister is majoring in biology in college and is pursuing her career of becoming a general surgeon. What should I do? Should I agree with my parents and become a doctor, or should I tell them what I want to be? I don't want them to completely give up on me or anything...

2007-03-20 18:15:30 · 3 answers · asked by love&&life 3

2007-03-20 18:13:11 · 3 answers · asked by nena 2

would you wish you had a sister or a brother and why ?

2007-03-20 17:32:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my mother that my significant other and I will be getting married after meeting him for 4-5 mths. She went bulistic, started threating me with my father, telling me he would not help me in any way, might even take back the car he gave me, which is still in his name. She constantly asked whats the rush? Why do you want to get married so soon? Are you pregnant? I told her "no". In fact, I am pregnant, but did not want to tell her b/c I know how she reacted about the marriage. Should I go ahead and tell her anyways, knowing that this is the result? Or should I keep it to myself and run off get married to the guy I am in love and pregnant by and let her find out later after marriage?

2007-03-20 17:32:04 · 15 answers · asked by Amenity 3

my boyfriend of 2 years is currently undergoing cancer treatment, he didn't have cancer while i firstly met him. Now i try to do the right thing by 'sticking' with him, he has stopped working so i pay for most of the food and bills, he has to go to the hospital twice a month so i take time off my work and take him there, i also have to endure his depression and sad mood, i feel lonely and depressed, we are both 28 years old. Recently i feel alot of resentment towards him and his situation, i know its not his fault that he got cancer, but i feel very hateful of my life, what can i do to stop feeling this way?

2007-03-20 17:30:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 26 years old and never met my biological father, I know who he is and he knows who I am but we have never spoken. I would just like to talk to him once, ask some questions, like why was he never in my life, I know it is not because he did not want kids because he has 5 sons of his own (I have met one of them). I know I don't need him and that I am better off without him, but I still feel hurt in someway. I am doing just fine without him, I am a mother of 2 and am in nurses training, and I have a great family, Im just not sure why I feel this way.

2007-03-20 17:00:40 · 5 answers · asked by Misty M 4

My parents are really strict; I can't got to places with my friends unless my parents met theirs, and if i cant go places with girls because my mom thinks i'll get her pregnant, i think they are against dating in general! They are always nagging me about stuff and they even make me feel unloved and stupid (at least my mom anyways). They really tick me off. I think because of them i will never be able to be as succeful with dating as i should be. They really tick me off! And if i told them the ticked me off they would probably ground me! This has been going on for a long time- and it has been driving a wedge between my mom and I. They don't let me do anything, they don't even let me wear a chain because they think i will get into a gang even though we live in a flourishing community. If i try to talk with my dad he makes me read the bible. please help me. FYI: i'm 13 and i'm starting 9th grade next year( i skipped a grade). Please help me rebuild my relationship with my parents!

2007-03-20 16:53:22 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

Are all mom's like this..or just my mom? She forbides me to do anything to my hair...and my friends helped me highlight it...i was bored with my hair..and hadn't done anything to it for the longest time. My boss tells me my hair gets better everytime see she's it.

2007-03-20 16:52:44 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5

do u allow ur parents in law and sis in law to take ur baby to their room out of ur sight? my daughter is 6 mon old even my sis in law's bf takes my baby away my hands and walk away to their room without saying a word or not even say hi. They walk to my room and take my daughter away. My father in law knocked on my door and told me to bring my daughter out so he can play wit her. my husband wants to live there forever, he said " move out,? can you make $1000 a month to help my parents? if yes, i will move out."

2007-03-20 16:52:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm buying a birthday and a long over do chritmas gifts for my cousins boyfriend little girl. the birthday ain't late though. Me and my husband fought over this. I want to get the little girl a bratz doll which is Sasha and she a colored bratz. and it's a really good price for the big bratz doll. This is what we fought over. the little girl is half white and half black and I wanted to call her father and ask if there would be a problem if i got his daughter this doll. i don't want people to take it the wrong way or anything. but i also always notice every baby she has is white. should you really ask the person that before you buy their kid something like that? yes the father is colored and we are close so there wouldn't be a problem with me coming right out and asking. just want to know if i should ask to make sure it's ok or just go ahead and buy it. Please don't take this the wrong way. just any help will do.

2007-03-20 16:49:58 · 9 answers · asked by wishstar28 4

So here’s the thing, I baby sit my girlfriends niece and nephew everyday (mon-fri) after school. Their parents both work and so no one except for me can watch them. This is all fine, were all family and we help each other, they're good kids and all but the thing is, they are here ALL THE TIME.
I see them mon-fri, then they want to have a sleepover on Fridays, sometimes all the way till Sunday. When all this happens I end up watching everyone (my son and all the kids). Where are the parents and other family members? Good question, I don't know either I just watch the kids, its expected of me now. They family members have the nerve to say (when the kids are leaving) I never get to see you guys, how come you dont want to stay here longer? I want to say so many things but its family. Heres the thing, when do I get to spend time with mine? Oh and on Sundays, yeah they come over again for laundry or whatever reason. Is it wrong that I want space and family time of my own with just MY family

2007-03-20 16:48:54 · 4 answers · asked by infiniteson 3

well it all started that i was stressed out from school and my dad starts to argue why am i acting stupid. i argue that i was stressed out and he told me to shut up. i got really mad and ran away. my mom came looking for me. she found me and then my dad and i arent talking to each other anymore. i cry everyday cuz im such a horrible daughter. today is his birthday and i didnt even say ''happy birthday'' to him. i just wanna commit suicide. my dad and i dont get along. what can i do???? today is his special day. my mom told me he has feelings but hardly ever shows them. im really sad. can someone help me at least.

2007-03-20 16:32:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-20 16:19:30 · 12 answers · asked by achronicfan 3

the father of my children died, an i was wondering if i could go after his parents for child support to help me raise my children

2007-03-20 16:01:26 · 13 answers · asked by nicole 2 1

My son is constantly in trouble at preschool for being "rough" and jumping on/wrestiling with the other kids. I'm sure he gets this from his father's house because we don't allow it at my house. (I'm remarried)
Anyway, I want to put him into "TIny Tigers" which is a program for 3-4 year olds. His father is DEAD SET against it, saying he has enough of an issue with "fighting" and "wrestling" as it is. I say martial arts is good for discipline and respect and my husband agrees.
Should we sign him up for the free trial month without his dad knowing and see what happens? My relationship with my ex is VERY volatile, so communicating with him is NOT an option.
I have a restraining order against him for domestic violence and child abuse, but he is mandated by the court to have visitation/joint custody.

2007-03-20 16:01:26 · 10 answers · asked by Avon Lady 4

2007-03-20 15:53:01 · 5 answers · asked by DONMEGA 1

2007-03-20 15:48:39 · 10 answers · asked by lababygirl1200 1

2007-03-20 15:45:27 · 6 answers · asked by *Mon* 2

Are you ashamed when you have to say that you are not working. I'm ashamed at times and proud at other times. It can be very frustrating because I would like to be a tax payer and feel i'm more a contributing member of society but then there are days I feel I am an important member or society in raising my child and taking care of my family, especially since my husband seems to need me to hold down the home front as he travels a lot. How do you overcome inferiority?.

2007-03-20 15:44:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous