I love her since i was of 8 yrs. now i am of 16yrs , and she not loves me though i not tell her but i knew this fact , and i still lov her and i am trying hard to get select in IIT-jee so may be one day i hav her . WHAT I SHOULD DO ?
2007-03-20 19:36:33 · 14 answers · asked by akashofneha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Love can not be forced so find out your love somewhere else.You are young work hard to make yourself worthy for somebody else. Get higher & higher in life. Will you beg for somebody to love you & if she does not?
This is not time for finding out love anyhow anyway. Because today she will start loving you tomarrow you willl like to marry her. Neithr hve job nor you are adult to legally marry anyone.
So don't forget her but use her as your inspiration to get admitted to engineering.
2007-03-21 12:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat the hell do u mean by " ...i am trying hard to get select in IIT-jee so may be one day i hav her..."
do u think if u get into IIT u will get her??--dont dream so big boy
rite now just concentrate on ur studies, coz if u dont get the girl , u will only hav heartache(dil ka dard)
but if u dont do well in studies u will lose out not only on a good career but also the chances of getting better girls
also ur parents n family will be dissappointed
from ur question it looks like she said no to ur proposal, now u can simply forget her, because think abt this situation --u are now 21 yrs n still lov this girl , she still doesnt, n by now u also know she wont ever love u , u will find urself in a situation where u finished ur entire college life thinkin of a girl who doesnt love u
forget her thr will be others around
remember u will never be 16 again so dont lose it after one girl, do everythin u can n enjoy life
2007-03-21 07:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by jammin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your case is the same as was with me!!i liked a gal since i was 10 but obviously she didnt. i still liked her untill i thought about the saying "i will loose the one who never loved me, but she is losing the one who always loved her"...taking this i have moved further in life though now i dont love anyone.
\take my words: in today's world true love dont happen to most of the people before they are 20-22 yrs old. so dude you obviously need to move further in life rather than impressing the gal wit iit or any other strategy.
2007-03-21 02:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by sid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to let her go and focus your attentions on other things. do not get in a class with her that will make things worst. you are still both very young and one day she might notice you but i would not count on that. you sound like a very sweet guy and somewhere out there is the girl for you. your just not looking for her because your too focused on this girl.
2007-03-21 02:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it migt be hard to accept but an important thing in life is to be able to adapt and move on. This is one of those times when u need to move on find others you might like . You never know, in 10 years she might com back and discover that all along she did love you. but for now move on and adapt
2007-03-21 02:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by me, myself and I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe move on. There's not really anyway to make a girl love you...Love just happens, it can't be created. Maybe she does love you too, but doesn't realise your love right now, so put it off for a while and just CHILL...
good luck
2007-03-21 12:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you cannot make her love you. Stay friends with her and maybe oneday she will realize just how much u love her. Its better to be her friend than nothing at all.
2007-03-21 02:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look. you ve lived in this world for 16 years and half of it spent on loving her hoping one day you get her. thats silly. sorry for abuse. i been through it and waited that one sunny day..... but it didnt work so i tried to forget about him. it was hard but i dont love him any more. follow me and life will change.
peace :)
2007-03-21 06:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by A Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not the age for u to take decision about ur love ..but u need to plan ur future ...congrates u will get through the exam all the best ...................... then u will have a different view about everything k ........ all the best
2007-03-21 05:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day she will learn your true love for her don't worry
2007-03-21 02:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋