do u allow ur parents in law and sis in law to take ur baby to their room out of ur sight? my daughter is 6 mon old even my sis in law's bf takes my baby away my hands and walk away to their room without saying a word or not even say hi. They walk to my room and take my daughter away. My father in law knocked on my door and told me to bring my daughter out so he can play wit her. my husband wants to live there forever, he said " move out,? can you make $1000 a month to help my parents? if yes, i will move out."
2007-03-20 16:52:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your in-laws are pushy and rude. You need you own place. You and your husband need to get out and start your own life seperate from your in-laws.
2007-03-20 17:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by usmcbrat0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a really hard one. I lived with my inlaws for about the first five years of our marriage. They are the best inlaws EVER. But, the never took my children without asking me and NEVER shut the door. Maybe you should just have a serious talk with them about taking the baby away, that should be a big hell no without first asking your permission. Do try and do it without arguing, your kids will need their grandparents. Trust me, I know you love your kid more than anything but there is no love like a grandparents love. Also, you will appreciate the break they could give you (after they understand the trust thing). Do not let them take the baby, you are the mom and what you say goes when it comes to him/her. Make sure they understand to always ask your permission and to never never never shut the door. Good luck and I hope everything turns out fine.
2007-03-21 02:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by curiousgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could i live with my inlaws no. But i couldnt live with my blood family iether. and i would hopefully never have to live with them iether, and my husband would not live with my parents or my sister and her kid. But that is our family. If you get along with them and it is helping you out finacially. Stay. Be happy and thankfull that you have help with your baby. yeah I know to much help is driving you crazy. Have a family meeting and let them know that it is great to have the help but you also need your time with child. As far as letting the chld out of your sight do you have any reason to believe that they are mistreating the baby. Becareful how you tread if they are not hurting the child you could really ruffle some feathers and have hard feelings come about. If you suspect that there is something going on that is going to harm your child get resonable proof get out of there and take legal action.
2007-03-21 00:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by jhdjkhblpk;mvhyf nbjhghbmnbjgb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never live with my in laws because I would be arguing with them if they took my child and went to another room. Especially a grandfather because I do not trust no man around my daughter. You never know what he is doing to her, I would rather be safe then sorry... Good Luck!!!
2007-03-21 00:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋