2007-03-21 04:49:43 · 8 answers · asked by ∂ιαиα †Matisyahu† 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well I wouldn't neccacarly call it "Hate"
I would really just call it "Really really realy ticked off"
That's how I see it anyways....
Us teens are at our stage in our life to where we are barely learning how this thing called "life" works...We've got a lot on our plate, & where just not use to finishing so much! I mean come on, we have to deal with school, friends, family, apperance, chores, yada yada yada! I dunno about you but sometimes I miss being real young, growing up is so stressful...haha, then not only having all of these other things on your mind but then you've got your parents who sometimes put you down, hurt you, or just flat out be crule to you! So with all of this pressure built up on you, your minds in a phase! You know what you should do, you should sit down & just think! Get your mind straight...See what's important to think of & what's not...Try focusing more on reality & how you can make it better...Once you've done that...things tend to get easier...I'm the same way man, I know how it is....Just hang in there....They love you...even if they are hard headed some times....Things will turn out fine...You just wait & see....
2007-03-21 05:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that hatred is probably too strong a word here. I completely understand the feeling, though. Teens are learning to become independent. Parents are learning to let their kids grow up. Bot parties are learning a LOT during that phase of the relationship.
I think it is important to realize that true independence is a myth. Nobody lives in complete isolation (or at least that is very rare). We are all really inter-dependent on each other. Realizing that one day when you have your own life that the tension you feel now is going to be LONG gone can help you see that these feeling are only temporary.
Just remember that the parents are learning too. Open communication is SO important when you're a teen. It can be difficult to express what the real issues are, but take te time to talk about them. You'll see that the parents really do care about what the teen wants.
Great question!
2007-03-21 05:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by Justyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adolescence is a time where many are beginning to find themselves and become more individualized. However, it can be hard to exhibit this since there are parents there who are still using their authority and control to keep their kids from making mistakes. Teenagers are just stubborn and thickheaded like many people who may not be in this age group, & can be from time to time unable to see past themselves and what they want from the fact that their parents aren't exerting control to make them miserable but to keep them safe. So what it basically comes down to is a power struggle in a strive for more independence (and possibly a desire to be treated as an adult but I think that ties in with independence). It's too bad though that many teenagers ignore their parent's wishes only to find out later on that they were right...
2007-03-21 04:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by chitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. This is one of the natural stages of growth toward independent adulthood. In order to lay the groundwork for moving away from home, some hatred is helpful. Let's face it -- it's emotionally a lot easier to go off to college or to leave home to get into one's own apartment if you hate your parents and really, really want to get away from them. Hatred of our parents is nature's way of telling us it's getting to be time to move out!
2007-03-21 04:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you want to do what you want and don't understand the full reprecussions of bad choices. They do and know more because they have already lived it, that sort of done that been there mentality. If you can try to pull yourself out of it a little and see there point of view you may see what they say it usually so.
2007-03-21 05:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most teenagers aren't yet mature enough to understand the value of those older than them, it comes with time. We all grow out of it.
2007-03-21 04:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by jessie1985 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's called hormones and your brain.
2007-03-21 09:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by urbancowgirl000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋