my ex girl wants me to stay away from my 2 year old son but i don't wanna and i need to see him when i get out and her parents think the same way. any one know how to talk someone into letting that happen?
2007-03-21 07:13:36 · 5 answers · asked by Robert Stineback 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and right now i am locked up over 3000 miles away
2007-03-21 07:17:38 · update #1
i am only 17 so we arn't married
2007-03-21 07:22:25 · update #2
see for every one i got locked up for cutting my house arrest band to get to him and i got arrested there with him and her standing there but she let me be there.
2007-03-21 07:27:58 · update #3
If you want to be treated as a responsible father you will need to start acting like one. When you get out, get yourself situated and begin the process of re-establishing a relationship with your son. If the baby's mother and parents are against it, speak with them (as adults) and ask what their concerns are. Make sure you tell them that your son's best interests are what you are looking out for and you want to be a respectable, honorable father. You will need to get a job and pay child support and get your act together, tell them what efforts you are putting forth to straighten out your life, etc. If possible find an older person to be your "sponsor or mentor", someone who will give you guidance and support thru this (this could be an uncle, godfather, grandfather, dear friend, friend's parent, etc.). Good luck to you and God Bless.
2007-03-21 07:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just be a little bitter at the moment. As far as the parents are concerned...well that is just being simple and maybe they are the ones putting the pressure on her to keep your son away. All you are going to be told is to talk to a lawyer and that can be drawn out. Just try to talk with everyone that is involved and maybe you can come to a mutal agreement. If you are not a danger to the child then what is the problem? Things can actually change for the better once you are actually out.
2007-03-21 14:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by sumptinsweet4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be firm and be frank. You have right to see your son and he will know it but when he grows up. Just speak to her. In fact try and work things out with her and get back to married life. tell her you wanna work things out. I am sure it will make you all happy in the longer run.
2007-03-21 14:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the law provides for MOST parents to visit with their children.
your ex can't just keep you from seeing the child, without a court order.
sounds like you need to retain legal help or talk with a paralegal about this issue.
2007-03-21 14:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you are locked up speaks for itself. your judgement is faulty, and you should not be trusted with a child in any way. do your child a favor and get lost.
2007-03-21 14:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋