hate where you live?

Question

what do you do when you hate where you live, im 20 years old going to community college and have to interact with my mother everyday which annoys me, shes so damn annoying always yelling, or asking me to do something, or treating me like im 4 years old, everyday shes like do this, do that shut up and listen to me, put a jacket on, i demand it of you..then i go to a college i really dont want to be at, i have freinds, but the depression of it all makes me feel alone all the time..could this be a reason why i dont enjoy life? and yes im thankful for moms shes just annoying, and i cant transfer yet, maybe this is why im still single lol..i absolutely hate where i live, and i can only stay confident maybe 3 days in a row, then on the fourth day it all just falls apart, like damn what happend, what can i do, should i just run out and try to move on as best i can? and yes i try to make myself happy but it dosent work all the time
what am i sposed to do?

Answer 1

Keep your eye on the prize. The prize is you and the education that you wish to get to get a well paying job that will allow you to move out of the house and live where you want. If you're studying a subject that no longer interests you, switch majors. When the time comes to get that job, look around at where in this country you want to live and make sure you interview at companies located there.

Don't expect all your desires in life to be just handed to you without any effort on your part. Some days in life will be hard but that doesn't mean you have to suffer and emotionally beat yourself up. Don't accept the feelings and harsh words of others. They belong to them, not to you. You are not responsible for everyones else's feelings. They are. You are only responsible for yourself. Don't be pulled down by your negative side. Choose to be positive each day and you will enjoy what you're doing and the people around you.

Answer 2

why don't you move somewhere else like NEW YORK
or some other country like england that will be good don't you think or just take 2 or 3 weeks of vacation go to the ocean go out or fly to brazil rio de janeiro enjoy then u will see that yuo will miss the place your from that what i did i went on vacations to mexico and then to someother parts but i started missing my mom and dad and also i stated missing alabama and now i'm here again and i'm happy.. but i'll still move someday to some other state or so but not now i'm ok right now and more cause i'm here with my mom and daddy

Answer 3

Maybe you should confront your mom about her bossiness. Tell her how you feel and that your not 4 years old. Ask her to lay off a little. Try to go out and have fun. Find a girl friend. Live a little. You're not going to stay 20 forever. Hope this helps, and Good Luck. : )

Maybe God is trying to tell you something.

Answer 4

Show her how smart you are by getting your own place and paying your own way. If you have nobody to blame for your failures, it will be sink or swim. Let me tell you being an adult isn't the bag of freedom you think it is, work like a dog and give all your money to others.

Answer 5

dont worry things will change, but get out of her house, she has no right to tell you to shut or put a jacket on, she is rude.
for now ignore her, i can't stand the stupid town i live in, ther is nothing here but walmart, CAN'T WAIT TO MOVE OUT.
i'll have to sell my house and everything but my sons likes it here. trust me-you are not alone!

Answer 6

Move out! Get a friend or two and rent an apartment. You've got a job, right?

Answer 7

I'm sick of living in Detroit, but my CPA lisence is in Michigan, so I'm screwed unless I want to get certified in another state...that's life.

Answer 8

move out of ur frikin moms house