Family - January 2007

In other words, I'm pretty uptight and judgmental most of the time. I've been aware of the problem and have been working on it. Mainly, I believe I am responsible for my behavior but also I believe I am this way because my step-dad is very violent and cannot control his anger. Therefore, I judge him and others. Plus, I'm uptight because I'm been burned so many times by my natural dad and my step-dad...I just don't want to get hurt again by anyone...I'm moving out this summer on my own to be near college and don't know too many people...hopefully I'll loosen up and start fresh. So, my question is how do you become "easy going"? Sorry if its a stupid question.

2007-01-05 16:08:54 · 8 answers · asked by bettyboop 2

My ex brother in law says he moved in with my mom so that his son could stay with his sister. He had been in prison for awhile. I feel that he moved in so he could have a free ride and because he is very controlling. That is why my sister divorced him. My mother is afraid of him. OH and I did tell him to piss off many times as well as informed him that I was not afraid. Needless to say, this does not help my cause in getting the children (even the one that does not belong to him) out of that situation.

2007-01-05 16:03:27 · 6 answers · asked by Karate Mom 1

Well my family is alittle difficulty to bring together but this year I want us to become closer as family because it doesn't make sense how we treat each other. Please give me some sugestions that we could perhaps do to enjoy each others company.

2007-01-05 16:02:13 · 4 answers · asked by live_laugh_and learn something 2

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2007-01-05 15:55:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friends dad hits her and shes scared to death of him. hes not the nicest guy and sometimes yells at me too. I known this girl forever and never seen her cry so much when shes scared of her dad. Her mom knows about her dads anger issues but i think her mom is just plain lazy. I know it's none of my business, but I'm scared for her.

2007-01-05 15:52:03 · 9 answers · asked by aly 2

2007-01-05 15:39:54 · 11 answers · asked by redmouse 3

Well.. recently my older sister broke up with her long time boyfriend..(three years) everyone in my household was kind of sad. they were attached.. u could say dat. It seems now awkward to talk to my sister. what should i say.. and wat should i not bring up

2007-01-05 15:38:51 · 8 answers · asked by temari 2

Over the holodays I was takeing a shower my sis came into the bathroom I thought to get some tampon or some s**t but no she jumped into shower with me. We only have one bathroom and we were runnign late, She was like "we gotta hurry, this will save time". And never said anthing more about it. I don't think mom and dad knew but I'm not sure, I havn't brought it up. We are in our 20s. Is this weird or bad?

2007-01-05 15:38:36 · 14 answers · asked by Naythen 1

2007-01-05 15:33:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

use their kids to make themselves feel good like make their kids angry and then go and say my kid has add adhd or some bs like that there is no such thing as add adhd or w/e its parents that dont know how to be parents and shouldnt have kids, its also the other family members they treat me like crap still i am 24 and they still treat me like a piece of dirt. no wonder i havent got a g/f yet my subconcience is telling me that poeple are always going to treat me like my family have. id just llike to know how many other poeple have their parents, and other family members do this to them.

2007-01-05 15:28:17 · 11 answers · asked by luckydo6 3

Have you ever tried to do something nice for someone and they make it so difficult that by the time you do it you don't want to anymore...well I offered to take my mother who is 63 on afternoon or evening girls night out her choice...my treat..she made it sooooo complicated and had know idea as to what to do and said I should just choose but everything I suggested was not a good idea...finally at the end of the conversation she said what she really wanted to do was the first thing I suggested but when I suggested it she said she didn't want to do it...2 hours later......ugggg frustrated

2007-01-05 15:26:42 · 5 answers · asked by m 2

I do not have a job at the time (im looking) so dont have alot of money to spend on a party and buy the gifts he wants. We have a very small house and have had the party here the past 2 years but the boy always want to run off and play game cube or xbox, last year they were playing WWE in his bedroom( broke the bed) dont need that to happen again lol they dont want to do party games, and it is to cold in Illinois in Feb. to have an out side party any ideas

2007-01-05 15:20:08 · 4 answers · asked by chrissy 1

my parents kicked me out because im pregnant and im due soon. (supposed to be 1/11/07)im living with my neighbor and theyre always yelling at me and theyre about to kick me out too.im 280 pounds at 12 years old. i feel fat and ugly so i went to a club with my friend and did it with a guy who said he liked me.am i a slut? is it bad and what should i do

2007-01-05 15:17:39 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

i faced probs with my step mom -me as a short tempered girl,got me a bad name ''sadyst''-she particularly doesn't behaves well with me&i like a dog snarl&pounce at everyone -none in the house r talking well with me by supporting her.mistake lies on either side.what to do? i wanna run away&search some job for my bread-finished my 12th class-never did i fought either with my hostalitesr neighbours-but now that ifell sick cos of encephalites&under treatment nowi suffered from it for50days-even before that i used to hate her behaviour to the core which gave her a chance 2 jack me infront of everybody.my pa got married when i was13.plz can any one resolve this problem..............

2007-01-05 15:15:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not the children's mother. I am their aunt. My baby sister is their mother, and she passed away in November. Her will left our mother as their guardian. My sister was married twice and divorced twice. Her youngest's father was always abusive (and it was documented by many police reports and journals that my sister kept), yet the state gave custody to the father. They live with my mom, but he bullies her and threatens to take his child and never let us see him again.

2007-01-05 15:14:35 · 2 answers · asked by Karate Mom 1

My nephew got in trouble for chewing tobacco in school, when his father picked him up he was angry and punched him in the ribs. My nephew called me to come get him , I did and his father began calling me all kinds of names and freaking out. I brought my nephew home and my fiance called his mom and she believed her husband and said I was meddling in their business and was unfit ,a bad influence and my son was a wrecluse, and that her son and I were lying abiut his dad hitting him. Was I wrong to get involved or was it right to step in and remove my nephew from and out of control situation?

2007-01-05 15:08:11 · 4 answers · asked by Kathy C 1

I recently took in my brother-in-laws 2 kids they are 1 and 3 me and my husband are doing the kinship foster care for them. The one year old cry's constently unless I am holding him. What is the best way to break him of that? I understant it takes some adjustment but we have had them for three weeks now.

2007-01-05 15:00:54 · 6 answers · asked by Christie J 2

attach. the last 30% he lived a long time until yesterday. Now he is gone. I keep telling me to call my dad and realize that he is no longer there. It is sooo hard to except how would or did you deal with it?

2007-01-05 14:54:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

help me choose??

2007-01-05 14:47:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my father in laws told us that he has the right to know every single things my husband and i do in our bedroom...he wants us to follow his advise about our 'bedroom activity' and we MUST tell him everything.do we have a choice here or there's something wrong with my father in law.my husband and i try to ignore him but he became more persistance..we caught him once red handed searching in our bedroom..he pretends it is normal for parents to know about their children sex life..is that true?

2007-01-05 14:42:45 · 7 answers · asked by polaris 1

my father in laws told us that he has the right to know every single things my husband and i do in our bedroom...he wants us to follow his advise about our 'bedroom activity' and we MUST tell him everything.do we have a choice here or there's something wrong with my father in law.my husband and i try to ignore him but he became more persistance..we caught him once red handed searching in our bedroom..he pretends it is normal for parents to know about their children sex life..is that true?

2007-01-05 14:40:14 · 12 answers · asked by polaris 1

For spring break we are going to Disney World and my little sister doesn't know yet! How should my family tell her? Should we go on the plane and not tell her until we arrive? When and how should we tell her?

2007-01-05 14:29:28 · 15 answers · asked by dolphin13crazy 2

2007-01-05 14:17:03 · 19 answers · asked by JanJan 2

I havent seen my sister for 28 yrs..I was 7. Her Dad took her away.
We are now adults each married with 3 kids. My Mom and other sister have seen her. and spent time with her.. I am so broken hearted over hte fact I cant see her..Birthdayss come and go holidays come and go.. My mom and I just got in contact with her again almost 2 yrs ago... Mom and baby sister have seen her 2x's since we have found eachother. Im all the way in Louisanna. I feel...I have been without her this long..and knowing she is only a phone call a way has helped a lot...But I want sooo very much to spend time with her. I cant move..Money is always so tight. Any Ideals?????

2007-01-05 14:14:11 · 2 answers · asked by venita b 2

ok my dad has been always good father to me and to my sisters and he've been a good husband to my mom too but at the last 8 months i started finding anythin my dad says or does is silly,the way he sit down,the walk he talks with people,the way he eats,everythin...

2007-01-05 14:11:59 · 23 answers · asked by stang girl 3

When i do my hw, my bro always bugs me.he does embarrising things in public and gross things when my friends are around,and he doesnt act nice to my friends or any body i know either.what in the world do i do?????please help a woman in need.

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2007-01-05 14:10:18 · 9 answers · asked by -Izzie☮ 2

Is on Jan 10th, Wed, I want to do something but don't know what, then on friday we are going to stay home and drink, any ideas as what i can do on wed?

2007-01-05 14:08:49 · 20 answers · asked by Rebecca W 2

wat is a song or a video or something in your life that makes u cry i like too here people stories!

2007-01-05 14:05:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, I need to know how to tell my parents about my anoreixa. Can anyone help me? Do you think my parents will get mad? Will I be punished? Help!

2007-01-05 13:56:42 · 27 answers · asked by theonewiththequestions_13 3

I'm 18 and I just started college at a private university. I work hard for everything I want. but my mom is always telling me that I'm not working hard enough and that I'll never amount to anything.
I hate that I feel like I'm 12. I have to ask before I leave the house. She'll say I can stay out as late as I want but when I come home she yells at me for coming back "late." I don't understand why she just doesn't let me do my own things, how else am I going to learn? and she's always complaining about how I don't get anything done when I do.
I'm afraid that if I say something she'll just get even more mad. What can I do?

2007-01-05 13:56:30 · 5 answers · asked by clarigirl06 1