When i do my hw, my bro always bugs me.he does embarrising things in public and gross things when my friends are around,and he doesnt act nice to my friends or any body i know either.what in the world do i do?????please help a woman in need.
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2007-01-05 14:10:18 · 9 answers · asked by -Izzie☮ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like he craves attention.
Maybe you can satisfy his craving for attention by simply scheduling a certain amount of time every day to spend with him doing things that the two of you can enjoy.
Make it a routine thing.
His craving for attention will eventually be satisfied, and you may notice that he no longer does things to annoy you.
Key point... spend quality time with your brother doing things you both enjoy.
2007-01-05 14:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by davidcolyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you were a dork at 7 too lol.
He's your brother, just remember to take lots of pictures so he can't deny what a goof he was as a kid.
The fact is that eventually he'll grow up and so will you and if you hold this against him now, it will affect you both forever. And your sibling is the longest relationship you will ever have in your life. It lasts longer than parents or friends. So learn to make it a good one ... or don't and suffer later :)
2007-01-05 14:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a spanking on his butt and on his arm. Then yell at him. If your mom say's something then tell her whats been going on if she dosen't know between you and your brother. When her dosen't act nice to your friends tell hme to stop and then leave. If he dosen't tell him that he is going to get a time out or you will tell dad. If he does listen then your okay and if he dosen't pick him up and put him outside your bedroom door and lock it. If you don't have a lock put a chair or a pile of books to keep hime from coming in. When you do your homework and he bugs you tell him to move and oush him a little till he crys. (sorry to be mean but it works). Then everytime her does something bad you give him a spanking on the butt and on the arm. If he gets out of control slap him on the side of his head and tell him not to do that or he will get slap again. Trust me this will work!
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2007-01-05 14:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Racquel2007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The thing that you need to do is that since he does gross thing when the other girls are with you and does not act nice to your friends (girls) you and the girls should not act nice to him. The first thing that you need to do to him is have one girl take his hands and another girl take his ankles and carry him to your room even if he does not want the girls to carry him you have to do it to him to teach him that if he is not nice to your friends (girls) then your friends (girls) will not be nice to him. If you need to, have four girls carry him to your room. Once in your room lay him down on the ground and have two girls hold him down while the rest of the girls dress him in girls clothes and put makeup on him. Then you and your friends (girls) should put curlers in his hair and also have some of the other girls hold him down while the other girls paint his nails. After that take pictures of him dressed like a girl and then all of you take him around town dressed like a girl to embarass him in public. Also, you should have all the girls bug him while he is doing homework.
After doing this to him he will probably not want to do gross things around your friends (girls) again or act mean to your friends (girls) again. But if he does, tell him that he will have the girls giving him a makeover and embarrassing him until he behaves.
2007-01-05 14:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My brother acts the same way. Kids their age are just like that, they enjoy the attention and being silly is just part of themselves growing up. Eventually, he will outgrow it.
Next time he bothers you, politely ask him to leave your room while you're doing your homework. Explain to him that it embarrasses you when he acts silly in public and in front of your friends. Usually, it works for a period of time, but then it will start to wear off and you'll have to explain it to him again. Be patient, and be wise.
2007-01-05 14:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get him to sit down next to you and get him to understand what you are doing like teach him what you are learning, then you should be able to get your homework done easier because you are explaining how its done. i tought my 8 year old brother to play a game for teens, now he is one of the best at that game. when he does something gross in public tell him he can do that at home, noone will see him doing it at home and you wont get embarrased. tell him if hes good to poeple you will get him something, but you gotta get him something. i hope this is a help. i tought a 1 year old girl to walk up stairs because she fell down the stair and i didnt want to see her fall down stairs again so i tought her how to walk basikly at 1. ok hope it helped good luck.
2007-01-05 14:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to him..ask him what bothers him that makes him do bad things infront of people. tell him that you're not the one who's going to be humiliated but him bec he's the one doing gross things and that people will remember him doing those until he grows older..if he's just doing that for fun..ignor him..he'll stop eventually. bec the more you try to scold him the more he'll do that.. try the nicy-nice side of big sister..hehehe..
hope it works.. good luck
2007-01-05 14:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by anette 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
where are your parents? its their job to show him the right and wrongs of society.
and as far as younger siblings go. its their job to harrass the older sibling. when you both become adults things will change.
2007-01-05 14:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by Darleen W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Threaten him tell him you'll tell his best friends something embarassing
2007-01-05 14:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by qtmckinnon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋