i faced probs with my step mom -me as a short tempered girl,got me a bad name ''sadyst''-she particularly doesn't behaves well with me&i like a dog snarl&pounce at everyone -none in the house r talking well with me by supporting her.mistake lies on either side.what to do? i wanna run away&search some job for my bread-finished my 12th class-never did i fought either with my hostalitesr neighbours-but now that ifell sick cos of encephalites&under treatment nowi suffered from it for50days-even before that i used to hate her behaviour to the core which gave her a chance 2 jack me infront of everybody.my pa got married when i was13.plz can any one resolve this problem..............
2007-01-05 15:15:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
As pastor Robert Schuller says, "Suicide is a Permanent solution to Temporary problems"
Do not find permanent solutions to your problems by thinking of dying.
There is enough space, better space for you to live and grow in this world and on this earth.
We would not suggest too much advice to you here,
Just do one thing take a piece of paper, or if you are on the net, write down all that happens to you on daily basis.
You can send that to our counsellor at nischai_org@yahoo.com and we will help you out how to cope with such stress in life.
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Do your Nischai (determination) not to die by committing suicide, fight the world and survival that is how human being has stayed thousands of years.
2007-01-06 18:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very normal to feel depressed at times.But if u r having thoughts of suicide, please listen closely to what i am saying. Hold on 4 ur dear life. you're gonna make it. life will get better........ i promise . You are worth millions and u are needed. Bad times will pass....they always do. Some day u will look back on your situation and be glad u held on.
Remember that the struggles u are facing now will eventually be a great source of strength 4 u.
As philosopher Kahlil Gibran put it : "That self -same well from which our laughter rises was often times filled with our tears. The deeper that sorrow carries into our being, the more joy it can contain."
Talk to your father about ur problems.
Think twice before taking a decision. your life is precious, Nimisha.
2007-01-05 16:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by Divya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please please please...
Never think of dying at any point of time.
I know the problems lie on both parts but dying is not a solution.
u seems to be just 17. yet to be 18. you spared ur step-mom for last 4 yrs. just wait for one more yr to be adult by law.
Find a good job (May God bless u with his Love & a very good job soon) right now. Please never care about what people say about u.. whether it be ur mon, dad or friends. Be as u were earlier. Short tempered is not a bad habit, it's anature. It's GOd made.. u can never change it unless God himself wwants. Don't worry about that.
Please wait like u did for long till u be 18.
Just take urself in a very good & pious earning & shift to working women's hostel. Never change ur mind from shifting out of the house by anybody's convincing.
Even after shifting, please keep in good touch with the family. Let them see & be jealous of ur grwoth & progress.
They will want u to come back but u don't go.
Marry a gentle, romantic & sensible honest guy. My God Bless u with the best one for u.)
That will make ur life as a sweetest dream any girl can ever have.
Dying is never a solution.
All the best in ur life!!!
2007-01-05 15:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sudhendra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearest Nimisha, come on dear, try again. 1.Get up earliest in morning. Go for a walk and meditate. 2.Concentrate on your hobby,study and career.3 Help family members in household. Do you have a good friend? I am sure you have. Then go for small outing with her. Join a dance class. This is a best option to forget bad behaviour of other people. Slowly you will be able to make friend with your new mother. Forgiving is the best way to remain healthy both bodily and with soul. lots of affection for you.
2007-01-05 15:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by neela m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all u should realise that death is not the solution for anything
secondly u r under deep stress by ur step mother i can understand ur feeling but should i say u something the fruit u get after ur suffering is very tasty and will be there for a long time sometimes for ever so dream for u r fruit that is on its way to u never let ur hope to be under ur dream all u have to do is wait for the time in silence
2007-01-06 06:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by vls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear your predicament.
But firmly believe that "This too shall pass".
As you have clearly explained what your problem is, make efforts to control your temper.
Talk to your dad and take him into confidence and work on a plan to recover the relationship.
Dying is for cowards. By running away from home you would face worse situations. Complete your education and qualify yourself to support you through your life.
Above all, have abundant faith in yourself, and God.
Good Luck and You will succeed!!!
2007-01-06 06:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 03:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
death is not a solution to any problem
so first concentrate on ur studies,try to reach ur goal(good job) then u can lead a happy life. share ur problems with ur frnds it makes u to get relief. if u dont have any frnd then if u wish i will be ur frnd.all the best for ur future. bye
2007-01-05 18:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by pushpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you are a student of 12th now you can leave alone. first tri to make a talk to your father and mother and make a solution. if fails run away work and arrange your leaving.
2007-01-05 16:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by anil b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-05 15:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by angelina123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋