Family - January 2007

My boyfriend and his parents birthdays are all around April - may time so I want to get the presents now in the January sales. but i've got no idear what to get them, his mum is in her early 40's and his dad early 50's. any suggestions please

2007-01-05 18:22:59 · 3 answers · asked by Hazel_Divine 2

all i want to do is go off to college and just relax before i settle down. I know what's the real deal in life but i've been trapped in my house for 20 years my parents are way 2 protective of me and i want to become a nurse, which isnt easy. My parents are sayin its a big mistake but to me i just want to enjoy my life. I'm going to be living with a firend and then get a dorm room but they think its a bad idea for me live with a firend when my unlce doesnt want me living with him because "i dont listen." i'm a good girl who is focused on becoming a nurse, but my parents put me down and they are not being supportive. I'm forced to stay somewhere im very uncomfortable and driving myself crazy. I dont think i will survive in that world.

2007-01-05 18:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am only a teenager. i live with my parents. my dad have a very negative attitude towrds everything. He has verbally abused me and has physically abused me. I dont have any brothers or any close male family members. In fact the only male i am around is my dad. I dont mingle with boys at school because i dont know how to. Because when i talk to guys i always act weird/shy around them like there going to judge me like my dad does, or that im going to give them a bad attitude.I not a fat girl, im not ugly, and i have friends at school i have just been put down on by a male. What can i do to get over this?

thanks for reading.

2007-01-05 18:04:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my brother just told me to do this so plz help tell him the answer...thanks alot.

2007-01-05 17:56:21 · 9 answers · asked by Xundead_assasinX 1

Ok, Just to get right into my story and question.

My daughters boyfriend, 20, has recently got a little apartment that my daughter ,17, stays at once in a while. They have a one year old little boy.

I got a call the other night while I was at work, it was around 3am from a cop asking to come and get my grandson that my daughter and her boyfriend were going to jail for demesic violence.

Seems they got into an agrument and preceeded to beat the crap out of each other.

Not an excuse but the baby was in the other room and never woke up. The neighbors called the cops.

So, I lock up at work and run over, By the time I get there the cop has made a phone call and a local case worker has said that my daughter and grandson can come home with me, cause of her age and the case worker knows her and me and knows I work midnights and if i am takin care of the baby it is hard, so she was trying to be nice.

2007-01-05 17:56:00 · 15 answers · asked by LadyCatherine 7

how dangerous r they? i was chatting online w a virtual counselor and she said that there was windsotrm therere and we mite get disconnected. i made her wait a little bit b4 she said that to go 2 the abtroom. she left cuz i told her it'd b ok if she did. help!!

2007-01-05 17:54:44 · 2 answers · asked by the5500 2

2007-01-05 17:53:24 · 10 answers · asked by saau2003 3

I am 13 and get spanked by my parents. For minor stuff its usually over my pants but for really bad stuff its pants down or naked. I am usually spanked standing up unless I struggle and then its in whatever position my mom or dad can get to my butt. They always spank with their hand.

I usually get spanked for direct defiance, sassing my parents or being rude. Sometimes I get spanked for not taking a bath or having dirty underwear which is really embarassing. After those spankins, I always have to take a bath too. I am usually sent to bed after my spankin no matter what time it is and I always cry myself to sleep.

I always cry during and after a spankin and my butt is usually sore for a while. My dads spankins are the worst. He can make my butt glow red like a firetruck and burn like a fire.

2007-01-05 17:37:25 · 8 answers · asked by aaab 1

so I'm at the gym today enjoying the steam room when this guys walks in to the wet area (it's an area in the men's locker room where the steam room, sauna, whirlpool and showers are located) with his 4 year old daughter!
Now keep in mind this is the men's locker room -- in a very large - very busy gym. In this part of the locker room nobody has on anything except maybe a towel.
He (the father) strolls in butt-***-naked. The kid was in a bathing suit. You should've seen the guys scramble! It was so uncomfortable. What really got me was that the father took a nice long hot tub while the kid stood around and asked "why don't you all have your swimsuits on?"!!!
I don't have kids but I think this is outrageous. Parents is this normal?

2007-01-05 17:33:55 · 21 answers · asked by Nate C 1

All i wanted to do was go to my grandma's house to do my homework but my parents didnt want to take me. i couldnt concentrate on doing my work thats why i asked. i was upset so i went to my room and i thrw my books on the ground, then my stepdad came in and demanded my cell, ipod, and told me i wasnt alowed to do to my winter formal that i have been talking about for the last couple of months. My younger brother was being far worse today( was talking back and cursing!!!) and he had nothing said to him.[BUMMER] i am just so mad but seriously what do i do. I really want to go to the dance. And i want my cell phone and ipod back as well.

2007-01-05 17:33:23 · 9 answers · asked by Angeleyes171 1

2007-01-05 17:31:44 · 8 answers · asked by Jasmine 1

2007-01-05 17:27:38 · 22 answers · asked by George J 2

I am always at home lately because I have winter break and my brother uses my truck for his work. My other brother thinks he is the best person in the world and that we are all blessed to have him around (at least he acts like he thinks that). He used to "pat" my butt saying that it was for good luck, like the football players. He does that with all his friends and them to him, so he thinks its normal. I would get mad and punch him in the arm...for good luck. He got the point and stopped, but now he scares me. He hides around a corner or sneaks up on me and screams at the top of his lungs. At first it wasn't so bad, but now he does it so often that I chase him and punch him in the arms and such. He continues to do that, untill he has work to do. Now I get mad if he is anywhere around me because he makes weird faces and stands there and annoys me. If I don't blow up, he will walk away, just to scare me. If that doesn't get me mad, he does other things to annoy me.

2007-01-05 17:24:28 · 15 answers · asked by Will Bleed For Kicks 3

My sister and I?
My sister asked a question about runescape and I dont even play that and she asked if " any body has a profile thats giving for free.. And everybody blamed on me like and said these mean things...she likes asking questions and answering them.. But you know sometimes... I understand at some point..
I asked her if she knew if she was on my profile... But if she saw my picture ( me being a girl looking really different ), How would she be able to know she's on the wrong profile.?.. I am really bad solving these questions lol.. Is there even any way?]
I understand it was by accident but I still want her to know she wont do it again.
Please do not say mean things...
Thank you :)

2007-01-05 17:22:22 · 4 answers · asked by sarah 4

There is a lot of history between my sister and I. Suffice it to say that we don't like the other and I am fine with this.
I have ALWAYS put these issues aside when a family crisis has occured. We have not spoken in over two years during which I have tried twice to be there for her and was hung up on.On Sunday she took our mother to the ER and left a message with no other info. I went to the hospital (40 mile drive), got in the room and she did not say one word to me about what was going on. She is a nurse and has the medical power of attorney for mom. Since then, she has not called my family to tell us how she is. Today I found out through a friend that she has put her in a home. We don't live near by and I've no way of finding anything out except through her. We are scared about my mom and I am PISSED at my sister for her behavior. Am I wrong to expect some maturity on her part? She has also let my mom know that she is not talking to us which can't be helping my mom's health.

2007-01-05 17:10:54 · 4 answers · asked by pollywog 3

Like most 40yr old men who live in the basement of their parent's house.... I dont enjoy going shopping for clothes with my grandmother. She made me go out and buy some new clothes at wal mart when i had a bad bout with explosvie diarrhea (spastic/erratic bowels and sudden oily discharge). While i was trying on some new pants in the wal mart changing room i was hit by a spastic bowel attack. I cleaned up the mess with the clothes i had in the changing room and they made my grandmother purchase all the clothes that were stained and tainted. I nnow have $500 worth clothes spattered with fecal matter and most of them dont fit! what can i do to gain my grandmother's trust back ?

2007-01-05 17:01:20 · 6 answers · asked by downclover 3

2007-01-05 17:00:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a question. ok one of my class mates from my former high school class, well see him and his girlfriend been going out for 4 months and they got back together llike in december & like he has
nt been talking to her for a while. he's not happy and like she put this comment on his myspace and posted her first name and last name. i'm not being in his business but i feel bad for her. because 1. she dresses like a ho she had a picture of herself a while back wearing a ligurie outfit covering her private part. 2. she tells him she loves him sometimes he does'nt resond back oftenly.

2007-01-05 17:00:28 · 3 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1

Ok, my mom just got her 2nd job today. Now she works from like 7am till 2pm at a Dry Cleaners and lik 3-9 at a deli. My dad just sits in his room playing games ALL DAY! We lost everything in Katrina, after Katrina AND before Katrina my dad had a job so i know he can work. My mom uses the excuse that he "had a stroke" which he did. But if he worked after he had the stroke and had no problems why cant he do it now ? Or atleast help around the house or something. maybe im being inconsiderate but i believe if he can play video games, drive, and work on his car he can work. Its making me mad at him like all the time, and i hate it :\ i dont like being mad. Should i feel differently ? Am i being inconsiderate Im 15yrs old.

2007-01-05 16:54:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Looking for a cute idea of how to tell my mom and dad they are going to be grandparents, this is an expecialy special ocasion because my dad is very sick with cancer, has been fighting it for 2 years now. He said just the other day that he would like to see a grandchild before he (no good way to say it) dies.

I am a little concered about the affect on the baby and I, if something should happen to him, the emotional upset etc? any suggestions on either topic.

Excue my spelling :-)

(we are pretty certin were expecting, of course we wont tell them until we are sure, going to get a blood test to confirm)

2007-01-05 16:49:26 · 5 answers · asked by Katy 4

2007-01-05 16:47:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My in=laws forgot my daughters birthday. I was very upset about it, she turned 2, i sent them pictures from her 2nd birthday and even the invitation to her birthday party, even though I know they couldnt come. Should I saw something, its almost a month later, and if so, what should I say? I dont want to be rude, but I dont want it to happen again?
Thanks!!

2007-01-05 16:33:02 · 14 answers · asked by etrombetta41402 1

My uncle is missing and I am very worried but
we think he committed suicide.
He lost a daughter ( my cousin) in the summer.
He left his wallet and money @ home.
He took his company car.
I live in Winfield,KS.
Pls give me advice .
He has been missing for 2 days.
Police have not found him!
HELP!

2007-01-05 16:29:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, I told my dad the other day that I will be moving out this summer on my own so I can be closer to college but mainly for the reason that I feel that it is the right thing to do. See, I noticed I have a problem in making decisions and following through with them, I'm too complacement at my parent's house, I'm at a good age to move out (23), and want to start learning about life even if it will give me rainy or sunny days. I know I will stress w/ bills, lonliness, and just juggling school w/ work and my personal life. My dad said, "If you move out, you will be devoured!" That kind of hurt me...did he mean that I will fail? He told me the reality is harsh. I have been kind of worried lately because I know I'll be lonely living by myself since I'm so use to living w/ my family...I don't need to prove to my dad I can do it...but I am a bit scared? Is that normal?

2007-01-05 16:20:40 · 8 answers · asked by bettyboop 2

also should i tell my parents or no??

2007-01-05 16:20:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My younger sister (by 4 yrs) is turning 40 next wk. She will be at work, in a busy hospital ER, at the registration desk. I really want to do something to call attention to her 40th birthday - she'd gorgeous, in great shape, very active, and has teased me for years about being the older sister. She is trying to downplay it. Now it's my turn! What can I do that won't be too over the top to get her in trouble? I see her there a lot because I am a paramedic. Oh - she will become a grandmother in April. Her coworker said not to send dead or black flowers - the hospital frowns on that, for some strange reason. Any ideas?

2007-01-05 16:19:33 · 10 answers · asked by Deedee 4

2007-01-05 16:19:12 · 2 answers · asked by StrawBerry 1

All i wanted to do was go to my grandma's house to do my homework but my parents didnt want to take me. i couldnt concentrate on doing my work thats why i asked. i was upset so i went to my room and i thrw my books on the ground, then my stepdad came in and demanded my cell, ipod, and told me i wasnt alowed to do to my winter formal that i have been talking about for the last couple of months. My younger brother was being far worse today( was talking back and cursing!!!) and he had nothing said to him.[BUMMER] i am just so mad but seriously what do i do. I really want to go to the dance. And i want my cell phone and ipod back as well.

2007-01-05 16:18:48 · 9 answers · asked by Angeleyes171 1

I live in missouri, he needs it to get a new license and I can't seem to figure out what I need to do. Any help or pointers would be great thanks.

2007-01-05 16:17:45 · 1 answers · asked by SpOoKyNuTz 1

My mum has these two friends they are drugys and they steal recently me and sum frends got into a fight wid them cuz they cause so much trouble and then there is my brother he isnt related we just say he is he is 20 im 16 he hits me and treats me like crap he is friends with the 2 drugys to my mum has chosen them 3 over me i have no were to go no income nothing all my family is in a differant state i dont think its fair she has done this she is an x alchaholic so i have put up with abuse and had to practicaly raise my 4 younger siblings im 16 and i been thru all this now im homeless i need soem opinions help please !!!!

2007-01-05 16:11:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous