Family - January 2007

Or if you are not a parent (yet), how 'alternative' were your parents?
Not that i've got a ready definition of alternative so decide for yourselves how to interpret it.

2007-01-05 10:07:17 · 15 answers · asked by Part Time Cynic 7

My husband and my mom went in on our house together, my mom put money down hubby put mortgage in his name. From the begining without being asked my mom told us we could claim the house on our taxes, now she changed her mind. My mom lives off social security so if she claims the house on her taxes she won't get anything, now she wants us to split it with her. I feel like we are entiteld to keep it all any advice?

2007-01-05 09:53:35 · 7 answers · asked by Jenna24 2

Do you come home too tired to make the housework and attend the children?
Do you go to work too tired because of your housework?

2007-01-05 09:48:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad was adopted when he was lil and im trying to locate his family and i dunno where to start

2007-01-05 09:42:11 · 7 answers · asked by heather 1

same thing..whats for dinner...and we cant agree on any thing..its driving me nuts..

2007-01-05 09:32:45 · 4 answers · asked by Kingofreportedabuse 3

can my sister and i pull our mother out of a nursing home even though she gave our older sister power of attorney. my mom has a little dimention excuse spelling and altimers.

2007-01-05 09:32:20 · 6 answers · asked by lfishel46 1

Father is not involved so that is not an option.

2007-01-05 09:28:02 · 7 answers · asked by beki101165 2

I am trying to find out how i go about getting power of eterny from my grandfather who is very sick and slowly going a bit ga-ga and i have no idea how i go about it because he lives in a home and i am worried that someone will take advantage of his state of mind.

2007-01-05 09:27:16 · 8 answers · asked by vodkaberries 1

My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years and been together for 3 years. My husband parents have been divorced for a long time. My father in law seemed to like me when we where dating but shortly after my husband and I got married he started telling my husband that I had been hanging out a lot with my brother in laws and a gay cousin this is true. He accused me of cheating on my husband with my brother in laws and gay cousin and called me a whore. My husband wasn't home at the time he was deployed I could see how that came across in a bad way...but come on they are my Brother in laws. Anyway I later learned that my father in law and his other siblings didn't agree of anyone that wasn't there own blood. 2 of my brother in laws are not blood related they are my husband step brothers. All of my husband’s family except my 3 brother in laws and one uncle and aunt and cousin and mother in law are the only ones that really talk to us.

2007-01-05 09:25:26 · 3 answers · asked by LuLu 3

This family member always has to have center of attention no matter what family function is going on. This person is loud sometimes. It seems like they do it deliberitly to take off the spot from someone to them.

2007-01-05 09:21:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my mom very much, but sometimes she wants me to live like my brother. Me and my brother have always been very different. One she has always acts like, she likes my brother more than me and has always had him in a high pedal stool. When it comes to me she always wants me to act like i am the danzal in distress, always wants me to depend on my husband, and everything i do in life is sometimes not good enough for her. This weekend I wanted to travel up and my mom started to nag me on how dangerous it is to go by myself, so I ended up not wanting to go. Should I stop telling my mom so much of my life? Should i tell her the way I feel? I avoid telling her what i feel because I do not want to make her feel bad or I dont want to disrespect her. I love her very much and i wish I can be half the mother that she was to me. what should I do?

2007-01-05 09:21:48 · 9 answers · asked by ivonne 2

hes so lazy.

2007-01-05 09:19:44 · 5 answers · asked by sugarpie 3

My mother and i lived with my grandmother for a year then we moved out because my mom wanted her and i to live with her boyfriend. The fight wasn't because of that it was because just my mother and her mother didnt get along. You see, my grandmother is old and old people COULD get mean but come on it;s ur own mother for goodness sake! I'm only 15 then 14 and 13 i shouldnt be in this situation where my mother doesnt want me to see my grandmother but i believe that it's right and i go see her anyway behind my mothers back because once i DO tell her she gets upset and has a "talk" with me of how evil my grandmother is. I love my family and i think it's the most important thing in life and i dont want to brake it up. Everything is always on me and i'm starting to brake down. WHat should i do?

2007-01-05 09:09:16 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa F 1

how come people can tell a girl she's skinny but you can't tell a fat girl that she's fat. i don't understand that.

2007-01-05 09:02:42 · 8 answers · asked by Gorgeous 3

2007-01-05 08:54:28 · 21 answers · asked by Cami 1

lately I ve been home cause I had a baby 1 year ago. And I didn't go back to work . therefore I have all this time on hands. And lack of Social life. I see kids all day.. Not any real adult converstation. I've been like this for a year now. I want to get out of this rut I'm in. and get back in the swing of things. But my brain is lazy. And I can barely do normal task through out the day. Can you relate.

2007-01-05 08:53:13 · 12 answers · asked by Sassy M 1

He had a gf before he married my sister (they just celebrated their 10 year anniversary). He has kept in touch with the ex at some point or the other, they call on each other's birthday (not regular) and he even wanted to introduce the two to each other. She is still single and my sister has no idea what her number is to track it on his cell phone.
I've had ex-s too (am married now) and beyond idle curiosity I would not want to pursue a friendship, so why would he? He works night shift and comes home to shower every morning so she cant tell if he's been upto anything. I am deeply disturbed for my sis, who whole heartedly believes its all above board.
He is a devoted father and while he and my sis have their fair share of fights he has a lot of morals and values, dont know if he is capable of this though. I was just wondering if his behaviour sounds suspcious to you? What do you feel?

2007-01-05 08:51:40 · 15 answers · asked by RealChic 3

when my mom tells her to eat her dinner she says "NO"! OR SOMETHING ELSE LIKe tht

2007-01-05 08:41:01 · 6 answers · asked by bradi12 2

Khazia (Kuhziyah) the i makes the i sound not the e sound
Quadir (Kwadir) the i makes the e sound

2007-01-05 08:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Mizz.Purdy♥ 2

If you are the middle child.do you like it? i do not becuse the answer to me is NO and the answer to my older brother and younger sister the answer is always YES. I hate my life. Everything revolves around them> I HATE IT.
if you are the middle child and you do not like it please tell me your story.

2007-01-05 08:32:26 · 5 answers · asked by bigtommywommy 2

long story short: my dads a druggie who stole money from our family. he would disappear for days and empty the bank account. Theres been other women, lies, secret loans, jobs hes lost. My mom during all this, didnt have a job. she couldnt cuz she coulndt garentee hed be home for her 2 kids. so she had no choice. since she had no income and had no family or friedns anymore that could help her, she was stuck. even though he was an @$$, she still cleaned his laudnry, made his dnner etc. Now hes in AA. AA taught him that what he did wasnt his fault. that it was an addictio and my mom made it worse. Now he does everything behind our back. hes gone all day. he doesnt let her touch the money he spends it "places were it needs to go". hes more secretive than ever. he doesnt feel empthay for what he does. My mom got a job, but it doesnt pay much. The other day we found out he opened secret bank account. we feel....

2007-01-05 08:32:04 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley W 3

Ok, my mom told me she's taking me to a child physcyatrist. But I don't need one. She came into my room one day and I was listening to Bullet for my Valentine, and wearing a black shirt with black jeans. She must think I'm going goth or something but I'm not. It's just who I am ok? I've been to them before, but they've always gotten mad at me and kicked us out. She's worried about me for no reason! And it's really annoying. How can I tell her there's nothing wrong with me?

2007-01-05 08:08:13 · 14 answers · asked by NinjaSquirrel 5

I was 4 months pregnant & staying with my parents after my husband threw me out when I discovered he was doing drugs again. I had lost 1 of the twins I was carrying & I was under alot of emotional distress. I woke up 1 morning not well. I was on overload and felt something wasn't right. I feared I would lose my 2nd baby that day. I needed peace & quiet, a calm environment to rest & relax. I called my mother who had spent the night at my sis's house 2 ask if they (sis & hubby & 5 kids) could postpone their visit,but it was like she couldn't hear me.She kept saying "but you were fine yesterday & of course we are all coming 2 the house today". I broke down,got off the phone & booked a hotel room.Dad forbid me 2 go & be alone,so he called mom & told her the visit was cancelled. Mom came home 12 hrs later & didn't even ask how I was. She ignored me,as if I had done something to her. Mom didn't tell sis I wasn't well, so she thinks "I ruined their plans". Don't trust mom anymore & never will

2007-01-05 07:58:11 · 10 answers · asked by ­Das  2

My mother died about 5 years ago, it has always been in my parents will, that us 3 kids would receive the house. My father decided to sell the house and buy a condo, the difference between the sale of the house and the purchase of the condo was suppose to be spilt between us three kids. One of my brothers bought the house and my father loaned the money from the difference of the sale of the house and the purchase of the condo to buy the house to this brother, who after three years has paid a very small amount back. I have made plea's to my family, I do not think my brother could afford the house, I am really in need of that partial inheritence for things in my own life, believe if I wasn't I would not be pursing this. I am seriously considering getting a lawyer, pro bono. I have asked my father for any paperwork and he never replied, my father is great, but he is not stepping forward to ask my brother to pay the money back, and I am in serious need. Next step?

2007-01-05 07:56:57 · 9 answers · asked by tk 1

My son a ver sensitive little boy and kids have been picking on him lately at school. Last few years he didn't have problems like this. I am going to the school almost every couple off weeks and talking to the principle teacher, dean and even the parent of a kid that was hitting my son to get them to control the kids.
I am really fed up with those kids and it didn't used to be like this. I am looking into another school for him and I do hate moving him in the middle of the year. He won't be there for sure next year. And when the problem arises it is usually at recess and not in his classroom. The recess is out of control and they even had to stop it for a week.
He has been physically hurt but his feelings are hurt more by them teasing him.
Do yout hink I am being overprotective or am I right to march up there when they act up?
I just don't want him to be too dependent on me to bail him out of all bad circumstances.

2007-01-05 07:51:37 · 11 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6

not all children are the same. some are as responsible as an adult. if a kid is 15 years old does good in school, woould never think of ahveing sex shouldn't he have the right and get others respect to watch porn? he is more responsible than some adults...

2007-01-05 07:48:13 · 17 answers · asked by Adam S 1

I'm bad with doing things slyly. Basically, a person needs to call me at a certain time. I can choose the time. However, I need to be away from my parents and siblings (Mom, Dad, brother and sister) while I take the call.

Normally I would do it at school, except I'm on Christmas holidays. I'm being very vague, I know. Does anyone have any ideas on how I keep this phone-call from my parents/siblings?

2007-01-05 07:44:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my hubby live with his brother,, we have 2 kids
we are very young, so his brother decided to help us out, while we get our **** straight..ne ways we both work for him he has a company,im his secretery and his brother is his foreman,, the house we live in was put on foreclosure, he hasnt paid the house in 4 months he ows about 28,00!!!! and we had no idea we were still paying the rent,and he is still asking us!?to pay..!his company is suffering right know? we are going to be left without a job! i have a 2 month old and a 2 year old? i dont know what to do?we cant get our own place even if we wanted to,, he has bad credit?im just so stressed out i do not want to be in the streets with my kids!!!!!!
i have no family to go to..??????

2007-01-05 07:40:24 · 3 answers · asked by junkinmytrunk 1

we adopted my little cousion because her mom did not want her anymore and now she is asking all kinds of question what should we say??/

2007-01-05 07:35:11 · 10 answers · asked by i ♥ Javon!!! 1

2007-01-05 07:30:13 · 1 answers · asked by wisdom 3