not all children are the same. some are as responsible as an adult. if a kid is 15 years old does good in school, woould never think of ahveing sex shouldn't he have the right and get others respect to watch porn? he is more responsible than some adults...
2007-01-05 07:48:13 · 17 answers · asked by Adam S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well... Im sure its natural for him to want to see what its all about. I asked my husband about this, and he said he saw his first one when he was 12 at a friends house.
2007-01-05 07:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Responsibility has nothing to do with his ability to fathom the often misrepresented sexual attitudes that are portrayed on tape. There are many things he would not be able to understand and there are many more things he would have no business knowing. There are myriad things in porn that the majority of adults have a hard time accepting let alone a child!
He will have plenty of time to learn the nuances of sex but you have to give him the opportunity to learn these things a his own pace and within natural bounds. Don't force the issue or you will have a maladjusted adult in the future!
2007-01-05 07:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough to answer. Theres a few things to consider.
1. First and honestly, most guy start looking at porno at that age,
it is natural to be curious, horny and all the things that young men go through.
2. Porno as a whole is pretty unrealistic and if the kid doesnt have a counterbalance of good parents who let him know what the difference between sex and making love is, he can get some pretty warped ideas.
3. Too much of anything can be unhealthy (be it food, dieting or sex).
It's your job if your the parent, to look out for his psyche and emotional state, and at the same time allow him some personal time to figure out sex and all that goes with it.
I'd say have a very open and caring conversation with him about sex, let him know the dangers and beauty of it, and how it's best enjoyed in a loving relationship. I would NOT encourage him to look at porno or provide him with any. At the same time if he happens to find some on his own or you come across his "stash" I wouldnt freak out either. Open conversation is the best way to handle this. Im sure things will work out.
Best wishes.
2007-01-05 07:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys will be boys and this question proves it. No matter how great the boy is in every aspect of everyday life, the teen boy has hormones raging. All teen boys look at magazines and if available porn. To say it is Immoral who are we to judge? If you think you like to look at naked girls, or naked guys? then that is your personal business and why do you need our approval to allow this curiosity? If the kid was 12,13,14, I would have more concern. At 15, 16 and all the way up to almost dead, men like their porn. So, stop judging others needs or if it is you we are talking about, stop asking for permission. Its your sex life and yours alone.
Tracylyn
2007-01-05 08:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh man.
Look when I was 15 if I had internet access (or if there was an internet) I would have wanted nothing more than to get off on it all the time.
However
As a parent it is your job to keep it appropriate. The child is a minor and your responsibility.
Not to mention it is likely "contributing to deliquency of a minor" and "sexual interference". You could find yourself in jail.
2007-01-05 07:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gotta be kidding me! Porn is for adults and adults only!
Until he is 18 then he shouldn't watch it. His mind is still growing and that sort of content should not be allowed in it. It can seriously F*** with his head and his views on women.
2007-01-05 08:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Hey Ya'll 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Chances are he's already seen porn an a lot of it. It's a natural thing just instruct him where and where not to view it.
2007-01-05 07:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't watch porn. Watching porn is the same as having sex. It doesn't matter how responsible he is, watching porn isn't responsible. It could ruin his life. Do you want that?
2007-01-05 07:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by dragon_girl441 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get others respect? Are you crazy? There is no 'right' to watch porn. It dehumanises and desensitises people. If you are referring to yourself you are obviously not mature enough. There is good reason porn is not supposed to be viewed by juveniles.
2007-01-05 07:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No.. it limits him to think correctly about how women really are. He needs to get in there and practice not look and expect all women to follow that path. Even though my child brought a red wagon full of collectable playboys.. I held them and gave them to him on his 18th birthday..I kept my word.. I would keep them for him.
2007-01-05 07:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋