Family - January 2007

So our maid was accused of stealing by my mother. Don't get me wrong, but our maid is really nice and she wouldn't steal a penny.

Now my mom, right now I just want to hurt her because everytime she loses money, she accuses our maid. There was even a time she accused me, but I DIDN'T steal her money. Then there was this time where she accused my cousin, maid and other maid for stealing and it turns out the money was in her bag all along.

Now today, 2 people could have been the suspect. My cousin (mom's fave) and our maid. But the only person she's suspecting is our maid, and our maid even started sobbing because she really didn't do it. And I KNOW you really couldn't trust my cousin, but my mom doesn't know that...

What will you say to your mom if you were in a situation like this? What words will you say to slap some sense to your mom and make her REALLY FEEL SORRY for what she did?

2007-01-04 23:13:49 · 7 answers · asked by Galadriel 3

2007-01-04 23:07:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just wonder. I'm tickling my mother. I was 10 yrs. old. But my mother hardly laughed. Can you tell me why?

2007-01-04 22:05:38 · 8 answers · asked by Miksha-kun 2

2007-01-04 21:54:34 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter wants to have a party with about 10 or 15 friends. I will be supervising. She asked if it would be ok for my boyfriend (he lives with us) to take his 2 younger children, ages 7 & 9, out for pizza or to a movie etc. so she can have her party without the little ones bothering her and her friends. His kids come to visit every weekend, and this is the first time she has ever asked for some privacy. Since this is a very special birthday, do you think its ok to ask him to take his kids out for a while? I know if I had small kids of my own in the house I would make other arrangements for them on the night of the party to go somewhere else. My bf is extremely offended and is angry that my daughter would suggest such a thing. Now I am stuck in the middle between ruining my daughters birthday party, and getting my bf angry with me. What should I do? Do you think he should understand and take his kids out to have some fun for a few hours while my daughter has her party?

2007-01-04 21:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

a while back I got very drunk and ended up sleeping with a girl I knew from the past who was always easy and I knew was available whenever I wanted. Unfortunately I did this while my girlfriend was away on holiday and it was in our house so I feel terrible. The thing is I can't even remember most of it as I was so drunk I didn't know what I was doing and felt sick for 3 days after. I don't even like this girl at all and had told her to leave me alone many times but she always persisted in sending cards, messages etc and when I was drunk and alone I suddenly thought it was a good idea to do what I did. I have told her to not come near the house , me or my girlfriend or she will be very sorry and she has said yes and I haven't heard from her since. I regret this deeply, am very happy with my girlfriend and live with her still and I just feel like she doesn't need to know cos why should she get hurt if it meant nothing to me at all and I was weak and drunk. The guilt gets to me sometimes.

2007-01-04 21:19:22 · 13 answers · asked by deltanova 1

My brother is 9 years oldr then me and I wanted a better relationship(we where never close but very nice(birthdays,get togethers)so I wrote him and he sent me a letter back saying he wanted nothing to do with me or the family and wont say why except after 10 years of embarrasing situations he had enough,.He was a cop in our town and my husband and I had a few fights early inour marriage plus my daughter was raped and he was the case leader.I think he is worried more about his image then his family(me).I tried inviting him and his family for christmas no response again..I dont even know what I did?

2007-01-04 21:06:20 · 8 answers · asked by karen e 2

My brother is 9 years oldr then me and I wanted a better relationship(we where never close but very nice(birthdays,get togethers)so I wrote him and he sent me a letter back saying he wanted nothing to do with me or the family and wont say why except after 10 years of embarrasing situations he had enough,.He was a cop in our town and my husband and I had a few fights early inour marriage plus my daughter was raped and he was the case leader.I think he is worried more about his image then his family(me)should I persue him over the next few months.I tried inviting him and his family for christmas no response again..I dont even know what I did?

2007-01-04 21:02:22 · 7 answers · asked by karen e 2

2007-01-04 20:51:45 · 7 answers · asked by raniel 2

my motherinlaw & myself have equal love towards my husband, this love is creating lot of problem in the house.tell me the good solution for this problem.hearing towards my motherinlaw my husband is always irritating me without understanding my position.guide me what to do for this.

2007-01-04 20:31:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been raped many many times and i was kidnapped wen i was 7 months old and was found wen i was 12 i then was kidnapped AGAIN SAME PERSON wen i was 13 and held hostage in iraq and found wen i was 16 and hardly no my parents bcoz they r in jail i am 17 shood i die?

2007-01-04 19:53:01 · 18 answers · asked by Proffesor??? No Way!!! 1

I let him keep the thong of course, but should I keep my panties hidden from him, or should I just tell my parents what he has done. Are there any men out there that have stolen panties? (It doesn't matter who they were stolen from) And what happend, I'm really worried that my brother may have a crush on me.

2007-01-04 19:24:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents were going to get divorced 3 years ago, but my dad said that he would change. Not to long ago, I was in my dad's office and I found a porn video. if I tell my mom about it she won't believe me because she's co-dependant and she'll listen to whatever my dad tells her. My 31 year old sister has tried to tell her a long time ago but she wouldn't listen. My dad just got mad at her. If I tell her, I'll just get in trouble for being in my dad's office. I don't want to get in trouble and have my dad's lie trick my mom what should I do!! (I'm 12)

and my dad is mean, all i want is them to be divorced, so my mom doesn't get hurt(emotionally) and so that he doesn;t hurt the rest of my family anymore(emotionally)

p.s. My older sister broke the dvd.

2007-01-04 18:43:54 · 12 answers · asked by ≈[Łąūřėņ]≈™ 2

ive done everything to get them to support me, respect me and be there for me and they dont show that to me and that pisses me off and im planning to leave my family and live on my own and ive been raising myself and have more life experiences than my family do, they are very self centered and judge too much. i just had it and really fed up, do yu think i should leave my family or what?? i have a bf and hes there for me but the problem is that hes leavin in 2 months for basic training for the army for 25 weeks and i will have no one to go to when im in need and how can i learn to depend on myself and not on others?? pls help meout

2007-01-04 18:30:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My older brother and I are really close. He is like my best friend and he has a new gf and he is totaly blowing me off but expects me to be there for him. Its not as if im complaining to him because im trying really hard to be happy for him because he really loves his gf. But it still hurts alot. I try ignoreing him but it doesnt work. He also lives in cali and I live over 1,000 miles away and we havent seen each other in a long time. When I say blow off I mean doesnt ever talk to me on im,doesnt call, doesnt email. When I was having problems last November he didnt even come and see me. Am I just complaining or is something really wrong here?

2007-01-04 18:06:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know your supposed to love your mom. But what if she tells you in her own words exactly:
I don't love you anymore! I think your a mistake. I wish Jessi was born.
(my mom had been sick while she had a baby she sadly lost her)
Then she had me! I feel lucky everyday. But I feel obviously don't want to be born.

2007-01-04 17:28:23 · 3 answers · asked by Princess 2

with my gfs mom a few days ago, and I feel real guilty cause her mom peer pressured me into it, I feel so guilty about it, I'm going to be honest to my gf though shell leave me for such a bad thing I have done is there anyway I can keep her before I hang myself in my bathroom?

2007-01-04 17:25:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

like dirt they have done since i was a couple of years old. i got a blood brother at 10. since then everything has gone more down hill. he is allowed to sleep on the couch not go to school. i get yelled at for his viruses. he gets bought something atleast every second day, from junk food to video games. my parents dont tell me what is going on money etc. parents have never really spoken to me other than to yell at me for doing something wrong. they have not encouraged me to do anything with my life or any little goals chores etc. brother sits on computer all day and my parents speak to him nicely and create conversations. parents wonder why i am so """uptight" brother doesnt even make himself a drink my father gets it for him and takes it to him. brother asks he gets right away(drop everything for him) i maybe 24 but my parents have never communicated with me other than create an arguement then they call the police. i have had 1 girlfriend of 3 years i dont have any self esteem

2007-01-04 17:23:10 · 8 answers · asked by luckydo6 3

Or did you wish you weren't in that spot at that time ??
Next year I advised everyone we will be in DisneyLand so don't look for me, i'll be with Mickey and Goofy

2007-01-04 17:19:07 · 5 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2

i got into a huge fight with my mom and we havent talked in a week, and i've been in my room this whole time. i'm horrible with apologies, so what should i do?

2007-01-04 17:18:34 · 7 answers · asked by lady 2

My oldest of our four children, Jessica will be turning 18 on the 28th of this month and she wanted to have her party at the bowling alley and invite a bunch of her friends from school and family too. I felt like it wasn't special enough and wanted to do something better but have NO idea(s).
(We can't go all out money-wise since we are still recovering from Christmas.)
Any ideas would be welcome even if we can't do what might be suggested on her actual birthday, maybe we can make up for it later on.

2007-01-04 17:11:24 · 10 answers · asked by LS 4

2007-01-04 16:58:18 · 11 answers · asked by mia v. 2

Has anyone used a really good site that is free, or mostly free, to help them locate missing relatives? I have a half brother and all I know about him is his approximate age and his first name, and obviously his father's name. I've tried reunion.com with no avail. Any website suggestion is greatly appreciated. Thanks!

2007-01-04 16:57:07 · 5 answers · asked by Heidi 4

Anyone know where to go from here, I have looked on every website & the statet of Michigan claim that they cannot locate anything. Thanks

2007-01-04 16:29:06 · 3 answers · asked by erica t 2

My little brother loves to play with dolls. He'd rather do that then trucks, or other little boy stuff. He's 8 - is that normal?

2007-01-04 16:28:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that my future mother-in-law is telling my fiancee that I'm very spoiled. I'm not sure about what she means because I am very grateful for what my parents have helped me with. I'm still a college student and my folks give me a couple of hundred a month, plus pay for my car (a deal my dad and I made if I got a scholarship to college). I work part time to pay for rent and extras and work hard to get mostly A's with a few B's for grades in a tough academic situation. His parents are hard working from a farming community. They paid for his $150 insurance payment for the month of December and called that his Christmas present.

Do you think that being spoiled is measured by the amount of money a person has? Or, is being spoiled defined by how a person acts and treats other people? How should I handle this situation:

Many Thanks

2007-01-04 16:23:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please don't judge. Messed up things like this can happen to anybody.
But I recently (finally) told my mother that my drunk abusive father molested me when I was 16 (now I'm 18). She was mad at me for not saying anything when it happened (but I was scared so cut me some slack, who wants to admit thier own father did this?). But that's it. She hasn't done anything about it. We're still living with my father....she knows I hate him. When I try to talk to her about it, like if she's going to press charges ect. she acts like she doesn't know what I'm talking about.
...WHAT SHOULD I DO??
And if you're going to tell me to go to the police will they actually listen to me since I'm just a teenager? And what do I say to them? I also have a little sister that I'm so worried about...I don't want her tossed in foster care.

I really want to move in with a relative of mine becuase i don't want to live here anymore...but i know if i do my mother will hate me........and i'm such a chicken..

2007-01-04 16:16:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-04 16:02:54 · 10 answers · asked by samdkd 1

I gave birth to my first son 10/4/92. I hemmoraged from placento abrupto. I was on morphine for ten days. I was sent home with my precious baby with mega drug refills. I became hooked on hydrocodine which is my own fault. I began calling in my own refills acking like I was a nurse. I am appauled at my behavior but because of this I have been on probation for 14 years. It's killing me. I'm due to get of in 07 but this probation thing has taking a big time toll on my life. I have tried two times to get out of this world...didn't work. I really need some help but not pitty. Who do I talk to?

2007-01-04 15:53:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is just $20.

2007-01-04 15:49:34 · 8 answers · asked by Tha Most Shady 3