Family - January 2007

Thank you for all the responses I have gotten so far. To answer some of your questions about his son and him thinking I am taking to long, he is 21 years old and he does have things already. Right after he made the decision to stop trying to recessitate him, I gave him his fathers cross I was wearing that he had asked me to wear for him since he couldn't while he was hospitalized. I told his son that his dad wanted him to have it and I put it on him. He also has some of the RC Trucks that we had at the funeral on the memorbilia table. He never gave them back to me and I haven't asked for them back. I recently gave him 2 of his fathers guns that had belonged to his grandfather. What he wants is for me to let him pack up all the RC Trucks and parts and just hand them over to him. He thinks he should get all of it and I paid for most of it. I plan to give him some, but not all, as I will need to sell some of it, which he doesn't want me to do. He feels he is intitled to it.

2007-01-04 15:46:15 · 4 answers · asked by fran 1

custody attorneys, paralegals and experts.... help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1?
I have custody of my son, the custody decree specifically says "joint decision making; parenting time reasonable & liberal; petitioner(that's me) primary residenture parent; child to live with petitioner during school year." I had him up until he went to stay the summer with his dad & then at the end of the summer he asked if he could live with his dad. As much as I didn't want him to leave me, I let him try it. By Oct he wanted to live back w/me. I planned to wait and make the exchange during Christmas break so he could at least finish the semester. Then a few days before I was suppose to get him we had a major snow storm and was unable to make the 4 hr. trip to get him. His dad made me sign & notarize a statement saying I would take him back after the break in order to put him on the train. There was no way I could drive over the pass. Will that piece of paper hold up if he brought the cops here? It only says that I will drive him back after the break, nothing specific.

2007-01-04 15:45:22 · 4 answers · asked by Tara F 1

OK so I have a problem. My fiance has two sisters...they both have little girls. I asked the 3year old mother if her daughter would be my flower girl. She said yes. Well about a month later the other sister the one with the 1 year old told me that I hurt her feeling for not asking her daughter to be in it. And she said she was going to get a dress made that looked like the flower girl dresses and her daughter could hand out something. ????......I was really upset about this because she invited her daughter to be in the wedding. I told her that that was fine and that her daughter could hand out something but what could I say??? but Im having second thought.. I couldnt say no when she was right there..I want to tell her sorry I only want the people in the wedding that I have chosen and I dont want your daughter to wear the same dresses as my flower girls but I dont know how to say it. But the woman invited herself to be in it....the little girl cant even walk yet.PLEASE HELP!

2007-01-04 15:42:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

does any one have family members that try to keep you down? every time you come around they ecnore you or try to find some you do wrong. well thats my family when try just say im not coming around any more the blow up phone what should i do

2007-01-04 15:31:56 · 4 answers · asked by raquel j 1

My father and my brother died in November. Although I know they are in a much better place and feel them with me everyday. I miss them so much and cannot get over the saddness that overwelms me. HELP

2007-01-04 15:24:12 · 11 answers · asked by jerseygirl3510 2

I should first say. I'm an adult. I've never been in an accident in my own vehicle OR ran into any object.

I'm visiting family at the moment and borrowed my parents car to go visit my extended family. On my way back, I went to fill their tank back up. There was a concrete pole 2ft off the ground right next to the pump. I took a sharp turn because I didn't see the pole. Well, now they are going to need a new front door and possibly a new back door also.

I feel so guilty. Luckily, this is the end of my trip so I don't have to be around to feel it much longer. They were very understanding. My father joked; "We needed a new door anyway!" I just don't know what to do or say.

Tomorrow I'll be with my mom all day long. I just don't know how to get over the awkward. Any advice?

2007-01-04 15:20:46 · 5 answers · asked by .vato. 6

My Father & I have always and continue to have a wonderful relationship. He will be called home soon and I am looking for guidance and advice on how or if I can prepare myself for this inevitable event.

2007-01-04 15:16:15 · 12 answers · asked by -:¦:-SKY-:¦:- 7

I live with my dad and my younger brothers, 4, 6, and 14. I just found out through his psychologist ( I know its a breech of privacy, but he felt like this was serious enough for me to know) that he, my dad, has been having serious pyschotic thoughts of killing me and my brothers! I have no idea what to do. Should I take my brothers and leave? Should I stay and walk on pins and needles? I'm so confused and hurt right now. I know he's been depressed lately, but this is insane! Please help me out?

2007-01-04 15:14:01 · 7 answers · asked by closer22 1

My mom is an ungrateful b*tch. Whenever I do anything for her she complains. Whenever I complain about how she does things, she gets snappy at me. She says I'm a f****** @$$h0le and not to talk back. Oh, she also has F/AS and her parents died last year. She pisses me off all the f****** time. How the f*** can I put up with this bull? Anyone else have a parent like this? At what age can I get a job? When can I move out?

2007-01-04 15:12:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-04 15:08:50 · 12 answers · asked by Stella d 2

i'm already 20. but my parents seems don't realize that. they think i'm just let's say 5 or 10 y'old girl. how can i be free? i want to be an independent person but they treat me like a lil kid. even i when i go to other city for a week, they act like i'm going for years. gosh! it only take 2.5 hr... 3 hours max to go to that city. how can i move on? help me please!!
p.s. they're so sensitive. i talked to them before and they got disapointed at me.

2007-01-04 14:59:01 · 7 answers · asked by No*Nick 2

If so would you mind sharing some of your experiences, how you coped, do you still talk to them? I'm so sad right now, I feel very alone, I just thought it might make me feel better if I knew other people could relate. Thanks

2007-01-04 14:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

His son thinks that it has been too long for me to go thru his dads stuff and to give him things. I feel that it hasn't been long enough. I feel that I am not ready. I have tried but just can't bring myself to do it. Is there a proper amount of time? We were together for seven years and I love having his things around me, I can't bear to part with them right now.

2007-01-04 14:51:11 · 11 answers · asked by fran 1

Hi all! How do you go about providing foster care to a special needs child who currently lives in a group home for disabled children but isn't legally free for adoption? Can you still provide foster care but not adopt? Or does this make a child only able to live in a group home? I have become very attached to a special needs child I work with at the school I work for. We have really bonded over the last 3 years and I would love to give her a better life.

2007-01-04 14:44:04 · 3 answers · asked by littledeaftink 3

My voice to him in front of his friends,I was trying to tell him it was time to leave.I think i screamed at him.He didn't say anything ,he just said Let's GO ! in a stern voice,as we drove he was quiet and very serious,we got home and his brother was waiting,so we haven't got a chance to talk.Why might he tell me in private ? He's not violent, or unpolite,but what might i expect ??

2007-01-04 14:43:15 · 3 answers · asked by lady F 1

i use to be best friends with a girl i thought was my true friend but she wasnt after we got in a big fight she moved to maine 3 years later..then she moved back (oh joy) then she started a rummer that i toughted my little brothers privite part(EWW) so now everyone belives her ........i cry evey day cuz of the things people say to me
and ......then now i have to sit by her in 1 of my classes

2007-01-04 14:39:21 · 2 answers · asked by Sami F 3

i know in high school you are suppost to get acne but mine is pretty common to me. I have notice when i am not stressed my face has gotton really nice and clear and then the next secound i will have this paper due the next day and i will freak out!! The i will wake up with zits. what can i do not to stress?

2007-01-04 14:27:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It used to be just the mother in law, but, now the sister in law has moved into the same town. It is really hot, a real stinker of a summer, they keep coming over and asking me if they can take my two year old son out for a swim at my mother in laws house. They have not once asked me to come and when they take him, they grin a lot, as if they have gotten away with something...I don't mind them taking him for a swim, as I like to encourage his family to spend time with him. I know they are hiding something, I believe it is a general dislike of me, as they seem to be getting more and more obvious about it...I am getting to the point where I will need to say something, I know my husband will back me up on what ever I decide, but this is about my son. His Nan and Auntie are all he has here, apart from us.

2007-01-04 14:26:44 · 9 answers · asked by Whava 3

My Son and his Ex are fighting over their twin daughters and the mother want to take **** custody of the girls. If she wins she told me that I will never see my granddaughters again. Is there any way that I can get visitation rights to see my granddaughters?

2007-01-04 14:25:18 · 13 answers · asked by KAYLA88 1

My sister is so annoying!Everyday she hits me for no apparent reason, all i did wuz tell her that she wuz wearing nerdy clothes, or wuz talking like a hillbilly.She doesn't know the meaning of cool she just sits there staring in the mirror looking at herself.I've tried to give her advise on how to do stuff but she won't listen.What do I do?

2007-01-04 14:14:40 · 14 answers · asked by yasmin a 2

when my sister goes to bed tonight, how can i trick her(no wip cream and feather trick or hand in water trick)?

2007-01-04 14:09:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby hates it when I am on the computer. Although I am 3 feet away from him, the t..v. is going and I carry on a conversation, he gets attitude when I am on line. It is almost as if he is jealous. Anyone else feel this way?

2007-01-04 14:08:51 · 5 answers · asked by vivib 6

My fiance wants to adopt my daughter but I need to get her father to give up his parental rights and I need to know where I need to start so that I can get the ball rolling?

2007-01-04 14:06:08 · 5 answers · asked by wetterstrom4 2

2007-01-04 13:58:35 · 4 answers · asked by ツ 1

My mother has accumulated a large sum of diamonds and other jewels in her 83 years. We were having a discussion about who she should will them to. She has two daughters and three daughters-in-law. She thinks the d-i-l should have equal shares. I told her that the d-i-l had their own mothers who could will them theirs.

2007-01-04 13:54:54 · 11 answers · asked by Vivian J 1

I just recently moved back home from LA and literally a week after being home my mother was rushed to the hospital. She has COPD, diabetes and heart disease, the three deadly diseases. My mom has been in the hospital now for 2 months and I'm just getting exhausted going there. I feel so guilty not being there every day and I'm starting to give up hope shes going to recover and come home. Is it wrong that I'm not there every day and feeling angry that shes not home with me?

2007-01-04 13:50:05 · 7 answers · asked by layala74 2

My dad was away often (work) and he used to be my only protector. My mum didn't give a **** about her children. She's always sleeping during the day. Was never around. Never cook for us. Never clean the house. I was sick one time and she didn't even bother to give me a medicine. I had to look at the cabinet for it myself. She was always on my dad's face. Playing tennis until late w/ friends without letting my dad knows. Wasting money for facials and hair salons (she never washes her hair by herself).They were fighting alot. When she got angry, she would beat her kids (a.k.a me) with a stick for no reason. One day(I was 11), she hit me and dragged my hair into the living room, I was crying, and suddenly had the courage to kick her off me. Since then I was this Rebellious kid. I shouted back at her and always telling her what she did wrong. She never listens. I was sent to a boarding school when I was 13. They only visited me TWICE the whole time I was in high school. I hate her.

2007-01-04 13:47:17 · 15 answers · asked by Heartache 2

I mean like ESP between the two? Or knowing the other one got hurt even though you're not there, etc.

2007-01-04 13:35:46 · 6 answers · asked by Bud's Girl 6

Also, do you know of any books or websites giving the correct name you should call each member of your family?

2007-01-04 13:35:01 · 33 answers · asked by alison h 1

I feel helpless. My Aunt ( father's sister ) committed suicide 5 years ago. Depression runs thick in my blood. Now my father and mother split after 30 years. I am close to my dad. Although I feel he has lost his mind. It's only getting worse. We talk for long periods of time on the phone. I do my best to make him feel better, I try SO hard to help him. It just feels as though he is trapped in his own world. So sad, and he tries to listen to my kind words, although just can't. He told me today that he already feels dead, that he has NO self esteem. I said to please keep fighting. Cause I need to know that our family can make it, that we are strong. He answered... That us family are not fighters, that's just how it is. He feels he can't go on. Lately he has not said the words " I will kill myself." Although I know something is really wrong, and it isnt' getting any better. HELP??? I feel so helpess. I feel if my dad committs suicide, then it will poisen me forever.

2007-01-04 13:27:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous