My sister is so annoying!Everyday she hits me for no apparent reason, all i did wuz tell her that she wuz wearing nerdy clothes, or wuz talking like a hillbilly.She doesn't know the meaning of cool she just sits there staring in the mirror looking at herself.I've tried to give her advise on how to do stuff but she won't listen.What do I do?
2007-01-04 14:14:40 · 14 answers · asked by yasmin a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Continue to be patient with your sister. You could try and spend some quality time with her so that way, you guys can bond. Don't mold your sister to be exactly like you. She needs to have her own identity- wearing her own clothes, having her own style, wearing her hair differently, whatever. Blood is thicker than water and you guys will look back at this experience one day and laugh. Be patient and more than likely, she will grow out of that "hillbilly" phase. Hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-01-04 15:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. She wants your attention so play a board game with her or something. But the 1st couple of times she will out up a fight.
And leave her alone about the whole being "coo" that's probably the real reason she hits you or annoys you.
When you're giving her advise be sure to be nice and still let her be herself!
You know it's hard being a girl trying to be pretty and such. Cut your sis some slack.
peace
2007-01-04 14:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying being a tad bit more nice, and patient with your sister. after all it is never what you say rather how you say it. no one wants to be told that their ward robe is out dated or they act less than civilized...if she doesn't know the exact meaning of cool and you do---then take the time and explain your ideal thoughts on coolness she may even agree. She may be aware that some changes can be made, but just to annoy you---she will refuse to do so. Just leave her alone everyone comes into their own at some point or another.
2007-01-04 14:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont try to make your sister just like you. She needs her own individual ways, style and ideas. Your family is the only people you can count on in your life, not friends or boyfriends. If she is younger, she will come to YOU first and foremost for advice on stuff and you both will grow this amazing bond. You'll look back later and laugh about all the crazy stuff you two did like the fights, punching, covert operations your parents knew nothing about. Just give her some space.
2007-01-04 14:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by perkadittle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your sister has some issues on her mind. Maybe she is afraid to tell you because u will say something negative.....(but u are sisters!) It really sounds like she needs to talk to someone..a roll model for her...........YOU!! u are her older sister and if u realize it or not she looks up to you...help her. take her shopping. Not all problems can start out easy.. remember this...baby steps. oh, and don't give up! If u do u will be right back to where u started....I really hoped i helped... if u could, I would like an update and continue to help?
2007-01-04 14:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by KeLs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to tell her in a way that she will understand, you know? like, be real nice, and ask her if you could take her out shopping, and do her hair, but dont eber tell her that its for her own good cause then she'll feel more, "down"
2007-01-04 14:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by Alejandra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to stop annoying her. Leave her be. Your criticism are not good for her, it may make her insecure.
2007-01-04 14:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by nemesis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Copy her behaviour and annoy her like how she annoyed you before. See her reactions on how she likes it.
2007-01-04 14:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by Daffodil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll never not be annoying, now, or in the future.
Insulting her doesn't help.
2007-01-04 14:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Rey Fox 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and let her be a hillbilly.
2007-01-04 14:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋