Family - January 2007

I speak the truth on Dec 23,2006 my brother lost his only child to a drug overdose. After a period of time my neice Brittany Marxmeyer came off of anti depresents and to make a long story short. The mother of Brittany threw her to the street because she was starting a relationship with her father my brother. Brittany's mother and stepfather would not have this and did everything in there power to stop this from happeing. My ex sister in-law wants back child support and will go to great lenghts to get it. She has had my brother put in jail many times. My neice thought her father just walk out of her life and that is not the thruth. I ask someone to please explain to me and my family what kind of people are we dealing with. My neice is gone 14 days later the ex-wife is seeking back payment for what I ask myself and God. This will not bring my niece back and brother does not know yet that Karen plans on seeking back payment. Please someone help me and my family put this to an end. Marlene

2007-01-05 07:28:45 · 5 answers · asked by Marlene A 1

I love my family, we've been very closed always. But the problem comes when my ideas about my life and what I want to do with it, come and they don't agree. I feel I am not strong enough to fight ofr my ideas.

2007-01-05 07:20:49 · 4 answers · asked by Wallace 1

i am taking care of my little cousin more u can say im here nanny well any way she wouldnt listen to a word i say when she get hurt she cries to her mom and than my aunt and i get into it what can i do to make her start liatening to me i am cluess i need help fast

2007-01-05 07:06:16 · 11 answers · asked by jen r 1

ok my parents have a werid privacy issue i have no clue why they cannot trust me my dads fine but my mom feels she need to be in control of everything so she goes through my cell phone and when she feels like it she calls up my friends or my girlfriend and deicdes to ask them questions, one time i even caught her going through my school bag expecting to find what i dont know becasue i dont smoke and i drink sometimes but its not somthing i do alot. she also feels the need to go through my computer when im at school and delete stuff on it she even does that on msn she deletes random contacts..by the way im 16 turing 17 and i have no clue what shes trying to get at but its not helping and it just embarrsess me when my friends tell me that my mom called them? what should i do? becasue this is really starting to piss me off...

2007-01-05 07:03:16 · 7 answers · asked by mike d 1

I have a son who just turned 17. He doesn't want to adhere to the rules of curfew and stays out all night sometimes and comes home whenever he wants. I have to stop it somehow. He told me if I don't like it he will move out that since he is 17 that I can't stop him. I am at my wits end. He is a good kid, but he is stubborn, and right now friends and fun are more important than home and family. I am s single mom, and we have no other issues other than him saying I no longer have control of his actions, that he is free to do what he wants or he will move out and that there is nothing I can do to stop him. I can't keep on living like this. I am not sleeping nights, and I am getting to the point I don't ever see him anymore. How do I stop this. What is the age limit for him to leave home if he so decided to. I thought it was 18 but he says no, when he is 17. Everytime I say anything , he replies, I can just move out if you want me to. I am so tired. He is so arrogant, yet a good kid.

2007-01-05 07:00:37 · 12 answers · asked by texas.okie 2

every day, my father always put's me over his knee, and pulls my pants and underwear all the way down, and starts to spank me really hard with his hand, and it hurts so much.

2007-01-05 06:50:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Being a single mom, I feel like all I do is work, come home, cook, get her ready for bed, and thats it! I am so frustrated with myself! I want to spend more time with her, yet I don't. Any suggestions on how I can make time to do things with my lil one??

2007-01-05 06:41:17 · 14 answers · asked by me 1

what kind of chores did you do?
did you have to do them or you wanted to?

2007-01-05 06:38:40 · 5 answers · asked by girl24gr 3

Growing up I had a dad. I thought as a kid that a father's love for a daughter was something special, something unique, something that couldn't be compared for much else. My image of my father was shattered at 16 years of age when it came to light that my father was a pedophile -- he had been abusing all of his children in infancy (I have 6 younger siblings). Of course, I don't remember it, but it's severely damaged my idea of a father. I am skeptical of all those "Daddy's Little Girl" songs and what not... I'm not even sure anymore if fathers can really be as loving as I thought they were. This doesn't generally bother me, but I'm wondering if it will affect my family when I have one -- My relationship with my kids, and with my future husband. But anyway, what are your experiences and observations concerning fathers and daughters? Was I just mistaken to think there was a special bond? Was it some sick manifestation of supressed memories of the abuse?

2007-01-05 06:25:31 · 4 answers · asked by Viki 4

We have the opportunity to move to Germany (for 5-8 years or more) - sure it's a great experience, but I can't help but wonder if it will hurt my kids in the long run. We've moved four times during the last 14 years.

2007-01-05 06:17:29 · 7 answers · asked by Reenbeen 1

Ok, you know what people you are all not perfect now are you?
There is obviosly more to the story then you people know but not enough space to write it all. I was asking a question for help not to be called names and feel like a piece of ****! Yes, my husband did take me back and we are stronger them ever! We have a beautiful daughter who is 18 months old. We are a happy healthy family. Thank you and have a wonderful day all you negative souls.

2007-01-05 06:13:15 · 5 answers · asked by bootylicious 2

2007-01-05 06:06:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i see all of the peopel telling me that i need a new friend but she she my frined in first grade and i dont know hpw to tell her that she is not fun to by with and i cant do it .

2007-01-05 06:00:50 · 3 answers · asked by sakuragirl25 2

Who's fault is it? My sister already knows that Im not good with directions and then on top of that she gave me wrong ones. The only reason shes mad is cuz Im driving her car. She keeps sayin that I should've got off the exit that looked familiar instead of following the directions SHE gave me. She wont admit the fact that her directions were wrong.

2007-01-05 05:52:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 4 beautiful step children. My husband and I have had custody of them for 4 years now. This past summer their mom moved to Kentucky to live with her mom to "get well." She is an acoholic who suffers from severe depression. This Christmas she saw the kids over break and the kids were delighted to see her but at the same time angry that she isn't moving back and can't "not drink" unless she's in Kentucky. How do I help my babies through this confusing time and make sure they know its not their fault their mom drinks and/or its not their responsibilty to take care of her. They are 7, 8 and 9 for gosh sakes! They shouldn't have to be burdened with something like this... Help, please.

2007-01-05 05:51:47 · 10 answers · asked by Euphoria 2

I'm 13 and in 8th grade. I've been cutting since 7th and Trying to commit suicide since 6th. I have also runaway 9 times, the first time I was 8. My parents abuse me physically and emotionaly. it started with hitting, then they cut my stomach, a few days ago. and yesturday they tried to drownd me, I know have to get away but I have no where to go and I don't know what to do about it. Please help me!

2007-01-05 05:36:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend gave me purple eyes my head is swollen like freddy cooger. He was drunk an dosent remember I have no car an my school is in our city but I want to move back to Las angeles. Please tell me what is the fastes way to get out to keep myself together. I am young an I cant belive the way I look an I still love him

2007-01-05 05:26:02 · 10 answers · asked by christina 1

i think it is cuz my friend told me he got caught by hes parents and he said he felt really stupid like never before

2007-01-05 05:23:06 · 6 answers · asked by CrunkY 1

my sister is 16 and shes pregnant. She came to me first for advice. She has not told are parents yet??? What do I say to her, im really upset. She has no boyfriend, and not sure of the father??? Please help. I want to be there for her so what do I say?

2007-01-05 05:11:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

need help is anyone old enough out there to help me find my famliy i am not getting younger please very important i also have a 14 year old son i want them to see thank you tania

2007-01-05 05:07:56 · 4 answers · asked by tania c 1

When she is near the fridge I ask her nicely "Will you get me a beer while your up" And she is not listen because she comes back to the Living room and often times has NO BEER for me..What should I do to correct the problem?

2007-01-05 05:02:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you talk to them without offending them but so they hear you. I have talked to my boyfriend a few times, but it just doesnt stick. He will want to quit but he doesnt. I have also talked with his mom. Its known that he takes them, but she didnt realize the amount. He will take 15 in a day if they were avaiable or he had the money.

2007-01-05 05:01:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I have good relationship with her and make her trust me? I pay attention to her good enough but she gets angry easily.It's difficult for me to behave calmly anymore.

2007-01-05 04:47:53 · 5 answers · asked by Mahshid N 1

she is 52 yrs old, divorced and i want to take her some where nice and fun any suggestions???

2007-01-05 04:47:45 · 3 answers · asked by sourgirl 3

This bugs the crap out of me...don't know why. It has got to the point where a childs parents are no longer "Husband" or "Wife", not even boyfriend or girlfriend. Sad state of affairs if you ask me, we need a designation for "That guy that knocked me up and took off." Can we just call him that?

2007-01-05 04:42:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

forensic anthropoligist do you think I'll still have time to have a family?

2007-01-05 04:41:04 · 7 answers · asked by Kendra 2

I am in a custody case and i have trouble with jobs and money. i feel like i am stuck in a corner and people are trowing blows at me.

2007-01-05 04:40:51 · 7 answers · asked by ANGELA T 1

i am a strict Dad, does that make a mean dad? another thing is my wife favors our son more than our daughters. how do u break this this? i treat all my kids no differently. i think this should be also with my wife. sometimes we argue about this. whats the best way to resovlve this? thanks.........

2007-01-05 04:39:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

wants to start dating my son again. Do you think it is possible for them to get together again and possibly get married??? Our entire family adores this young lady (they are both 25), they dated for 7 years exclusively.

2007-01-05 04:39:15 · 8 answers · asked by wanninonni 6

yesterday he came home from work . he had bad day he when to the bath room but i forget to buy toilet paper and he got mad then he comes out of the bathroom to tell me the that house look crap. i also have a 1month old infant. he started yelling at me and cursing too. so right now when are still sleeping in the same bed even though i really dont wont to the only i do is the baby sleep in there.

2007-01-05 04:36:56 · 25 answers · asked by rosemary j 2