I am in a custody case and i have trouble with jobs and money. i feel like i am stuck in a corner and people are trowing blows at me.
2007-01-05 04:40:51 · 7 answers · asked by ANGELA T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Okay, this happens to everyone at a point and time in their life. What you should do is to try and stop making yourself seem like the victim. Try remembering those things that matter to you in life, like that child your fighting custody for, so that can help you stay motivated. What you should also do is stop being so hard on yourself. Remember that you are only human and can only do so much but if you know in your heart that you did your best than that is all that matters. It would be good for you to always take the time out of your day to sit and meditate to help you relax and to focus on the good things in your life. Don't try to over-do yourself.
Everybody goes through this it's a part of life what I want you to remember is that it's not the end of anything, just a new beginning.
2007-01-05 05:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by luv 4 dogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can be tough, can't it? I'm sure everything looks real bad now because of what you are going through. But believe it or not, most all of us have been there at one time...Myself included.
My own problems came to me because of my wrong choices. I didn't realize it at the time.. My wrong choices came because I didn't give enought thought to my decisions...
You need to just stop and think about your future and where you want to be...It all takes time...I assume you are an adult.
As far as your job goes, just keep doing the best job you can while employed currently, until you find a beter job..And while looking for a better job, there will be a box for you to check if they can contact your current employer and say NO.. If hired, then they can call them....You don't want to put current job in jeopardy....
Pay your bills, put a few dollars aside for emergencies, or ?,
Keep your head up, think better of yourself, don't look like you have no confidence , it's there...take a deep breath....look in the mirrow and tell yourself that you love you, and you can do anything............good luck with custody.....
2007-01-05 04:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But after all this you will be such a strong person! You just keep in mind "what doesn't kill me will only make me stronger"!
All of our actions have consequences, sometimes we don't preplan things very well or make good decisions and then the backlash is more than what we want to deal with. But you have the choice to change things in your life and make better choices. Learn from your mistakes and you will find yourself in less and less of a mess. I'm not saying you deserve what you are going through, just learn from it and make new choices.
Life is hard, very hard sometimes, but what you learn during those times makes you a stronger and better person. Keep your chin up and eyes forward!
2007-01-05 04:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am a single full time dad, I went threw the same thing just hold on be strong it will all get better in time, I wish you all of the luck in the world.
2007-01-05 04:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by dpfitzell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and plan things out. Take and fix them one at a time. It is impossible to do everything at once. Make and plan, take things slow and you will get by. Just believe!! Best of luck!
2007-01-05 04:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
miss blonde your gonna need a angel and he give you lots of $ to win the custody battle.
2007-01-05 04:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by ihateacaf0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ive been there, sometimes i still feel that way you hafto find a new outlook , so dont give up youll find your way,tackle one issue at a time
2007-01-05 04:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋