How do you talk to them without offending them but so they hear you. I have talked to my boyfriend a few times, but it just doesnt stick. He will want to quit but he doesnt. I have also talked with his mom. Its known that he takes them, but she didnt realize the amount. He will take 15 in a day if they were avaiable or he had the money.
2007-01-05 05:01:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm having the same problem with my brother. Only he doesn't just do pills he also drinks and smokes pot everyday. That's just right now he has also been know to do coke and many others! The bad thing about it is that he's almost 25 yrs old has two children that live just on the other side of town that he Never see's and is living off my mother!! He's been known of stealing her medication and money. If he wasn't my brother then i wouldn't have anything to do with him at all. If your having a problem with your boyfriend then maybe you should remove yourself from the situation while he gets the help that he needs. If his mother is defending him, like mine does, then that's the biggest reason he hasn't stoped plus any addiction is a bad habit to break.
I now your worried about your boyfriend but know that you have the power to control your own life. Let him know how much he means to you and that you need him around! That's what i'm going to have to say to my own brother. Easier said than done!
2007-01-05 06:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't talk to your boyfriend about his addiction because your not talking to him, your talking to the addict he's become. You need to get professional help for him right away whether he likes it or not. He can't beat this on his own and he'll drag you and everyone around him down with him unless you get him the help he needs.
2007-01-05 13:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by cowboy1970 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I used to be one, let me help you here. You can't. The very best thing you can do is to turn your back unless they need a ride directly to a 12 step meeting or rehab. People turning their backs on me SAVED MY LIFE!
2007-01-05 13:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. he needs to get counseling or into a rehab center before the police do it for him. let's just hope he doesn't drag you or anyone else down with him.
2007-01-05 13:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋